Should I grind before socialising or I can socialmax rn ?

[Blackpilled1027]

By socialmaxxing, i'm talking about girls.

I'm not a massive autist, I often talk to people but my game with girls is inexistant.
I can't even remember the last time I had a message from a girl on social media.

Should I go full monk mode and dedicate all my life to my grind, or should I do both while calming the grind a bit ?

 

[Blackpilled1027]

I'm 19yo,5'11 and MTN-
I already had 2 dates so i'm not a complete retard subhuman, I know I can pull some fat ass if I really tryhard

 

[UndiagnosedSchizo]

no. softmaxx before going for girls

 

[MongolTurk]

some greycel not too long ago advocated for NTmaxxing/socializing before SMVmaxxing but that is pointless. You will face rejection after rejection(especially if you're going after girls). Grind first, and then socialize when you qualify

 

[sergeant blackpill]

By socialmaxxing, i'm talking about girls.

I'm not a massive autist, I often talk to people but my game with girls is inexistant.
I can't even remember the last time I had a message from a girl on social media.

Should I go full monk mode and dedicate all my life to my grind, or should I do both while calming the grind a bit ?

go MSTOW

 

[lilxder2]

Of course you should socialize if your looks/behaviour allow it jfc but also softmax or hardmax on the side whatever you mean by grinding

 

[Deleted member 27746]

i dont do either

 

[ThomasJefferson]

Dont do monk mode always socialize as much as you can just dont forget grinding

 

[Deleted member 29396]

By socialmaxxing, i'm talking about girls.

I'm not a massive autist, I often talk to people but my game with girls is inexistant.
I can't even remember the last time I had a message from a girl on social media.

Should I go full monk mode and dedicate all my life to my grind, or should I do both while calming the grind a bit ?

Do both

 

[Krakowski]

Yes there is no reason to wait, people will cope with "I will do x y and z first then I will try do it trust me bro!". Unless you are a total subhuman of course.

go MSTOW

Why?

 

[TheBrownOne]

You can do both at the same time

 

[Deleted member 28927]

if you are normie do both at the same time, if you are below average wait until normie

 

[colton myers]

By socialmaxxing, i'm talking about girls.

I'm not a massive autist, I often talk to people but my game with girls is inexistant.
I can't even remember the last time I had a message from a girl on social media.

Should I go full monk mode and dedicate all my life to my grind, or should I do both while calming the grind a bit ?

Do both, actually without socialising its impossible to grind nowadays, so include girls in your grinding routine, like find female friends in the gym..etc