Should a man want to commit?

[MedMogger]

Hey guys
So I’m not sure if I’ve been too promiscuous in the past or what, but I’m struggling with the thought of any commitment to a girl.

I read threads here, and it seems all you guys (and majority of men worldwide) want to be in long term relationships. But to me, the thought of committing myself to one girl for life terrifies me - knowing I can’t ever experience anything with any other girls sounds like an eternity of hell.

Majority of girls I meet/get with when I’m out are usually not exceptional looking (just averagely okay for a quick fling). But last week when I was out on Saturday, I got with probably the fittest girl I’ve ever had on a night out tbh. She was incredibly drunk, but she was also incredibly clingy, telling me she’s now looking for a husband, and that she thinks she loves me (on that night). And has been clingyly messaging me this last week.

My concern is, she looks incredibly fit but I still can’t see myself settling down with her.

Have I ruined my brain and perception of women, and now will never be able to have a serious relationship?

 

[not__cel]

No we were meant to be in polygamous relationships with multiple women but one is fine

If you can’t manage to just not cheat (giga autist) you should find out ways to cheat secretively

 

[fluxx]

by biology we were just mean to be fucking every women around impregnating her, but if u want to stay with one like most people(including me) that's totally normal

 

[MedMogger]

No we were meant to be in polygamous relationships with multiple women but one is fine

If you can’t manage to just not cheat (giga autist) you should find out ways to cheat secretively

I’ve believed this too. It feels like the thought of me committing to one girl is going against nature.

I’ve only ever had one ex, and I cheated on her. Crazy thing is she never knew, and I feel 0 guilt about the whole thing. Like even if I stayed with her I still wouldn’t feel the need to tell her.

But why does it make me a giga autist if I need to sleep with multiple women?

 

[MedMogger]

by biology we were just mean to be fucking every women around impregnating her, but if u want to stay with one like most people(including me) that's totally normal

Yh that’s the thing. I just know it feels right biologically. But then I have my family looking down on me (especially my mum nowadays) for my beliefs.

 

[fluxx]

But why does it make me a giga autist if I need to sleep with multiple women?

cuz u cant fit in with most of society

 

[MedMogger]

cuz u cant fit in with most of society

Oh. I mean I’m aware I don’t fit in like that. That’s why I turned to improving my looks like crazy over the last few years.

But surely there are women around that are also like me and don’t want to commit?

Cause how tf can I be meeting girls in a club looking for a husband?

 

[fluxx]

Oh. I mean I’m aware I don’t fit in like that. That’s why I turned to improving my looks like crazy over the last few years.

But surely there are women around that are also like me and don’t want to commit?

Cause how tf can I be meeting girls in a club looking for a husband?

you will regret not committing in the long run, one day u will just be tired from slaying and would want to commit

 

[MedMogger]

you will regret not committing in the long run, one day u will just be tired from slaying and would want to commit

Are you sure though? My uncle never committed. He’s in his 70s now and still sleeps around with young girls.

 

[Primalsplit]

Hey guys
So I’m not sure if I’ve been too promiscuous in the past or what, but I’m struggling with the thought of any commitment to a girl.

I read threads here, and it seems all you guys (and majority of men worldwide) want to be in long term relationships. But to me, the thought of committing myself to one girl for life terrifies me - knowing I can’t ever experience anything with any other girls sounds like an eternity of hell.

Majority of girls I meet/get with when I’m out are usually not exceptional looking (just averagely okay for a quick fling). But last week when I was out on Saturday, I got with probably the fittest girl I’ve ever had on a night out tbh. She was incredibly drunk, but she was also incredibly clingy, telling me she’s now looking for a husband, and that she thinks she loves me (on that night). And has been clingyly messaging me this last week.

My concern is, she looks incredibly fit but I still can’t see myself settling down with her.

Have I ruined my brain and perception of women, and now will never be able to have a serious relationship?

Did you bang her?

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I’ve believed this too. It feels like the thought of me committing to one girl is going against nature.

