Social Skills Improvement Guide (for HMTN+)
So first let’s talk about girls. When you approach them you don’t need to act like a robot trying too hard. You need to be like water going down the hill ifyky, you don’t care about rocks or weather, you just flow. Same with how you sit, how you talk, how you stand. Don’t sit like you’re nervous, don’t open your eyes like crazy, just chill. Talk slow, with control, small relaxed gestures. Even your face matters for exp, how you smile, how you move your lips. And always observe. Girls leave hints. Maybe you see on her Instagram she uses Chanel makeup. Don’t go saying “I saw it on your Insta,” that’s cringe. Just drop a light hidden joke in the group like “I swear girls with Chanel are different breed.” She will notice, but you don’t look thirsty. She will not syd, but still who knows.
Second is communication flow. Your words need to feel natural, not like you’re reading a speech ngga. Mix words with hands, posture, facial expressions. Jokes should connect with her interests, not random topics. If she’s into fashion, talk fashion. If she’s into movies, go there. That’s how you make the vibe stay smooth.
Third, handling disrespect. People will test you, especially guys. Rule number one: don’t lose your cool in front of the crowd. If someone clowns you, act like it’s nothing. If it’s too much, handle it privately. Just say “bro, don’t joke like that with me, I’m not cool with it.” Calm, direct. You show your limits without being insecure.
Fourth, boundaries. Being open doesn’t mean being a clown. People respect the guy who’s chill but has lines. Be friendly, but if someone crosses a line you show you’re not okay with it. That balance is what makes people take you serious.
Fifth, don’t be available all the time (pls). And this doesn’t mean doing cringe TikTok strategies like “wait 3 hours before texting back.” It means you actually have your own life. If you’re always free, always replying, always ready, people stop valuing you. If you’re not always available, your presence feels stronger. Just have your own grind brother. your own world, let people miss you a bit.
Now the hidden gems part. Small details can change the whole vibe. For example, having a cat on your wallpaper. A girl, especially a Stacy, might see it and ask, “oh, do you like cats?” Don’t go into some long explanation, don’t say “yes, especially cats” like you’re a cat expert. Just keep it smooth and universal: “Yeah, I like every animal, honestly.” Say it in a soft, flatter way, like it’s just part of who you are. That one sentence gives her the idea that you’re kind, open-hearted, not just another ego guy.
Another gem is not looking like you only respect “high-value” people. Talk normal with everyone, even people others call “kys type of ngga” or “chopped ass" It shows you’re socially secure and not chasing validation. That’s what makes your presence bigger because people see you don’t need to flex.
So first let’s talk about girls. When you approach them you don’t need to act like a robot trying too hard. You need to be like water going down the hill ifyky, you don’t care about rocks or weather, you just flow. Same with how you sit, how you talk, how you stand. Don’t sit like you’re nervous, don’t open your eyes like crazy, just chill. Talk slow, with control, small relaxed gestures. Even your face matters for exp, how you smile, how you move your lips. And always observe. Girls leave hints. Maybe you see on her Instagram she uses Chanel makeup. Don’t go saying “I saw it on your Insta,” that’s cringe. Just drop a light hidden joke in the group like “I swear girls with Chanel are different breed.” She will notice, but you don’t look thirsty. She will not syd, but still who knows.
Second is communication flow. Your words need to feel natural, not like you’re reading a speech ngga. Mix words with hands, posture, facial expressions. Jokes should connect with her interests, not random topics. If she’s into fashion, talk fashion. If she’s into movies, go there. That’s how you make the vibe stay smooth.
Third, handling disrespect. People will test you, especially guys. Rule number one: don’t lose your cool in front of the crowd. If someone clowns you, act like it’s nothing. If it’s too much, handle it privately. Just say “bro, don’t joke like that with me, I’m not cool with it.” Calm, direct. You show your limits without being insecure.
Fourth, boundaries. Being open doesn’t mean being a clown. People respect the guy who’s chill but has lines. Be friendly, but if someone crosses a line you show you’re not okay with it. That balance is what makes people take you serious.
Fifth, don’t be available all the time (pls). And this doesn’t mean doing cringe TikTok strategies like “wait 3 hours before texting back.” It means you actually have your own life. If you’re always free, always replying, always ready, people stop valuing you. If you’re not always available, your presence feels stronger. Just have your own grind brother. your own world, let people miss you a bit.
Now the hidden gems part. Small details can change the whole vibe. For example, having a cat on your wallpaper. A girl, especially a Stacy, might see it and ask, “oh, do you like cats?” Don’t go into some long explanation, don’t say “yes, especially cats” like you’re a cat expert. Just keep it smooth and universal: “Yeah, I like every animal, honestly.” Say it in a soft, flatter way, like it’s just part of who you are. That one sentence gives her the idea that you’re kind, open-hearted, not just another ego guy.
Another gem is not looking like you only respect “high-value” people. Talk normal with everyone, even people others call “kys type of ngga” or “chopped ass" It shows you’re socially secure and not chasing validation. That’s what makes your presence bigger because people see you don’t need to flex.
