Settle Down With A Girl

[randomvanish]

Basically you don't want to be with the same person in long time everyday but if you cheat on a becky/stacy/stacylite, she'll cheat on you too and you'll fail hard by crossing the line of trust.
So according to my experience, in real life there are 2 types of succesful marriage if you are not a chad/really rich/really high status man :


1- Marrying with a girl who admires you, (probably a girl below your leauge, a normie you can like intimately) while you constantly cheating on her with beckies or above (of course secretly but all in all, you gonna get caught)
or

2- Marrying a stacy or a stacylite, and then divorce.


This 2 is the only choices to get a happy marriage. Of course there are others if you are bluepilled but i'm talking about blackpilled people like us.

For the choice 2, I've seen couples like that and for some reason females wants to be in a relationship like that too. They want to feel jealous and feel you can lose you anytime, feel like she's replaceable anytime etc. (especially insecure women)
Also even if somehow i magically become a gigachad or chad, i wouldn't trust a stacy anyway. Chads get cuck too if they are with stacies. It's unreliable being with a stacy in long run.


So, which one you would choose and why ?



PS : This works for only if you are at least high tier normie + status or chadlite and above. Assume you're ascended already. I want to have children so don't say "don't marry"

 

[Deleted member 5694]

Why would I ever want to get married

 

[Deleted member 5683]

I read all your shit and it didn't make sense

 

[randomvanish]

Why would I ever want to get married

already explained.

PS : This works for only if you are high tier normie + status or chadlite and above. Assume you're ascended already. I want to have children so don't say "don't marry"

I read all your shit and it didn't make sense

why ?
@eduardkoopman i wonder what your thougths on this too.

 

[Deleted member 6310]

Where’s the option for choosing a near looksmatch who you can trust, and actually like? At my job this is the case for MANY of my coworkers and they all appear genuinely happy with their life and kids.& most are just normie tier in looks.

 

[randomvanish]

Where’s the option for choosing a near looksmatch who you can trust, and actually like? At my job this is the case for MANY of my coworkers and they all appear genuinely happy with their life and kids.& most are just normie tier in looks.

I know but that's why i said "if you are blackpilled".
I don't know if only that's me but i feel like i need to slept with stacies or beckies since i recognize the nature about blackpill.
i just don't think i would be a normie and stay married with a normie without cheating on her.

 

[Deleted member 6310]

I know but that's why i said "if you are blackpilled".
I don't know if only that's me but i feel like i need to slept with stacies or beckies since i recognize the nature about blackpill.
i just don't think i would be a normie and stay married with a normie without cheating on her.

cheating bc you want kids with better looking girls, or just because you need to have validation from sex with stacies? I’m not sure I follow. If I had a looksmatched wife who was loyal, I couldn’t ask for more tbh. But I am definitely normie in looks, and probably low tier from my height. maybe that’s why. not sure about you

 

[randomvanish]

cheating bc you want kids with better looking girls, or just because you need to have validation from sex with stacies? I’m not sure I follow. If I had a looksmatched wife who was loyal, I couldn’t ask for more tbh. But I am definitely normie in looks, and probably low tier from my height. maybe that’s why. not sure about you

Well, i'm not sure tbh. But at first i meant cheating just because i want to have sex with stacies/stacylites.

I had 3 long time relationships with looksmatch girls. All ended up in misery because i think at some point they wanted to be with high valued man/chads.
2 of them started to praise some chads or chadlites by comparing me. I think they started feel like they don't love me anymore. I was heart broke and blaming myself about the things but in reality, they want just more than looksmatch.

Of course you cannot generalize relationships with 2-3 occasions, reality is much more complex than that.
I know full-grown stacies with problematic normies/high tier normies. They are like their mothers and their relationship lasts because of psychological traits those women have.
Think like "daddy issues". I remember in high school&college there were girls who really wants to fuck older saggy man with bad attitude.
Some relationships rely on fantasies and psychological problems.

However these are the outliers. To behave effectively on the sexual market we need to generalize things, with blackpill we do this.
I need also rship advice to behave to make it more effective.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Settles me. XD

 

[wannabenormie]

I can't really speak about your cases op because it's hard to tell what happened not seeing it firsthand but what you described is crap.
Just imagine reverse scenario where you marry someone who you really like and after 30 years you discover that she fucked every better/same psl looking dick she could find (which with tinder is not a problem).
Marrying someone above your league also has cons as you will be afraid/jealous in case some other guy appears (and if she looks good then he most probably will appear).

 

[Deleted member 5393]

LTR is for cucks

 

[Chadeep]

In marriage you have everything to lose as a man.

 

[randomvanish]

I can't really speak about your cases op because it's hard to tell what happened not seeing it firsthand but what you described is crap.
Just imagine reverse scenario where you marry someone who you really like and after 30 years you discover that she fucked every better/same psl looking dick she could find (which with tinder is not a problem).
Marrying someone above your league also has cons as you will be afraid/jealous in case some other guy appears (and if she looks good then he most probably will appear).

you can be cheated on without knowing in a lifetime of course (my grandad died without knowing he's cheated on constantly) it can happen anytime with any people.
but with some kind of women probabilities goes sky rocket.

 

[Lev Peshkov]

Don't marry. Have kids through egg donation. Do lions or other animals get married? No. The dump their load and leave. You should too.

 

[Tony]

LTR is for cucks

thx leid, but ur kinde mentlcel b4sed on ur utube vids, ur fkn espie

 

[randomvanish]

thx leid, but ur kinde mentlcel b4sed on ur utube vids, ur fkn espie

what youtube videos ?

 

[Tony]

what youtube videos ?

@cocainecowboy

 

[Deleted member 6217]

In marriage you have everything to lose as a man.

Sad shit bro my dad has too pay my mother 20 years eventhough she divorced him
Hate her for that

 

[randomvanish]

Sad shit bro my dad has too pay my mother 20 years eventhough she divorced him
Hate her for that

your father is impotent, mama need hard cocks

 

[wannabenormie]

you can be cheated on without knowing in a lifetime of course (my grandad died without knowing he's cheated on constantly) it can happen anytime with any people.
but with some kind of women probabilities goes sky rocket.

Then don't marry at all or just don't do cheating crap, especially if you are with someone who is really into you.

 

[john2]

In marriage you have everything to lose as a man.

Not if you're on a prenuptial agreement.

That's what i'm going to be doing bhai.

So i don't lose ANY of my hard earned wealth to my wife, if i divorce.

 

[Chadeep]

Not if you're on a prenuptial agreement.

That's what i'm going to be doing bhai.

So i don't lose ANY of my hard earned wealth to my wife, if i divorce.

Best tbh. I feel like roping after seeing degeneracy of indian women increasing High tier normie fucked 30-40 girls in a year when he was in Pune.

 

[Deleted member 6341]

Marrying a loyal and trustworthy stacy or a stacylite is the ultimate red pill.

Ugly girls are actually more likely to cheat on their better looking boyfriends, given the opportunity. They are propositioned more casually by more men than attractive women are. And because of their naturally low self esteem, they usually try to compensate by fucking more men.

I believe that there are more loyal and intelligent ones among the good looking women, especially if they have been brought up by both parents, and with education and money.