Small thought about the death of Kobe

[Deleted member 4416]

As probably everyone knows, yesterday Kobe and his 13 year old daughter died in an elicopter disaster. This made me put in his wife shoes: now for her there are no money, no status, no good looks that would even remotely fill the void in her heart, all of that will seem completely meaningless, as probably life itlsef. So the real deal of life, the thing that makes the difference, is giving and receiving love from your family. Obviously looksmaxing, trying to have a successful career are an amazing journey that gives that extra touch to life and make it that much better, but the CORE, since without it Kobe’s wife will feel desperate and empty nonetheless, is affection from the ones you love. So keep looksmaxing, keep chasing money and keep boosting your Instagram followers, keep building your skyscraper, but never forget the foundation without which the building would fall.

 

[Introvertednarc]

This is the most bluepilled post I’ve ever read on this forum jfl.

 

[6ft8InTheNetherlands]

This is the most bluepilled post I’ve ever read on this forum jfl.

doesn't mean it's not true.

 

[Deleted member 4416]

This is the most bluepilled post I’ve ever read on this forum jfl.

It’s about balance

 

[ElliotRodgerJr]

No

 

[Deleted member 4416]

This is the most bluepilled post I’ve ever read on this forum jfl.

I’m an engineer that will go through various surgery right after I finish my MSc, perfectly aware of the importance on looks, all I’m saying is that all of that is one step down compared to the importance of your family, but you only realise it when you’ve lost it.

 

[wristcel]

no money??? lol

 

[Deleted member 4416]

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u r so detached from reality its heartbreaking.

She will hop on another celeb cock in 3 months max, she only loved him 4 his resources and what he could provide. Love is not a real thing. Only your mother can unconditionally love you. Be crippled and lmk how long your gf/wife will continue to "love" you.

Grow a pair and swallow the blackpill, the blackpill is damn near stuck in ur throat

You saying this without realising that she lost her daughter yet say “only your mother will unconditionally love you”, this makes no sense.

 

[Luke LLL]

@my_babel_physics_pro

 

[Introvertednarc]

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u r so detached from reality its heartbreaking.

She will hop on another celeb cock in 3 months max, she only loved him 4 his resources and what he could provide. Love is not a real thing. Only your mother can unconditionally love you. Be crippled and lmk how long your gf/wife will continue to "love" you.

Grow a pair and swallow the blackpill, the blackpill is damn near stuck in ur throat

And even a mother’s ‘love’ is based on primal biological instincts. OP is clearly a low-iq bluepilled cuck who probably still watches Disney movies and sends flowers and chocolate to his oneitis who’s dating a genetically superior robust, wide-framed pretty boy.

 

[Deleted member 4416]

let me blackpill u real quick.

a woman can ONLY unconditionally love her child.

She will conditionally love a chad 4 his genes and will conditionally love a beta provider 4 his resources. But soon as that chad gets crippled she will fall out of love as his genes no longer serve her. Same with a beta provider if he were to ever go broke/lose his job.

I agree to a point, but generally affection comes into play in an Ltr (obviously that varies from person to person). Still, you are ignoring the fact that she lost her 13 years old. Life is not black and white, even if sometimes it seems so

 

[Deleted member 4416]

exactly, a mother releases massives amounts of oxycotin that binds her to her child and makes her wanna protect it.

whenever i see people like OP i just legit feel bad bc he is in 4 a rude awakening and a tough life.


"affection comes into play in an LTR"

-no attraction/affection comes into play in STR's
-comfort and familiarity comes into play in LTR's

The affection u speak of will disappear within seconds when the mysterious chad with social proof joins her workplace. Hypergamy never stops, and in 3 months when that mysterious chad becomes boring and she encounters another chad, guess what she will monkey branch off too the other new chad.

Never develop feelings 4 any woman. Looksmax like ur fucking life depends on it, play the number game, have a rotation of fuckbuddies, moneymaxx and live a baller ass life. than die

I’m in a 5 years relationship with a 6.5/7 psl. You missed the point of my post: in short is that looks, money and status make your life funny, full, unique but family makes your life worth it. just imagine you lose your parents tomorrow, you would give up on your looks/money completely just to have them back.

 

[eduardkoopman]

He loved this woman so much. That he cheated.


At the radio talk show "Tom Leykis", people that called in could request to be taken out Kobe Style. It was funny (NSFW!)

Spoiler: Kobe style

 

[Deleted member 2846]

let me blackpill u real quick.

a woman can ONLY unconditionally love her child.

