Should we tell women we go to the gym/do self improvement

[binocularlens]

women, definitely not most, but women definitely like a guy who cares about his skincare who lifts etc but I feel like this can only make up for your average or maybe slightly above average looks (ltn-lmtn) and once you hit around mmtn/hmtn she expects everything you do to just be natural, your skin is just naturally good without you trying (you got acne 5 different times and finally fixed it), you don’t workout but have massive biceps (cause you obviously workout), and it shows how just your genetics put you there, essentially using her biology to draw her attractiveness to your “superior genes”

pretty much what im saying is it’s a benefit for you to compensate w showing that you do shit like lifting and caring about your lifestyle when you’re a lower tier in looks but it can be in a way a liability to you once your above average in looks because it looks like you’re “trying to hard”, not to say that girls won’t say that when you’re ltn or lmtn and lift but still it comes off as reasonable and you have to remember, basically every negative thing you do as an average man is negative, and anything positive comes off slightly less positive than if you looked better, and once you hit like lhtn you can usually say retarded negative shit and be funny and positive

tldr if chad does too much it looks like he’s gene frauding if you do too much you’re just slightly improving your smv
thoughts?

 

[Kiwi'sSub5]

just be handsome bro and u can tell them whatever u want

 

[Surfsup]

DNRD
But never tell women
You will look tryhard if you do alot of women hate on average/ugly guys improving
Only gl guys get away with it

 

[binocularlens]

just be handsome bro and u can tell them whatever u want

yeah no shit but if you try too hard it could definitely be a negative

 

[OutRed]

Don’t. Make it seem simple and easy if it gets brought up. If you expand on it or talk more than a few sentences about it you’ll look like a try hard.