Should you meet halfway for the first date?

[turkproducer]

I can’t be bothered to travel, will cost money for me which Id rather spend on weed or something lol. Also I met her online

The truth is it won’t cost that much at all, or take that long (like 30-40 min on train) but the issue is ideally I want to escalate to sex, which could happen because I can tell she’s attracted to me but she doesn’t seem like a whore tbh, at least i don’t think she’d fuck me first date that is.

Do i travel? if I do, i might just meet her and do fuck all (no sex, probably just kissing or smth) but if i make her travel to me, i can escalate to sex in a house
Bump PLZ

 

[Limerencel]

Let her come to your appartment. If that's not feasable, I'd prefer to travel further to meet her at her appartment.
Meeting in public is unfavourable unless its very close to either one's appartment.

 

[turkproducer]

Let her come to your appartment. If that's not feasable, I'd prefer to travel further to meet her at her appartment.
Meeting in public is unfavourable unless its very close to either one's appartment.

It would be my house lol, i don’t. have my own place.

I don’t believe I could come to hers as i said she’s not a whore (doesn’t seem like one at least) so i don’t think i can ask questions like “can i come to yours” when i haven’t even met her

Let her come to your appartment. If that's not feasable, I'd prefer to travel further to meet her at her appartment.
Meeting in public is unfavourable unless its very close to either one's appartment.

If we meet halfway, it would take 30 min on train, and then another 5 min by bus to get back to my house. I feel like if I successfully “woo” her, attraction might be lost in all that time, u know how fickle women are

 

[Limerencel]

It would be my house lol, i don’t. have my own place.

I don’t believe I could come to hers as i said she’s not a whore (doesn’t seem like one at least) so i don’t think i can ask questions like “can i come to yours” when i haven’t even met her

You can ask her anything.
Just say: "I can meet you in public if you insist. But if I like you, I'd like to kiss you and that's going to be hard to do in a coffeeshop. So let's meet at your place instead"

 

[turkproducer]

You can ask her anything.
Just say: "I can meet you in public if you insist. But if I like you, I'd like to kiss you and that's going to be hard to do in a coffeeshop. So let's meet at your place instead"

I’m not willing to travel 1 hour and 10 min on train

 

[Limerencel]

I’m not willing to travel 1 hour and 10 min on train

Low IQ.
Then meet her at a coffeeshop in between.
See her eying you, liking you, while you have no power to escelate to a tonguess and then sex.
Enjoy your cappuccino boyo.

 

[turkproducer]

Low IQ.
Then meet her at a coffeeshop in between.
See her eying you, liking you, while you have no power to escelate to a tonguess and then sex.
Enjoy your cappuchino boyo.

Ahahahaha, I don’t think she’d give up sex first date anwyay mate. We are both 17, and she doesn’t seem like a whore, she said she’s a virgin, idk how true that is but she does look and act innocent, her attention is “pure” in comparison to a whore i’ve spoke to, you understand?

Low IQ.
Then meet her at a coffeeshop in between.
See her eying you, liking you, while you have no power to escelate to a tonguess and then sex.
Enjoy your cappuccino boyo.

Also me travelling to her when she’s the one that messaged me in the first place + messaged me past few days is giving up power, you know how hard it is once you lose power to a female to get it back..

 

[Limerencel]

Ahahahaha, I don’t think she’d give up sex first date anwyay mate. We are both 17, and she doesn’t seem like a whore, she said she’s a virgin, idk how true that is but she does look and act innocent, her attention is “pure” in comparison to a whore i’ve spoke to, you understand?

If she is into you, and you play your cards right, it does not matter whether she is a virgin or not, you'd have a good chance at fucking her.

 

[turkproducer]

If she is into you, and you play your cards right, it does not matter whether she is a virgin or not, you'd have a good chance at fucking her.

Yeah I 100% agree, I actually got head off a virgin who travelled to meet me the other week because I kept moving my head when she leant in to kiss me lol. But the thing is I am not willing to travel, it’s on a weekday, I simply don’t have much money to be spending on “maybe i’ll fuck her” ygm? My cock barely works anyway, porn fucked it. I can’t even get fully hard by porn, let alone when a real girl is trying to.

 

[Limerencel]

My cock barely works anyway, porn fucked it. I can’t even get fully hard by porn, let alone when a real girl is trying to.

Try Tadalafil. It works wonders.

 

[turkproducer]

Try Tadalafil. It works wonders.

I need so much shit. I am NW1.5 at 17, so anything i take is gonna fuck me up libido wise, my cock already barely works ffs