Should you have kids later or earlier

[Saint Casanova]

The main benefit to have your kids later in life is that you’ll probably have more money and a better life overall to raise them.

The draw back is that genetic issues increase and sperm quality decreases as we age.

 

[iwannabebreathtakin]

The main benefit to have your kids later in life is that you’ll probably have more money and a better life overall to raise them.

The draw back is that genetic issues increase and sperm quality decreases as we age.

Jst dont have them

 

[Saint Casanova]

Jst dont have them

Then you’ll have crippling depression knowing you didn’t even fulfil your biological purpose

 

[Deleted member 75672]

Then you’ll have crippling depression knowing you didn’t even fulfil your biological purpose

kmsing in 25 tbh

 

[symphony]

Earlier because i feel like id have more of a connection with my child if i were 35 and he were 15 than if i was like 50

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Men should have kids later
Women are more under the biological clock

 

[shia.jihadist]

get rich early and have kids early

 

[iwannabebreathtakin]

Then you’ll have crippling depression knowing you didn’t even fulfil your biological purpose

Youre alone on this one

 

[Saint Casanova]

Earlier because i feel like id have more of a connection with my child if i were 35 and he were 15 than if i was like 50

35 is not necessarily that early. I’m the past people had kids at 18.

 

[Saint Casanova]

Men should have kids later
Women are more under the biological clock

The older you are, the younger the women should be tbh to prevent genetic issues

 

[symphony]

35 is not necessarily that early. I’m the past people had kids at 18.

I said 35 when he is 15, meaning id have them at 20

 

[Saint Casanova]

get rich early and have kids early

Nearly impossible for normal people to get rich early. Normally takes quite a while

 

[widdi]

Freezing your sperm is a good alternative

 

[shia.jihadist]

Nearly impossible for normal people to get rich early. Normally takes quite a while

just join adonis school and learn how to make 10,000$/month from hamza bro!

 

[Saint Casanova]

I said 35 when he is 15, meaning id have them at 20

Ahhh, my bad. 20 is very early nowadays.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

The older you are, the younger the women should be tbh to prevent genetic issues

I think large age gaps were more normal in past times

 

[Saint Casanova]

Freezing your sperm is a good alternative

I’m going to do that before I roid tbh

 

[symphony]

Ahhh, my bad. 20 is very early nowadays.

Tbh I would never due it because of studies and work and finances but if i didnt have to worry about that i absolutely would

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Freezing your sperm is a good alternative

Just lol if you think it wouldn’t be tampered with

 

[widdi]

Just lol if you think it wouldn’t be tampered with

Why would it be?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Never

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Why would it be?

Why wouldn’t it

 

[piec]

Why wouldn’t it

idk nigger you tell me

 

[glaruz]

Money for kids is a lie. At least for the first and maybe even second kid. What people do not factor is living with your parents and getting support from them and even your grandparents. Both families. Countless people raise children at uni/ college age.

 

[widdi]

Why wouldn’t it

Do you think someone messes with your milk as well? This is just gonna lead to schizo purity spiraling.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Do you think someone messes with your milk as well? This is just gonna lead to schizo purity spiraling.

Yeah who knows what they really put that in chit

 

[Saint Casanova]

Money for kids is a lie. At least for the first and maybe even second kid. What people do not factor is living with your parents and getting support from them and even your grandparents. Both families. Countless people raise children at uni/ college age.

How is money a lie ? You’ll want to send them to the best schools, give the best food, experiences ect. Most parents can’t even provide for themselves nowadays in big cities.

 

[aesthetic beauty]

The main benefit to have your kids later in life is that you’ll probably have more money and a better life overall to raise them.

The draw back is that genetic issues increase and sperm quality decreases as we age.

This is one of the perils of the modern world.

 

[wsada]

Don't know the future but hoping max 25

 

[haramzada]

if ur ugly never

 

[Deleted member 77954]

The main benefit to have your kids later in life is that you’ll probably have more money and a better life overall to raise them.

The draw back is that genetic issues increase and sperm quality decreases as we age.

Will never have kids

 

[Saint Casanova]

Will never have kids

Why

 

[Deleted member 77954]

Why

I will never find a girl and my genes are too bad and the world is failing

 

[glaruz]

How is money a lie ? You’ll want to send them to the best schools, give the best food, experiences ect. Most parents can’t even provide for themselves nowadays in big cities.

Not having enough money/ resources when you are young is a lie. If you start work at 18, do internships and part time during university/ college, have support from your family, you will have the money. JFL @ people thinking this is not true. I agree that you need a bit more for the things you mentioned, but this is multiple years into the future. If you are not a fuckup, you will have progressed in your career and make good money. The only real problem is making sacrifices for yourself, which is why most people do not want children.

 

[ey88]

As early as possible

 

[mrdouchebag]

The main benefit to have your kids later in life is that you’ll probably have more money and a better life overall to raise them.

The draw back is that genetic issues increase and sperm quality decreases as we age.

Lmao. Imagine buying into the whole genetic issues fearmongering propaganda that was manufactured by old hags that want to brainwash you and turn you into childless ATM beytas. Even if both you and your wife are over 35, the chances of having fully healthy children are overwhelmingly in your favor especially if you lived a healthy lifestyle. Even if let's say the odds of having a kid with genetic issues rise from 1 in 5000 to 1 in 100, they are still great odds. People act like it's a coin flip or something.

The only real issue is that women have a shorter fertility window, so a woman over 40 is highly unlikely to get pregnant and also carry kids to term multiple times. At 45 the chances of a woman getting pregnant naturally are almost 0%. The chances of a man impregnating a woman at 45 are still very very good. Male fertility decreases with age but very gradually and up till 50 your chances of being able to have kids are still exceptionally high. Technically most men can have kids well into in their 50s or even 60s.

The only problem here is that you'll be older, have less energy and less patience to raise kids. Coupled with the fact that you might die when your kids are relatively young.