Should I keep having the bad-boy behavior with the girl im planning to LTR rn?

[ChadOrDeath]

Kinda long ass thread, heres the backstory if you want to check it out:

Need help about this situation with a foid

Basically like 2 weeks ago i was just playing in my neighborhood field when two foids arrived, They asked me something and invited me to play, Tldr when we finished to play, we talked and they asked questions about me, and then one of those two girls asked for my number, She started messaging me...

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Basically now we are "dating" and knowing each other before committing to a serious LTR, Im making this question since when i started to look at her tiktok reposts, I can give myself an idea of what she feels and thinks, When i confessed her, when we were normally talking, etc. She was reposting shit like:

- So boring that i have to think about him instead of kissing him

- When the man that i thought that was unreachable talks to me

- and other reposts talking about the "princess treatment" flowers, and that kind of attention videos (Take into account that im quite the opposite of that rn)

Last week, she was finishing her studies and was mentally exhausted due to the amount of shit she had to do, So i decided to not text her for more than 3 days, and then she texted me in november 2th saturday, Then, she did it again to hang out in that sunday, In the next monday i turned 18, So she greeted me and texted me in the morning, that night, she asked me to go downstairs, and she gave me a gift, Which was a box with 2 big ahh cupcakes, Then she texted me again in that tuesday

However, since this weekend, She started reposting videos that were relating to shit like she feels that i am uninterested and dry, She also reposts videos of desiring a man that is more attentive and caring about her, I've told her that i was provocating her to kiss her subsequently, but then i "refused" to do it, and told her, nah, ill rather wait till i get my braces removed (Im getting them removed tmrw), Im starting to think that she wants me to take more action in that sense, since i started to drive her emotions (Making her wait etc.)

Due to how she is feeling rn, Should i try to follow that behavior and be like a more caring, and less dry man?, At first she felt attracted to that since she "pursued" me when i acted like uninterested and careless, But now that she wants to LTR, Should i do what i said? Im planning to give her a rose, a bracelet, or any detail to show her that i do care and want her, I feel like she can start feeling like idgaf about her.

Tag: (You are more knowledgeable about my situation)
@XazaqazaX

 

[ChadOrDeath]

0, asking here since im not looking for bluepilled reddit advice lol, At least shit here is blackpilled.

 

[Troglodyte452]

I mean you gotta boost her dopamine at some point, breaking this streak of being a cold mfer with some gifts is nice, but I wouldnt fully do a 180 into a hubby material guy now

 

[ChadOrDeath]

I mean you gotta boost her dopamine at some point, breaking this streak of being a cold mfer with some gifts is nice, but I wouldnt fully do a 180 into a hubby material guy now

Of course, Im not trying to buy her any type of materials yet, A date in an expensive restaurant or shit like that, I only gave her some candies, and a small piece of cake that i got from a birthday party where i went, But thats all, Remember that she bought me that gift which im pretty sure it had a decent price, I feel like she could have given me nothing, but she still did gave me that gift, (I didnt ask her to do it)

But i feel like a "small" detail like a bracelet, Or a flower can make her feel better.

 

[Troglodyte452]

Of course, Im not trying to buy her any type of materials yet, A date in an expensive restaurant or shit like that, I only gave her some candies, and a small piece of cake that i got from a birthday party where i went, But thats all, Remember that she bought me that gift which im pretty sure it had a decent price, I feel like she could have given nothing, but she still did gave me that gift, (I didnt ask her to do it)

But i feel like a "small" detail like a bracelet, Or a flower can make her feel better.

yeah, that way you're gonna make her super happy and if you don't overdo it, she's gonna appreciate you being warm more. You know her the best obviously so you gotta know how to balance it out

 

[Troglodyte452]

What works wonders for girls is being unpredictable. In my case I naturally like to fuck with people's minds. Im on autistic level when it comes to that, not only girls but guys too. With a previous girl from tinder I'd act: like a player, LTR material, ultra horny, not in the mood for sex, ghost, going over to hers at 2 am and not fucking her, then making her come over to mine for sex.

 

[Troglodyte452]

but with those 'not nice' moves like ghosting or acting like a player. You gotta keep it light

 

[XazaqazaX]

Im planning to give her a rose, a bracelet, or any detail to show her that i do care and want her, I feel like she can start feeling like idgaf about her.

Go ahead bro, give it and make memories

 

[Klasik616]

Chad or Death!

 

[ChadOrDeath]

but with those 'not nice' moves like ghosting or acting like a player. You gotta keep it light

Go ahead bro, give it and make memories

Rn shes in vacations, im still studying, Today i texted her a brief "how you doin" type shi and then i told her that i wanted to tell her something, She said "tell me" and added some surprised image stickers, And I replied with "but i gotta say it in person", She replied with another surprised sticker, and i ended up with a looking one.

I initiated all the texts this weekend and we agreed to do some sports in front of our neighborhood this sunday, Im not planning to text her again until she asks for what i said, I have this feeling that she doesnt want me anymore, but maybe im overthinking, Whats your opinion on this?

 

[Alt Number 3]

alr

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Girls say they like needy and attentive guys
But they really don’t
Gives them the ick

 

[ChadOrDeath]

Girls say they like needy and attentive guys
But they really don’t
Gives them the ick

I think there should be a balance, Giving her valuable attention rather than just texting her everyday shit like "good morning princess how did you sleep" and corny texts like these that make you seem desperate, Cuz if you act almost completely uninterested, then she may feel like all the attention that she gave to me, meant nothing, Or feeling that im using/ manipulating her to reject her at the end.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I think there should be a balance, Giving her valuable attention rather than just texting her everyday shit like "good morning princess how did you sleep" and corny texts like these that make you seem desperate, Cuz if you act almost completely uninterested, then she may feel like all the attention that she gave to me, meant nothing, Or feeling that im using/ manipulating her to reject her at the end.

Everything is a manipulation though
By not replying fast your giving her anxiety and insecurity

 

[Troglodyte452]

Rn shes in vacations, im still studying, Today i texted her a brief "how you doin" type shi and then i told her that i wanted to tell her something, She said "tell me" and added some surprised image stickers, And I replied with "but i gotta say it in person", She replied with another surprised sticker, and i ended up with a looking one.

I initiated all the texts this weekend and we agreed to do some sports in front of our neighborhood this sunday, Im not planning to text her again until she asks for what i said, I have this feeling that she doesnt want me anymore, but maybe im overthinking, Whats your opinion on this?

to keep your energy, you can't be worried about her losing interest. I once made that mistake and since then I ain't ever overthinking shit with women. She should be worried if you were to lose interest, not other way around. Unless she's a virgin, doesnt party and truly loves you.

 

[ChadOrDeath]

to keep your energy, you can't be worried about her losing interest. I once made that mistake and since then I ain't ever overthinking shit with women. She should be worried if you were to lose interest, not other way around. Unless she's a virgin, doesnt party and truly loves you.

Check the first part of the attached thread, Yes, She is a virgin, doesnt party, and all the things that i mentioned about her as a person.