She will conditionally love a chad 4 his genes and will conditionally love a beta provider 4 his resources. But soon as that chad gets crippled she will fall out of love as his genes no longer serve her. Same with a beta provider if he were to ever go broke/lose his job.

kinda narcissist how the only thing she can truly love is part of herself in another human

 

[Deleted member 773]

Bitch his wife was a gold digger WHORE

 

[Deleted member 4416]

the only way to win at their game is to be better at it than them.
a woman has to feel that u like yourself more than u like her. And anyone that likes themselves has strong boundries/standards 4 themselves. And when she feels this she gains respect 4 u.

Unlike love, respect is a very real thing. As long as she respects you her pussy will continue to get wet 4 u. The day she loses respect and she feels that u r willing to overstep ur boundaries to please her its completely OVER.

ofcourse looks>behavior initially but once she has chosen u and is fucking u, behavior bcomes more important.

if you think that affection doesn’t come into play in a LTR, you’ve never been in a LTR.

 

[je3oe]

This is the most bluepilled post I’ve ever read on this forum jfl.

He spitter facts
JFL AT THIS FUCKING FORUM AND JFL FOR THE PEOPLE THAT THINK THAT LIFE IS A BLACKPILL its a combination of all the truths u cucks

 

[shakmax]

Lmao at all these unloveable pricks. I agree 100% with this and everyone who attacks it is their own worst enemy in life.

 

[Deleted member 4416]

dude, she does not love you. She loves either your genes (chad), how u make her feel (also chad) or what resources u can provide for her (beta provider)

affection only takes place when u fulfill 1/3, 2/3, or all 3 of these checkboxes. A broke crippled guy will NEVER receive any real affection from a woman. Only virtue signaling.

Meditate on this, sleep on it, internalize it and swallow the blackpill.


life is a combo of black and red pill, also u have no debate, make a point that can be debated

I agree on everything but there’s more to it, I can guarantee you, but you have to give me some time to explain my toughts better

 

[Introvertednarc]

dude, she does not love you. She loves either your genes (chad), how u make her feel (also chad) or what resources u can provide for her (beta provider)

affection only takes place when u fulfill 1/3, 2/3, or all 3 of these checkboxes. A broke crippled guy will NEVER receive any real affection from a woman. Only virtue signaling.

Meditate on this, sleep on it, internalize it and swallow the blackpill.


life is a combo of black and red pill, also u have no debate, make a point that can be debated

This. The blackpill and the Redpill both have elements of truth in them, but when you merge the two you perceive the reality of things so much more clearly.

He spitter facts
JFL AT THIS FUCKING FORUM AND JFL FOR THE PEOPLE THAT THINK THAT LIFE IS A BLACKPILL its a combination of all the truths u cucks

Keep coping. There’s no such thing as love you delusional fucking retard.

 

[je3oe]

Keep coping. There’s no such thing as love you delusional fucking retard.

Faggot

 

[Introvertednarc]

Faggot

Typical low iq, blue-pill response. What’s wrong? Can’t you articulate your thoughts into words properly? At least try to come up with a counter-argument instead of just calling me a faggot.

 

[je3oe]

Typical low iq, blue-pill response. What’s wrong? Can’t you articulate your thoughts into words properly? At least try to come up with a counter-argument instead of just calling me a faggot.

Im not interested to have a conversation with a aspie incel that cant get laid on a forum for looksmaxxers. Busy bc looksmaxing.

 

[BigBoy]

This. The blackpill and the Redpill both have elements of truth in them, but when you merge the two you perceive the reality of things so much more clearly.

Keep coping. There’s no such thing as love you delusional fucking retard.

Aspects of the Red, Black, AND Blue pill are real.

 

[Introvertednarc]

Im not interested to have a conversation with a aspie incel that cant get laid on a forum for looksmaxxers. Busy bc looksmaxing.

I get laid you dumb fuck. Lmao I probably mog you to oblivion too.

 

[needsolution]

Ohh poor whemmen is without money and status now because her provider died

 

[Mr.cope]

As probably everyone knows, yesterday Kobe and his 13 year old daughter died in an elicopter disaster. This made me put in his wife shoes: now for her there are no money, no status, no good looks that would even remotely fill the void in her heart, all of that will seem completely meaningless, as probably life itlsef. So the real deal of life, the thing that makes the difference, is giving and receiving love from your family. Obviously looksmaxing, trying to have a successful career are an amazing journey that gives that extra touch to life and make it that much better, but the CORE, since without it Kobe’s wife will feel desperate and empty nonetheless, is affection from the ones you love. So keep looksmaxing, keep chasing money and keep boosting your Instagram followers, keep building your skyscraper, but never forget the foundation without which the building would fall.

Insurance money

 

[Introvertednarc]

Aspects of the Red, Black, AND Blue pill are real.

And you were doing so well until you mentioned the bluepill

 

[BigBoy]

what aspects of the bluepill are real?

