Should a man want to commit?

[MedMogger]

Hey guys
So I’m not sure if I’ve been too promiscuous in the past or what, but I’m struggling with the thought of any commitment to a girl.

I read threads here, and it seems all you guys (and majority of men worldwide) want to be in long term relationships. But to me, the thought of committing myself to one girl for life terrifies me - knowing I can’t ever experience anything with any other girls sounds like an eternity of hell.

Majority of girls I meet/get with when I’m out are usually not exceptional looking (just averagely okay for a quick fling). But last week when I was out on Saturday, I got with probably the fittest girl I’ve ever had on a night out tbh. She was incredibly drunk, but she was also incredibly clingy, telling me she’s now looking for a husband, and that she thinks she loves me (on that night). And has been clingyly messaging me this last week.

My concern is, she looks incredibly fit but I still can’t see myself settling down with her.

Have I ruined my brain and perception of women, and now will never be able to have a serious relationship?

 

[not__cel]

No we were meant to be in polygamous relationships with multiple women but one is fine

If you can’t manage to just not cheat (giga autist) you should find out ways to cheat secretively

 

[fluxx]

by biology we were just mean to be fucking every women around impregnating her, but if u want to stay with one like most people(including me) that's totally normal

 

[MedMogger]

No we were meant to be in polygamous relationships with multiple women but one is fine

If you can’t manage to just not cheat (giga autist) you should find out ways to cheat secretively

I’ve believed this too. It feels like the thought of me committing to one girl is going against nature.

I’ve only ever had one ex, and I cheated on her. Crazy thing is she never knew, and I feel 0 guilt about the whole thing. Like even if I stayed with her I still wouldn’t feel the need to tell her.

But why does it make me a giga autist if I need to sleep with multiple women?

 

[MedMogger]

by biology we were just mean to be fucking every women around impregnating her, but if u want to stay with one like most people(including me) that's totally normal

Yh that’s the thing. I just know it feels right biologically. But then I have my family looking down on me (especially my mum nowadays) for my beliefs.

 

[fluxx]

But why does it make me a giga autist if I need to sleep with multiple women?

cuz u cant fit in with most of society

 

[MedMogger]

cuz u cant fit in with most of society

Oh. I mean I’m aware I don’t fit in like that. That’s why I turned to improving my looks like crazy over the last few years.

But surely there are women around that are also like me and don’t want to commit?

Cause how tf can I be meeting girls in a club looking for a husband?

 

[fluxx]

Oh. I mean I’m aware I don’t fit in like that. That’s why I turned to improving my looks like crazy over the last few years.

But surely there are women around that are also like me and don’t want to commit?

Cause how tf can I be meeting girls in a club looking for a husband?

you will regret not committing in the long run, one day u will just be tired from slaying and would want to commit

 

[MedMogger]

you will regret not committing in the long run, one day u will just be tired from slaying and would want to commit

Are you sure though? My uncle never committed. He’s in his 70s now and still sleeps around with young girls.

 

[Primalsplit]

Hey guys
So I’m not sure if I’ve been too promiscuous in the past or what, but I’m struggling with the thought of any commitment to a girl.

I read threads here, and it seems all you guys (and majority of men worldwide) want to be in long term relationships. But to me, the thought of committing myself to one girl for life terrifies me - knowing I can’t ever experience anything with any other girls sounds like an eternity of hell.

Majority of girls I meet/get with when I’m out are usually not exceptional looking (just averagely okay for a quick fling). But last week when I was out on Saturday, I got with probably the fittest girl I’ve ever had on a night out tbh. She was incredibly drunk, but she was also incredibly clingy, telling me she’s now looking for a husband, and that she thinks she loves me (on that night). And has been clingyly messaging me this last week.

My concern is, she looks incredibly fit but I still can’t see myself settling down with her.

Have I ruined my brain and perception of women, and now will never be able to have a serious relationship?

Did you bang her?