Should I cold approach before my birthday (turning 17)

[Deleted member 6164]

My birthday is a month and a few days from now and I’m turning 17 I don’t want to be a kissless handholdless hugless 17 year old virgin but I don’t want to be humiliated recently have just been fucking off from online school doing no homework and jerking off all day and eating no motivation to exercise or go outside except I jogged once this week but that’s about it


I don’t want just sex either or else I would done hookers I actually just want a Gf and idgaf if she’s a Virgin or not

I am 5’7” my hairline has been fucked Up since I was 13 or 14 always get picked on for it people also picked on me for my nose being too big and nonblacks made fun of me for having big lips (kinda)

 

[Arkantos]

You have nothing to lose it seems
Go head with it

 

[Deleted member 6164]

You have nothing to lose it seems
Go head with it

Only thing I don’t want happening is for a girl to really humiliate me and start recording me and call me freak and try to expose me and shit cuz I’ve seen it on twitter and stuff and I don’t want that :/

 

[Deleted member 3328]

 

[Deleted member 4563]

Approaches me

No point in approaching when it's over tho

 

[Deleted member 5683]

Run BBC game

 

[Deleted member 6164]

Run BBC game

I tried it once and had to write a letter to the girl apologizing or I was kicked out school and expelled from the district forever..so no

Run BBC game

And + I’m not even that black tbh ppl always under estimate me and say I’m not black enough and should stop trying to act black” even tho I am. Black just not dark like an nigger or some shit

Approaches me

No point in approaching when it's over tho

True

 

[Deleted member 6207]

My birthday is a month and a few days from now and I’m turning 17 I don’t want to be a kissless handholdless hugless 17 year old virgin but I don’t want to be humiliated recently have just been fucking off from online school doing no homework and jerking off all day and eating no motivation to exercise or go outside except I jogged once this week but that’s about it


I don’t want just sex either or else I would done hookers I actually just want a Gf and idgaf if she’s a Virgin or not

I am 5’7” my hairline has been fucked Up since I was 13 or 14 always get picked on for it people also picked on me for my nose being too big and nonblacks made fun of me for having big lips (kinda)

You seem serious so get all the basic stuff down. Diet, Gym all looksmaxs you can do consistency is key. But start actually talking and making friends with both guys and girls. Don't even bother approaching girls until you can talk to randoms and make friends. Once you can do this and not socially retarded then you can approach. Don't be concerned with the outcome just approaching your ahead of 99.99% of pathetic losers. When girls reject you don't let it affect you. Have the mentality of "Lions do not care about about the opinions of the sheep" Lastly, your results will be based off how good looking you are to each female is keep looksmaxing and start saving for surgeries if you need them

 

[Deleted member 6164]

You seem serious so get all the basic stuff down. Diet, Gym all looksmaxs you can do consistency is key.

I was dieting and gymaxxing well a year ago and like 4 5 months Ago when I had the motivation now I just feel like shit all I can do is lay in bed and this was happening before this quarantine thing (I live in NY btw)..

But start actually talking and making friends with both guys and girls.

Im good at making friends on the Internet not so much irl tho I know an asian guy who was rapping from my schoo was a cool dude invited me to go the studio with him before quarantine stuff broke out but I got lazy and said nah I’ll try hitting him up again and making friends he would’ve been my first real friend in high school since nobody hangs out with me outside of school or invites me to parties or anything..as for girls I really don’t know how to talk to them any sort of convo with them is stunted.

Don't even bother approaching girls until you can talk to randoms and make friends.

I can approach random groups like 2 or more regardless of gender maybe say like 4 guys and 1 girl in the group and make them laugh and shit like that but that would be more so as a group I can’t be direct to a girl am weak at that too scared

Don't be concerned with the outcome just approaching your ahead of 99.99% of pathetic losers.

alr

 

[Deleted member 6207]

I was dieting and gymaxxing well a year ago and like 4 5 months Ago when I had the motivation now I just feel like shit all I can do is lay in bed and this was happening before this quarantine thing (I live in NY btw)..


Im good at making friends on the Internet not so much irl tho I know an asian guy who was rapping from my schoo was a cool dude invited me to go the studio with him before quarantine stuff broke out but I got lazy and said nah I’ll try hitting him up again and making friends he would’ve been my first real friend in high school since nobody hangs out with me outside of school or invites me to parties or anything..as for girls I really don’t know how to talk to them any sort of convo with them is stunted.


I can approach random groups like 2 or more regardless of gender maybe say like 4 guys and 1 girl in the group and make them laugh and shit like that but that would be more so as a group I can’t be direct to a girl am weak at that too scared


alr

You can walk up to a group of people and make them laugh but not make a single friend? Just start small ask someone for notes or something to start. Then next time you see them say hey to them and continue building a friendship with similar interests. It's really easy to say it on the internet but doing in real life is extremely hard. You just got to think if you don't change now you'll be 30 Years old and in the same position.

 

[Deleted member 6164]

You can walk up to a group of people and make them laugh but not make a single friend?

Yea it’s a little weird Ik hard to explain I kinda clown myself

Just start small ask someone for notes or something to start. Then next time you see them say hey to them and continue building a friendship with similar interests. It's really easy to say it on the internet but doing in real life is extremely hard. You just got to think if you don't change now you'll be 30 Years old and in the same position.

ur right About that, My only fear with making friends Is that they are out to get me..i feel a bit scared when I leave the house like someone is tracking me at one point I was carrying a knife for self protection Incase something were to happen. And then months before I was hearing whispers in the wind like someone saying something behind me quietly but loudly when I turn they weren’t there.

 

[Deleted member 6902]

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[Deleted member 6207]

Yea it’s a little weird Ik hard to explain I kinda clown myself

ur right About that, My only fear with making friends Is that they are out to get me..i feel a bit scared when I leave the house like someone is tracking me at one point I was carrying a knife for self protection Incase something were to happen. And then months before I was hearing whispers in the wind like someone saying something behind me quietly but loudly when I turn they weren’t there.

Do not tell that to a doctor. They will pump you full of drugs which will completely fuck you up. The doctors get commission from the jews every drug they get you on. Firstly, fix your diet what are you eating now? Secondly, you have to do exercise try going to the gym/even doing a team sport that will help you get out of your head and maybe make some friends. Lastly, I know what you mean about friends that are out to get you. However, you can't make real friends unless your real with them. People can sense your energy and it's probably off putting.

 

[Arkantos]

Why not
Why not

 

[Deleted member 6164]

Do not tell that to a doctor. They will pump you full of drugs which will completely fuck you up. The doctors get commission from the jews every drug they get you on.

Yes i will never tell that to one I was forced onto adhd pills when I was 10 or9 got diagnosed at that time and stopped taking them after I was 12

Firstly, fix your diet what are you eating now? Secondly, you have to do exercise try going to the gym/even doing a team sport that will help you get out of your head and maybe make some friends. Lastly, I know what you mean about friends that are out to get you. However, you can't make real friends unless your real with them. People can sense your energy and it's probably off putting.

ehh I just eat any crap in the house now but i will start eating better and since team sports are kinda gone for now I’ll just continue to jogging and lifting those two I enjoy

 

[Arkantos]

If you want to