And you were doing so well until you mentioned the bluepill

You niggas have not lived in the real world if you think the black/redpill are law

 

[GetThatBread]

The only ones that truly love you are your parents and maybe siblings, everyone else it’s conditional and fake.

 

[BigBoy]

smh i asked for what aspects of bluepill r real, ur response is typical of someone when they have ZERO arguments.

either raise a point, bring evidence (like i asked ) or stfu and get obliterated by me. learn to debate and please dont waste my time

Bark some more

 

[Selfahate]

Who care he was ugly

 

[Selfahate]

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Literally some 2 bit nigger who played with a ball and was propped up by jews

 

[Deleted member 4416]

dude, she does not love you. She loves either your genes (chad), how u make her feel (also chad) or what resources u can provide for her (beta provider)

affection only takes place when u fulfill 1/3, 2/3, or all 3 of these checkboxes. A broke crippled guy will NEVER receive any real affection from a woman. Only virtue signaling.

Meditate on this, sleep on it, internalize it and swallow the blackpill.


life is a combo of black and red pill, also u have no debate, make a point that can be debated

It’s difficult to explain, but I’ll try even tho we are diverging from my main post, but is still connected somehow.
We will start by removing the chance of you being born poor in a poor third world country, this pretty much eliminates any chance for you to be successful in any shape or form, but at the same time you are not aware of it so you can’t suffer by definition.
Then remove any chance of being born with a genetic defect, this same as point one will eliminate any chance in life.
That being said, supposing everyone on this forum is born in an acceptable condition, I’ll continue my argument.
Your genes will determine about 50% of your looks, 50% of your personality and 75% of your intelligence.

Your environment and family will determine 30% of your looks (optimal developement), 40% of your personality (how you are treated as a kid from friends and family, school etc..), 25% of your intelligence (again, optimal developement + attending the best schools).

The remaining 20% of your looks is determined by softmaxxing (chewing, optimal haircut for head shape, perfect skin, growing lashes eyebrows, raising hair quality, all that shit), 10% of your personality from working on yourself or faking it.

So now we’ve determined 100% of your looks, personality and intelligence we have you as a person, but keep in mind that all of those 3 are interconnected, obviously looking good will boost your confidence, being intelligent will make you have a better personality assuming you aren’t depressed and being extremely extrovert and confident will make you, to an extent, more desiderable (although this is rare and you have to have a 1 in 1000 personality).

Now your main objective will be to take as much as you can from your genes and transform your potential in concrete success + cheat your genes to raise your potential -> transform it in a higher concrete success.
How do you cheat your genes? For looks it will be surgery, but I’d suggest to spend at least a year being 100% informed about every procedure and the best surgeon, to get a results that fits your harmony as much as possible. For intelligence it will be drugs, supplements, diet, exercise, but keep in mind that you can only cheat the ability to memorise and focus, not your raw capacity from our current understanding. For personality it will be optimal diet and supplementation, nootropics, avoiding internet, going out and socialising as much as possible, getting used to being in a conversation, generally collecting experience so that your brain will reduce it’s inhibitions due to being acclimated.

Now we actually have you as a person, supposing that you manage to do all this (I’m close to it) you will already completely obliterate and mog >90% of men. This will make you desirable to woman so you have two paths:
- one night stands, short term relationships and fwb
- falling in love and going on an LTR.

NOW WE ARE AT WHERE I AM

To get in a LTR, your obviously have to be highly desiderable, since a hot woman will have pretty much unlimited choice, the point is that while 100% of the reason a woman falls in love with you at the beginning is a combination of the 3 things above, in variable % depending on her personal taste.

Congrats, you are in an LTR, now the reason why a woman will want to stay with you, supposing that you are able to preserve your looks and intelligence as much as possible, will be personality+success. The point you are missing is right here @noped: HOW MUCH A WOMAN WILL TRULY LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY AND HOW MUCH THIS WILL BE SUCCESS-DEPENDANT WILL DEPEND ON HER, and here you’ll make your actual decision to stay in that Ltr or not, by being with a woman 24h/24h, assuming you are >90 IQ, you will be able to tell if she actually feels love and affection towards you or she is with you only because of you money/everything else.