I’ve only ever had one ex, and I cheated on her. Crazy thing is she never knew, and I feel 0 guilt about the whole thing. Like even if I stayed with her I still wouldn’t feel the need to tell her.

But why does it make me a giga autist if I need to sleep with multiple women?

It’s normal, men are designed in such a way we have no standards and want to spread our seed. Whereas women are designed to seek out the best possible mate and hold him down. Girls even practice “dual mating” strategy ideally they find yuppy chad (provider + good genes) but if not they’ll find a provider and cheat to get chads good genes.

The reason you don’t want to commit is because yk what kinda girl she is. Cmon man you met this slag on a night out and she confessed that she loved a stranger, u don’t think she’s done that before lol

 

[MedMogger]

It’s normal, men are designed in such a way we have no standards and want to spread our seed. Whereas women are designed to seek out the best possible mate and hold him down. Girls even practice “dual mating” strategy ideally they find yuppy chad (provider + good genes) but if not they’ll find a provider and cheat to get chads good genes.

I kind of agree with this holding Chad down theory tbf. But I think a girl will just try to hold you down if she thinks you mog her tbh. (Ex: So if she’s like a LTB and your a HTN she will want to hold you down)

The reason you don’t want to commit is because yk what kinda girl she is. Cmon man you met this slag on a night out and she confessed that she loved a stranger, u don’t think she’s done that before lol

lol Yh obviously I know she is a bad girl, and I’m not that special (maybe doesn’t do it all the time, but I’m not the first). She also did give me the line that she doesn’t go out much - in response to me saying I don’t go out much too (I only told her this cause she asked “how are you single?” so I panicked). Which is obviously also gonna be bs.
I did have this theory that the reason I don’t wanna settle down is cause the girls I’ve met so far just haven’t met enough needs of mine that I can spend my life with them tbh. And hopefully when a girl comes in my life who meets all my requirements I’m looking for, I can put all my fuckboy tendencies and stuff in the past.
Cause I could imagine committing to a HQNP girl tbh.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I kind of agree with this holding Chad down theory tbf. But I think a girl will just try to hold you down if she thinks you mog her tbh. (Ex: So if she’s like a LTB and your a HTN she will want to hold you down)


lol Yh obviously I know she is a bad girl, and I’m not that special (maybe doesn’t do it all the time, but I’m not the first). She also did give me the line that she doesn’t go out much - in response to me saying I don’t go out much too (I only told her this cause she asked “how are you single?” so I panicked). Which is obviously also gonna be bs.
I did have this theory that the reason I don’t wanna settle down is cause the girls I’ve met so far just haven’t met enough needs of mine that I can spend my life with them tbh. And hopefully when a girl comes in my life who meets all my requirements I’m looking for, I can put all my fuckboy tendencies and stuff in the past.
Cause I could imagine committing to a HQNP girl tbh.

Bro if u were a fuckboy in the past your cooked for life. You’ll never truly be in love with one woman, eyes always wandering. I wasn’t even a fuckboy but I sexted hundreds of sluts. What happened when I got a loyal gf, I kept sexting sluts jfl.

I wish you luck and hope you can change tho, I really struggled to. Even when I got back with her after she left for catching my ass, I did eventually have those lurking thoughts even tho it killed the relo once lol

 

[MedMogger]

Bro if u were a fuckboy in the past your cooked for life. You’ll never truly be in love with one woman, eyes always wandering. I wasn’t even a fuckboy but I sexted hundreds of sluts. What happened when I got a loyal gf, I kept sexting sluts jfl.

I wish you luck and hope you can change tho, I really struggled to. Even when I got back with her after she left for catching my ass, I did eventually have those lurking thoughts even tho it killed the relo once lol

I’ve been told that, but I don’t know if I fully believe that. I think/hope for the right girl I can change.

Originally I didn’t used to be like this tbh. I used to be a good little virgin. But my eyes got opened up to how horrible a lot of the girls are in this generation, so I stooped to their level. I honestly wouldn’t even date two girls at the same time back then.

