
Xangsane
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I don't sympathize the guys who complain about no one wanting them because they all go for the same type of womenRant(self.blackgirls)
submitted 2 days ago by JammingScientist to /r/blackgirls
99% of the time when guys complain about no one wanting them, it's because they're upset the cute white or east Asian or light skinned Latina women don't want them. It's not because all women don't want them. Of course the cute women who are wanted worldwide are going to have higher standards since they are wanted and desired more...by everyone. Not just white or east Asian men or Latino men, but all men. They don't see other women
So they're not really checking for someone who is black, darker, very nerdy looking and small like me. I just look like a disgusting roach or nuisance to them. They want the ones who they actually deem are "real women". It's embarrassing seeing then all try to get these women's attention and talk to them and stuff, while ignoring or being hostile towards my existence.
And everything they say is fake. They say they want someone smart, funny, kind, caring, etc. Buy really they want someone who is white/Asian, thin with curves, tall, etc FIRST and then is everything else. And then if they don't have those qualities, but still look hot, they'll overlook it.
Even if someone were to give me a chance, I'd never be good enough for them because they'd view me as lower than them. They'd be harsher and more critical off me and expect me to be 100% perfect with zero slip ups, and go nuclear on me or start to hate me just from me existing or making small errors, while other women can cheat on their bfs and steal their money, and these same guys would be completely fine. They would look for any excuse to hate me and go after the better women that they can feel proud to show off to their family and friends. I often wonder how differently I'd be viewed if everything about me was the same, but I fit the eurocentric beauty standards more.