THE POINT IS: A SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS EXCLUSIVELY ON LOOKS, A LTR IS AN EXTREMLY DIFFICULT PSYCOLOGICAL PHENOMENON, THAT DEPENDS ON A WIDE ARRAY OF FACTORS THAY YOU CAN’T EXCLUSIVELY REDUCE TO: looks, money.
WHILE I COMPLETELY AGREE THAT THERE ARE A LOT OF GIRLS THAT WILL GET IN AN LTR WITH A MAN ONLY BECAUSE OF THOSE TWO FACTORS, THIS IS WHERE YOU, AS A MAN, MAKE A CONSCIOUS DECISION ON KEEPING HER OR NOT, IN MY PARTICULAR CASE, WE ARE BOTH GOOD LOOKING, SMART AND ARE AT THE SAME ECONOMIC LEVEL, SO OUR RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS EXLUSIVELY ON OUR CHARACTERS AND PERSONALITIES (giving that me and her can keep up with everything else), FOR EXAMPLE JUST YESTERDAY SHE CRIED BECAUSE I WAS IGNORING HER IN A HIGHLY STRESSFUL PERIOD OF MY LIFE, DO YOU THING SHE WOULD HAVE CRIED IF SHE DID NOT WANT MY AFFECTION, DO YOU THINK WE WOULD KISS AND HUG EACH OTHER FOR HOURS IF WE DID NOT GENUINELY CARE ABOUT ONE ANOTHER, DO YOU THINK WE WOULD HAVE GONE THROUGH DIFFICULT TIMES IF OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS EXCLUSIVELY BASED AROUND LOOKS AND MONEY? THE ANSWER IS NO: A LTR IS COMPLICATED AND TRYING TO REDUCE IS TO TWO FACTORS IS A SYMPTOM OF A NARROW MENTALITY.

Sorry if I digressed to an absurd degree, but this is what I think.
At the end of the day you are right about the majority of women, but there’s always a shade of gray in a black and white world, you have to consider every case in order to understand human psychology, but this is an impossible task and you prove yourself narrow minded by trying to reduce it to a “mix of black and red pill”

 

[Deleted member 4416]

you're almost there but not quite. high iq and high effort so i applaud u 4 that.

personality/success still boils down to behavior which is a redpilled concept so yes LTR is also a combo of black/red pilled concept

Also LTR attraction is more about a woman holding on to a guy that she thinks has drive/future (is going to or is on his way to being successful)

This is where you r in for a rude awakening:
"DO YOU THING SHE WOULD HAVE CRIED IF SHE DID NOT WANT MY AFFECTION, DO YOU THINK WE WOULD KISS AND HUG EACH OTHER FOR HOURS IF WE DID NOT GENUINELY CARE ABOUT ONE ANOTHER"


You think the answer is: NO
The real answer (drum roll please): YES

A woman can fuck someone behind your back and come home and cuddle with you for hours and cry in your shoulders about the lack of attention you're giving. You as a guy will not understand this, u need massive amounts of experience to understand this. They can switch it on and off. Same with crying, they can switch it on and off.

Ultimately, our views of things as human are determined by our life experiences, we simply have had different experiences and this causes our opinion to be different. Obviously I won’t be able to change your opinion as you will not be able to change mine, especially on a forum like this, but I think that our views are really close to each other, simply I’m missing you experience with women and you’re missing mine. This is why I say that the amounts of variables are pretty much unlimited in human psyche, my girl may be able to feel genuine love while the ones you encountered in your path can’t. I myself find feeling love difficult and highly dependent on my current mental state, so while sometimes I feel like a cold blooded robot other times I actually feel deep emotions in me that can’t be explained by anything that is on this forum. Anyway I don’t want to conclude this argument because some points are still not clear, so can you please give me your definition (or general definition) of the red pill and the black pill?

 

[Deleted member 4416]

evolutionarily

-)female dating strategy=finding the highest quality partner in order to have a good offspring

-)male dating strategy=having as many offsprings as possible cuz sperm is cheap


since we r talking about FDS, black pill = looks; red pill= behavior

Does red pill includes your whole personality or just “game”? Because if it includes your whole personality it’s pretty obvious that love is a combination of black and red pill, It’s like saying that a girl loves you because you are you (with you=personality+looks+intelligence and personality=game, ability to feel emotions, ability to show emotions, leadership and everything else).

 

[Deleted member 4612]

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u r so detached from reality its heartbreaking.

She will hop on another celeb cock in 3 DAYS max, she only loved him 4 his resources and what he could provide. Love is not a real thing. Only your mother can unconditionally love you. Be crippled and lmk how long your gf/wife will continue to "love" you.

Grow a pair and swallow the blackpill, the blackpill is damn near stuck in ur throat

Fixed it

 

[Deleted member 4416]

Fixed it

Quit alcohol

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Quit alcohol

I haven't drank since last year

 

[Deleted member 4612]

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drunks me

 

[Deleted member 1546]

You niggas have not lived in the real world if you think the black/redpill are law

Blackpill is 100% accurate. Redpill, you are correct

 

[Deleted member 4416]

I haven't drank since last year

Happy for you man

 

[joseph]

It’s about balance

Some of our families do everything they can to prevent us from looksmaxxing and are the cause of of our looksminning. Should we appreciate them?