Problem is I descended last year. I used to be good looking in 2023, and then in 2024, I put on a bit of weight and just looked worse overall. And I saw how I went from getting girls approach me every week I went out, to never approaching me at all. And I tried everything I could to get them to approach again (apart from losing weight), but with no luck. My family told me bluepilled cope about how “the girls probably just think you have a bad personality”.
And mid way through 2024, I realised I looked wayy worse. So I started looksmaxxing to get back to my old looks level. And since getting back, it’s like how it was in 2023 again - girls approach me pretty much anytime I go out now. Except this time, I view girls as more shallow - cause I realised how invisible you are once you are less attractive. So I’ve lost a lot of respect for them.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I’ve been told that, but I don’t know if I fully believe that. I think/hope for the right girl I can change.

Originally I didn’t used to be like this tbh. I used to be a good little virgin. But my eyes got opened up to how horrible a lot of the girls are in this generation, so I stooped to their level. I honestly wouldn’t even date two girls at the same time back then.

Problem is I descended last year. I used to be good looking in 2023, and then in 2024, I put on a bit of weight and just looked worse overall. And I saw how I went from getting girls approach me every week I went out, to never approaching me at all. And I tried everything I could to get them to approach again (apart from losing weight), but with no luck. My family told me bluepilled cope about how “the girls probably just think you have a bad personality”.
And mid way through 2024, I realised I looked wayy worse. So I started looksmaxxing to get back to my old looks level. And since getting back, it’s like how it was in 2023 again - girls approach me pretty much anytime I go out now. Except this time, I view girls as more shallow - cause I realised how invisible you are once you are less attractive. So I’ve lost a lot of respect for them.

Fuck u bro u got a new personality with weight loss jfl. Lean is law for sure, I had my best success when I was like that

 

[MedMogger]

Fuck u bro u got a new personality with weight loss jfl. Lean is law for sure, I had my best success when I was like that

At first I wanted to put on weight JFL. I used to believe all the “bulking” cope. And used to think body was more important than face. But I took the bulk too far and ended up with swollen looking chubby cheeks, and everything in my face just looked way worse.

Being leaner does defo improve your personality though. It makes me happier and more positive - probs also cause people treat you better lol.

 

[Deleted member 123714]

It’s normal, men are designed in such a way we have no standards and want to spread our seed. Whereas women are designed to seek out the best possible mate and hold him down. Girls even practice “dual mating” strategy ideally they find yuppy chad (provider + good genes) but if not they’ll find a provider and cheat to get chads good genes.

The reason you don’t want to commit is because yk what kinda girl she is. Cmon man you met this slag on a night out and she confessed that she loved a stranger, u don’t think she’s done that before lol

I wish women were designed to seek out the best possible mate like you said here. Then I wouldn’t get mad at seeing them with subhuman filth everyday, literally can’t go an hour without seeing some retarded troglodyte with a girl I’d throw my gran off a cliff for.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I wish women were designed to seek out the best possible mate like you said here. Then I wouldn’t get mad at seeing them with subhuman filth everyday, literally can’t go an hour without seeing some retarded troglodyte with a girl I’d throw my gran off a cliff for.

I told you already, girls will become the gf of a provider and lover to a mogger. Few girls can get the moggers commitment

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Hey guys

 

[Deleted member 123714]

I told you already, girls will become the gf of a provider and lover to a mogger. Few girls can get the moggers commitment

“Provider” lmao, jobless highschoolers and wagies who work at subway 20 hours per week arent providers.
I’m not talking about old women idc what they want they dont exist to me, they may want some provider cuck but thats not what i mean

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

“Provider” lmao, jobless highschoolers and wagies who work at subway 20 hours per week arent providers.
I’m not talking about old women idc what they want they dont exist to me, they may want some provider cuck but thats not what i mean

Trust me even these part time wagies are putting all the money into their girls, I’ve seen it among people ik