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I wasn’t very attractive in my early teen years — mid LTN at best, really skinny, average height. However, I was happy and had a decent friend group.


About two years ago, I was invited to a party. There was a girl there I didn’t even like, but my friends thought it would be funny to ask her, behind my back, if she would kiss me for £10. She said no. I can only imagine she said “ew” or something similar. I didn’t find out this happened until later, when they brought it up during an argument. That led me to slowly distance myself from them.


A few months later, BP found me. Since then, I’ve “ascended” from LTN to high MTN. I also had a growth spurt and now I’m 6'3. I just turned 18.


Along with BP, I cut off most of my social interactions around the same time I finished school. Now, the only socialisation I get is at work, and I don’t really connect with the people there. I did keep one friend, but I moved cities and now he lives an hour away.


What do I do? Where do I find people I’d actually enjoy spending time with — or even a girl — without using some shitty dating app? I’m not promiscuous.

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Go out literally anywhere go to functions or parties and stuff and try to actually talk to people
 
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Go out literally anywhere go to functions or parties and stuff and try to actually talk to people
I know nobody, literally nobody. The uk isnt like the us where you can just walk into a random party.
 
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asuming you go to college search for friends in your course, first talk to them about things like homework or exams, then other stuff. do a sport like football, ther you can find friends
 
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I know nobody, literally nobody. The uk isnt like the us where you can just walk into a random party.
Do you have any like family members that might be having parties or something
 
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Go to chavgartha or sum
 
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Kolchack do not go to siberia the Czechoslovaks will betray you supreme commander
 
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I know nobody, literally nobody. The uk isnt like the us where you can just walk into a random party.
Nigga just open ur snapmaps and youll find a party
 
asuming you go to college search for friends in your course, first talk to them about things like homework or exams, then other stuff. do a sport like football, ther you can find friends
Im starting college this september, maybe its not over just yet.
 
Where does bro live, not how it works where Im from :lul:
bro tbh if u go to college just try to make friends there then
or js quickadd mfs on snap
 
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Im starting college this september, maybe its not over just yet.
bro its not over. search for a sport where you have fun. its good for health an mental health bc of social interaction.
 
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bro tbh if u go to college just try to make friends there then
or js quickadd mfs on snap
Alr bro, i guess Ill be htn and roid maxed by then to, ty for giving me hope.
 
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Alr bro, i guess Ill be htn and roid maxed by then to, ty for giving me hope.
being 6'3 and hmtn(assuming ur not overrrating urself) is more than enough to get bitches
 
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bro its not over. search for a sport where you have fun. its good for health an mental health bc of social interaction.
Ill consider it, Ill have a look online, a friend advised tennis apparently a lot of baddies do it.
 
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