Should i ropemax

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A girl that i have been talking cause i like her for a year now, and she followed me and added me on everything a week ago (but i never got together with her cause im trying not to spike my cortisol) , blocked me on everything and i was shocked
She told me she was gonna move schools and i was wondering why, so i asked, she said theres too many fake people. Today was the last day i would ever see her and she was beautiful😍 but i never spoke to her, idk why.
She was the only girl i evwr felt a conmection with, and less than 24 hours ago, i was talking to her in a call for 1hour about people we dont like and about tommorow(today)
So later at the gym, i wanted to sent her a chat, of my feelings for her cause i knew i wouldnt be together with her and i really really loved her,and i realised she removed me from everywhere. My friend told me that this is just a part of this life and i would get motivation but i came home and cried. Idk what to do and i wanna kms but maybe this is just the stary of the grind, what do yall think so?
 
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why would u throw 50+ years of your life over a girl youve only known for a year :owo: foid gon be a foid
 
A girl that i have been talking cause i like her for a year now, and she followed me and added me on everything a week ago (but i never got together with her cause im trying not to spike my cortisol) , blocked me on everything and i was shocked
She told me she was gonna move schools and i was wondering why, so i asked, she said theres too many fake people. Today was the last day i would ever see her and she was beautiful😍 but i never spoke to her, idk why.
She was the only girl i evwr felt a conmection with, and less than 24 hours ago, i was talking to her in a call for 1hour about people we dont like and about tommorow(today)
So later at the gym, i wanted to sent her a chat, of my feelings for her cause i knew i wouldnt be together with her and i really really loved her,and i realised she removed me from everywhere. My friend told me that this is just a part of this life and i would get motivation but i came home and cried. Idk what to do and i wanna kms but maybe this is just the stary of the grind, what do yall think so?
No
 
but i never got together with her cause im trying not to spike my cortisol
but i never spoke to her
Bro Flightreacts GIF
 
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A girl that i have been talking cause i like her for a year now, and she followed me and added me on everything a week ago (but i never got together with her cause im trying not to spike my cortisol) , blocked me on everything and i was shocked
She told me she was gonna move schools and i was wondering why, so i asked, she said theres too many fake people. Today was the last day i would ever see her and she was beautiful😍 but i never spoke to her, idk why.
She was the only girl i evwr felt a conmection with, and less than 24 hours ago, i was talking to her in a call for 1hour about people we dont like and about tommorow(today)
So later at the gym, i wanted to sent her a chat, of my feelings for her cause i knew i wouldnt be together with her and i really really loved her,and i realised she removed me from everywhere. My friend told me that this is just a part of this life and i would get motivation but i came home and cried. Idk what to do and i wanna kms but maybe this is just the stary of the grind, what do yall think so?
Is your life really worth taking over a random woman? life is such a valuable thing you should never take instead of dwelling over this look forward and see how you can improve, and maybe even prevent this by looking better, regardless dont rope bhai you are loved❤️
 
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The best closure is the one you dont get, use it as motivation or whatever you want to do it for. But I guarantee that self improvement for YOURSELF is going to be a whole lot of a better feeling than self harming.

Do not go down a path that is very hard to break out of.
 
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nigga you haven’t even had anything close to a relationship with her and you wanna rope? Come on
 
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The best closure is the one you dont get, use it as motivation or whatever you want to do it for. But I guarantee that self improvement for YOURSELF is going to be a whole lot of a better feeling than self harming.

Do not go down a path that is very hard to break out of.
Nah i can’t agree on that.
As someone who got left with no closure i would wish that she would’ve just been honest about everything, i hate getting lied to and no closure just worsens your ability to trust people.
 
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Nah i can’t agree on that.
As someone who got left with no closure i would wish that she would’ve just been honest about everything, i hate getting lied to and no closure just worsens your ability to trust people.
Yeah well, things happen I have been lied to and hurt before. Can't change what I cannot control; therefore, I made the best of the situation and focused on the things I can control which is myself and my physical/mental health. I am way happier as an anxious attached person as well, talking to another beautiful girl. When just three months ago I would almost throw up to the feeling of meeting another girl. IT GETS BETTER
 
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Yeah well, things happen I have been lied to and hurt before. Can't change what I cannot control; therefore, I made the best of the situation and focused on the things I can control which is myself and my physical/mental health. I am way happier as an anxious attached person as well, talking to another beautiful girl. When just three months ago I would almost throw up to the feeling of meeting another girl. IT GETS BETTER
Yeah i get what you’re saying, i really do hope it gets better.
But i still believe it would’ve been easier to let go and stop thinking about if i had just been told the truth instead of all these usual sugercoating lies.

“Muh i just need to focus on myself, and im too stressed for a relationship”:feelsuhh:
 
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Yeah i get what you’re saying, i really do hope it gets better.
But i still believe it would’ve been easier to let go and stop thinking about if i had just been told the truth instead of all these usual sugercoating lies.

“Muh i just need to focus on myself, and im too stressed for a relationship”:feelsuhh:
It will always be like that my brother, I know it is terrible. But time heals, you cannot let yourself fall down a rabbit hole. I know you are stronger than this and I believe in you. You can always PM me if you need more advice
 

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