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How do I begin to handle rejection better?
So I struggle with self harm and do it for multiple reasons, usually when feeling insecure, not getting enough validation at the time or especially when facing rejection.
Here’s a story, so I was in a convenience store with my mate buying energy drinks to give us the energy to go clubbing all night. There was this Asian girl with her friend in the store also. I pointed out to my mate that she was pretty (high mtb) and he approached her for me because I didn’t have the confidence to do so myself due to insecurities. Anyways she seemed a little awkward and uninterested and I could tell she wasn’t interested but I asked for her instagram anyways, she reluctantly gave it to me and I already had a pit in my stomach due to this interaction. I was ranting to my mate about how she wasn’t interested in me and probably hated me. Now I trust his opinion a lot because he’s honest and was the one who actually introduced me to this website, so he’s not just some happy go lucky Normie. He told me she was just shy and was actually interested and I reluctantly took his advice and enjoyed the rest of the night clubbing. As I was in an uber going home I checked to see if she accepted my friend request and to my horror it said “follow” meaning she denied it. This has happened before and I call it “request trauma”, request trauma being when a girl denies your friend request on ig and you see the dreaded “follow” which is worse than it just staying as “requested”. Anyways back to the story, I felt this intense change in my emotions and messaged that friend about it and he managed to calm me down for the time being. When I got home it resurfaced in my mind and that strong feeling of emptiness, self hatred and dread gloomed over me. I ended up crashing out on instagram about how much I hate myself and want to die etc (not the first time doing so unfortunately), that mate saw the story and told me to take it down so I did so. However I ended up self harming (cutting) and did so for about a week relentlessly until I finally got over the whole conundrum. I just can’t stop self harming especially when facing rejection, please help.
 
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if one girl rejects you then it means you are not naturally attractive
 
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if one girl rejects you then it means you are not naturally attractive
It’s so over then, Chad never gets rejected. My mate who is also on this site and is black pilled said that everyone gets rejected even people like Chico and Barrett. I don’t believe him though. It’s over for me I should just rope.
 
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I dont get self harming just do drugs instead
 
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self-harm isn't worth it.
 
Don't seek happiness from external validation. This will only make you want more, and when you fail, it will impact you more than any compliments you get.
 
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How do I begin to handle rejection better?
So I struggle with self harm and do it for multiple reasons, usually when feeling insecure, not getting enough validation at the time or especially when facing rejection.
Here’s a story, so I was in a convenience store with my mate buying energy drinks to give us the energy to go clubbing all night. There was this Asian girl with her friend in the store also. I pointed out to my mate that she was pretty (high mtb) and he approached her for me because I didn’t have the confidence to do so myself due to insecurities. Anyways she seemed a little awkward and uninterested and I could tell she wasn’t interested but I asked for her instagram anyways, she reluctantly gave it to me and I already had a pit in my stomach due to this interaction. I was ranting to my mate about how she wasn’t interested in me and probably hated me. Now I trust his opinion a lot because he’s honest and was the one who actually introduced me to this website, so he’s not just some happy go lucky Normie. He told me she was just shy and was actually interested and I reluctantly took his advice and enjoyed the rest of the night clubbing. As I was in an uber going home I checked to see if she accepted my friend request and to my horror it said “follow” meaning she denied it. This has happened before and I call it “request trauma”, request trauma being when a girl denies your friend request on ig and you see the dreaded “follow” which is worse than it just staying as “requested”. Anyways back to the story, I felt this intense change in my emotions and messaged that friend about it and he managed to calm me down for the time being. When I got home it resurfaced in my mind and that strong feeling of emptiness, self hatred and dread gloomed over me. I ended up crashing out on instagram about how much I hate myself and want to die etc (not the first time doing so unfortunately), that mate saw the story and told me to take it down so I did so. However I ended up self harming (cutting) and did so for about a week relentlessly until I finally got over the whole conundrum. I just can’t stop self harming especially when facing rejection, please help.
chico pfp dnr
 
It’s so over then, Chad never gets rejected. My mate who is also on this site and is black pilled said that everyone gets rejected even people like Chico and Barrett. I don’t believe him though. It’s over for me I should just rope.
rope is the only thing left
 
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What’s the psychology behind self-harming like, moreso specifically the motive behind it? I have heard/read one theory that the physical pain as a result of self-harming helps distract from the emotional pain of whatever the catalyst is
 
What’s the psychology behind self-harming like, moreso specifically the motive behind it? I have heard/read one theory that the physical pain as a result of self-harming helps distract from the emotional pain of whatever the catalyst is
That but also an act of self punishment.
 
