Serious question to people who used Tinder and online shit

Chico Chicowski

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What is ur general advice?

Only reply back, or message first? if she doesnt put effort then leave of what?
I have a lot of matches, most of them fuckable as fuck but Im doing nothing and not get many first-messages
over?


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got this match, and what should I do?
 
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Just be straight up with what you want. Less bs, less time wasted.
 
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just liftmaxx u manlet
 
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I need to fuck her
 
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Be nice
 
tyronelite said:
Just be straight up with what you want. Less bs, less time wasted.
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nah, i mean in general
should i even message first?
or no her first messaging = not gl enough?
 
Chico Chicowski said:
nah, i mean in general
should i even message first?
or no her first messaging = not gl enough?
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Yes message first, 90% of them won't unless you're gl. Remember you're competing with 100+ other guys. Use tinder as a safety net, go out and social circle max.
 
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tyronelite said:
Yes message first, 90% of them won't unless you're gl. Remember you're competing with 100+ other guys. Use tinder as a safety net, go out and social circle max.
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if i message them, how should i qualify them? if dont put effort stop the convo or what?
 
tyronelite said:
Qualify them ? What's your objective?
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not to waste time and not to make a fool of myself
aka if she is not into me, she wont give much output
thats why im curious if should have 0/1 mentality with
either she messages me first or death of our relation
 
Never message first, most girls there are just looking for validation, I legit even had foids who I mog by at least 3 points text me first and never text back after I replied
 
Thongmaster said:
Never message first, most girls there are just looking for validation, I legit even had foids who I mog by at least 3 points text me first and never text back after I replied
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alternative/advice?
 
btw, i have 58 days left to complete my challenge
 
Chico Chicowski said:
not to waste time and not to make a fool of myself
aka if she is not into me, she wont give much output
thats why im curious if should have 0/1 mentality with
either she messages me first or death of our relation
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No I meant are you just lookin to hookup or relationships?
 
tyronelite said:
No I meant are you just lookin to hookup or relationships?
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rather hookup at first or fwb aka relationhip without obligations and drama
 
Chico Chicowski said:
rather hookup at first or fwb aka relationhip without obligations and drama
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Ok great. After you let them know, weed them out. If they're not giving you a straight up answer or going idk, we'll see, maybe, move to the next one. If you get one word answers, move to the next one, etc.
 
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chad
 
inceletto said:
Mirin my approaching skills?
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Yea bro. Need to Instagram Maxx after leanmaxxing. Tried @Hashtaggolu Chadfish on Bumble 0 matches.
 
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Chadeep said:
Yea bro. Need to Instagram Maxx after leanmaxxing. Tried @Hashtaggolu Chsdfish on Bumble 0 matches.
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Closed my Insta since i'm obesecel,We'll have great instas when we re full lean tbh ngl fr (brutal for @Hashtaggolu )
 
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Man I feel like some girls these days are autistic

I was talking to a girl who wasn’t putting any effort but when I asked her to hangout she was down... and I could’ve fucked her but I was 60-70% hard (too much fapping I guess) but still got bj

but most girls put effort if they’re interested
 
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Biggdink said:
Man I feel like some girls these days are autistic

I was talking to a girl who wasn’t putting any effort but when I asked her to hangout she was down... and I could’ve fucked her but I was 60-70% hard (too much fapping I guess) but still got bj

but most girls put effort if they’re interested
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Water is indeed wet gaycel noone wants to put effort for a subhuman
 
you have it or you dont
 
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Biggdink said:
You have pakistani flag

I’m upper tier white
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I meant we already know this bro,no girl will put effort on someone whose her looksmatch or below
 
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inceletto said:
I meant we already know this bro,no girl will put effort on someone whose her looksmatch or below
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Idk depends on her options
If she’s talking to chads yea she won’t put much effort
 
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Chico Chicowski said:
What is ur general advice?

Only reply back, or message first? if she doesnt put effort then leave of what?
I have a lot of matches, most of them fuckable as fuck but Im doing nothing and not get many first-messages
over?


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got this match, and what should I do?
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I banged 72 chicks in 2 years from tinder/bumble. I am qualified to answer this.


My experience: It doesn't matter what you say or don't say. It is pre-determined.
Most of the chicks I ended up slaying texted me *first* and were very enthusiastic almost simping. This is very good as I am a busy guy and it saves me time not having to go through matches and texting. I only respond to them.
Some roughly 20-30% I texted first but they were very enthusiastic too, so the deed happened. It flows organically.
You needs hundreds/thousands of matches. I remember when I was living in London I had 2,000+.
All the 72 slays I referred to happened in USA.
 
DrTony said:
I banged 72 chicks in 2 years from tinder/bumble. I am qualified to answer this.


My experience: It doesn't matter what you say or don't say. It is pre-determined.
Most of the chicks I ended up slaying texted me *first* and were very enthusiastic almost simping. This is very good as I am a busy guy and it saves me time not having to go through matches and texting. I only respond to them.
Some roughly 20-30% I texted first but they were very enthusiastic too, so the deed happened. It flows organically.
You needs hundreds/thousands of matches. I remember when I was living in London I had 2,000+.
All the 72 slays I referred to happened in USA.
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Larp or 6+ PSL?
 
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Be straight up honestly
 
Be good looking and everything else is irrelevant
 
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DrTony said:
Been rates 4.5-5PSL here. I am normie-tier.
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How the f women messaged u first? Especially in competetive western market? Numbers games or landwhales?
 
Chico Chicowski said:
How the f women messaged u first? Especially in competetive western market? Numbers games or landwhales?
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Because *they* think I am handsome. Even though I am not particularly good looking by objective criteria.
 
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Message first unless you're 1% Chad.

Statusmaxx, humourmaxx and nocontactmaxx my friend and don't message more than 5 times without closing the deal srs.
 
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Chico Chicowski said:
Just be yourself theory? If not gl enough doesnt matter anyway theory?
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Oh if youre ugly theres no reason to even consider being on it jfl but since im a gl guy for my race I got lays just by asking and if they dont respond I tell them youre not pretty enough to leave a nigga on read, they usually insult back but theyre too high inhib to keep someone matched long enough for them to read it (I read what they say from the emails I get jfl)
 
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