Signed up for a 100 dollar IT class its 10 weeks at this local college

[Deleted member 11126]

First time taking a class in 2 years I guess I am afraid to go but at least the class people will be nerds like me this might be the motivation I need to get back into technology

@Bojack @bishōnenmaxxer @John Cracovizk Any advice haven't been to class in forever so I don't know how to fit in?

 

[Bojack]

Meh fuck fitting in just do the work and get the degree. They’re all gonna congregate together anyway

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Meh fuck fitting in just do the work and get the degree. They’re all gonna congregate together anyway

Having friends is always helpful the very few I made in HS helped me out humans are social creatures

 

[Bojack]

Having friends is always helpful the very few I made in HS helped me out humans are social creatures

Yea, I guess that's true. I made one friend so far and he's doing all the lab work. I just piggyback on whatever he does. I guess you could try nt'ing with the people around you, see how that goes idk.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Yea, I guess that's true. I made one friend so far and he's doing all the lab work. I just piggyback on whatever he does. I guess you could try nt'ing with the people around you, see how that goes idk.

How did you make friends with him?

 

[Bojack]

How did you make friends with him?

It was by accident, and I wouldn't say we are full-fledged friends. I just asked if he wanted to work with me on this group assignment and we kind of got stuck together. He is an 18-year old chad-lite, and lives in the campus. He does better than me socially, seems like he knows a lot of people. Idk how he does with females, seems like he just walks past them or some shit idk. But I don't think he is fully comfortable with me yet, but we can converse well enough.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

It was by accident, and I wouldn't say we are full-fledged friends. I just asked if he wanted to work with me on this group assignment and we kind of got stuck together. He is an 18-year old chad-lite, and lives in the campus. He does better than me socially, seems like he knows a lot of people. Idk how he does with females, seems like he just walks past them or some shit idk. But I don't think he is fully comfortable with me yet, but we can converse well enough.

I am a White HTN do you think thats enough to make friends?

 

[Bojack]

I am a White HTN do you think thats enough to make friends?

Well, you got to be nt bro and reach out. People will probably be warm and receptive to you, but looks alone can only carry you so far n chit. The good looking guys I see are also extroverted and NT. But, idk how your looks will factor out in the "field". How has your social life been in the past? Has it been good, avg, or shit?

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Well, you got to be nt bro and reach out. People will probably be warm and receptive to you, but looks alone can only carry you so far n chit. The good looking guys I see are also extroverted and NT. But, idk how your looks will factor out in the "field". How has your social life been in the past? Has it been good, avg, or shit?

Well pretty bad the friends I made reached out to me I almost never made friends organically

 

[Bojack]

Well pretty bad the friends I made reached out to me I almost never made friends organically

Well, there you go; you should try to reach out and talk to people then. Your looks can only carry you so far. I think your looks should halo you though so you should be ok I think. Just force yourself to talk and let common sense dictate your actions. Go step by step logically from hello to asking them to hang out platonically. Idk I am no expert, but from what I have seen social groups in school are usually formed within the first week. So, get started fast and reach out to the people sitting next to you and get their digits/social media. Maybe try to setup some study dates or something (I know bluepilled). Idk man, can't help you further from there. Good luck, just don't be retarded I guess is the best advice I can give you.

I vaguely remember there was an RSD course on social circle building. I think it was called the social circle blueprint or something. Maybe go look that up and see if you can torrent it. It could have been all boolchit, but maybe it can give you some pointers.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Well, there you go; you should try to reach out and talk to people then. Your looks can only carry you so far. I think your looks should halo you though so you should be ok I think. Just force yourself to talk and let common sense dictate your actions. Go step by step logically from hello to asking them to hang out platonically. Idk I am no expert, but from what I have seen social groups in school are usually formed within the first week. So, get started fast and reach out to the people sitting next to you and get their digits/social media. Maybe try to setup some study dates or something (I know bluepilled). Idk man, can't help you further from there. Good luck, just don't be retarded I guess is the best advice I can give you.

I vaguely remember there was an RSD course on social circle building. I think it was called the social circle blueprint or something. Maybe go look that up and see if you can torrent it. It could have been all boolchit, but maybe it can give you some pointers.

Some of those old school redpill videos or books like how to win friends and influence are very legit they just refuse to admit there are limtis. Being NT won't make up for being 5'5 or ugly. But it still can do a lot seriously underrated here.

 

[Bojack]

Some of those old school redpill videos or books like how to win friends and influence are very legit they just refuse to admit there are limtis. Being NT won't make up for being 5'5 or ugly. But it still can do a lot seriously underrated here.

yea, I used to read a lot of that chit ngl. I don't really care that much anymore, but it kinda helped me to push myself to make friends and talk to people. I guess the relationships I developed weren't as deep as I wanted them to be, but it is what it is. I maximized what I could. I think if you are HTN, you should be successful if you reach out and nt correctly with the people around you and set up a social circle.

 

[traveler]

any good looking females

 

[Deleted member 11126]

any good looking females

Haven't started yet its an IT class so I doubt it but I am sorta glad I really don't need foids in my class I have been a hikiomori for 2 years being around nerds will be hard enough but foids that would be too much of a shock to my system.