How do I begin to handle rejection better?
So I struggle with self harm and do it for multiple reasons, usually when feeling insecure, not getting enough validation at the time or especially when facing rejection.
Here’s a story, so I was in a convenience store with my mate buying energy drinks to give us the energy to go clubbing all night. There was this Asian girl with her friend in the store also. I pointed out to my mate that she was pretty (high mtb) and he approached her for me because I didn’t have the confidence to do so myself due to insecurities. Anyways she seemed a little awkward and uninterested and I could tell she wasn’t interested but I asked for her instagram anyways, she reluctantly gave it to me and I already had a pit in my stomach due to this interaction. I was ranting to my mate about how she wasn’t interested in me and probably hated me. Now I trust his opinion a lot because he’s honest and was the one who actually introduced me to this website, so he’s not just some happy go lucky Normie. He told me she was just shy and was actually interested and I reluctantly took his advice and enjoyed the rest of the night clubbing. As I was in an uber going home I checked to see if she accepted my friend request and to my horror it said “follow” meaning she denied it. This has happened before and I call it “request trauma”, request trauma being when a girl denies your friend request on ig and you see the dreaded “follow” which is worse than it just staying as “requested”. Anyways back to the story, I felt this intense change in my emotions and messaged that friend about it and he managed to calm me down for the time being. When I got home it resurfaced in my mind and that strong feeling of emptiness, self hatred and dread gloomed over me. I ended up crashing out on instagram about how much I hate myself and want to die etc (not the first time doing so unfortunately), that mate saw the story and told me to take it down so I did so. However I ended up self harming (cutting) and did so for about a week relentlessly until I finally got over the whole conundrum. I just can’t stop self harming especially when facing rejection, please help.
we have 16 year old malnourished self-harming edtwt girls who listen to rebzyyx here now
 
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How do I begin to handle rejection better?
So I struggle with self harm and do it for multiple reasons, usually when feeling insecure, not getting enough validation at the time or especially when facing rejection.
Here’s a story, so I was in a convenience store with my mate buying energy drinks to give us the energy to go clubbing all night. There was this Asian girl with her friend in the store also. I pointed out to my mate that she was pretty (high mtb) and he approached her for me because I didn’t have the confidence to do so myself due to insecurities. Anyways she seemed a little awkward and uninterested and I could tell she wasn’t interested but I asked for her instagram anyways, she reluctantly gave it to me and I already had a pit in my stomach due to this interaction. I was ranting to my mate about how she wasn’t interested in me and probably hated me. Now I trust his opinion a lot because he’s honest and was the one who actually introduced me to this website, so he’s not just some happy go lucky Normie. He told me she was just shy and was actually interested and I reluctantly took his advice and enjoyed the rest of the night clubbing. As I was in an uber going home I checked to see if she accepted my friend request and to my horror it said “follow” meaning she denied it. This has happened before and I call it “request trauma”, request trauma being when a girl denies your friend request on ig and you see the dreaded “follow” which is worse than it just staying as “requested”. Anyways back to the story, I felt this intense change in my emotions and messaged that friend about it and he managed to calm me down for the time being. When I got home it resurfaced in my mind and that strong feeling of emptiness, self hatred and dread gloomed over me. I ended up crashing out on instagram about how much I hate myself and want to die etc (not the first time doing so unfortunately), that mate saw the story and told me to take it down so I did so. However I ended up self harming (cutting) and did so for about a week relentlessly until I finally got over the whole conundrum. I just can’t stop self harming especially when facing rejection, please help.
Sounds like bpd. Why would you want someone who doesn't want you back
 
It’s so over then, Chad never gets rejected. My mate who is also on this site and is black pilled said that everyone gets rejected even people like Chico and Barrett. I don’t believe him though. It’s over for me I should just rope.
Prime chico would never get rejected your friend is coping
 
This isnt to do with the rejection theres clearly a root cause here. With the way you think you could get 10 instas in 1 night but then the one that doesnt follow you back youll crash out over. You js need help
 
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instead of cutting yourself or whatever just get the hammer and start violently bone smashing bro!
 

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