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Be agreeable.

This might be water but it’s very important so I’m going to restate. One thing a lot of spergs struggle with, myself included, is being too honest and not having a filter. Most people want to avoid any sort of social conflict, even very minor ones without real consequences.

You have to learn to nod and smile when people say stupid shit. Normies do this all the time. Today I was talking to a guy in the gym, and I made a joke that I was doing the “left-right split.” I said it in a deadpan way so he initially thought I was being serious. He smiled and said “oh, nice bro” even though it’s completely retarded to do a “left right split” and no one does that.

This applies when you’re talking to anyone that you aren’t good friends with, but I think it applies especially when you talk to women. Girls are sensitive. It’s easy to make them scared, uncomfortable, hurt their feelings, etcetera. If you’re on a date with a girl or having a conversation with a girl and she’s rambling about some dumb shit that she cares about, DO NOT LAUGH, BE DISMISSIVE, OR TELL HER THAT SHES TALKING ABOUT DUMB SHIT. You have to learn to say “that’s nice babe!” And let her keep talking.
 
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thank for the real rizz tips mr. realninja
 
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That's gay
 
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this is actually eye opening stuff, diagnosed autist and I never do this, women aren’t used to guys laughing at them or calling out their stupid shit because all they talk to is cucks, really blindsided them when an unattractive guy doesn’t worship the ground they walk on and criticise them.

I’ll never understand being neurotypical, why are you just supposed to let people cal apples oranges
 
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Be agreeable.

This might be water but it’s very important so I’m going to restate. One thing a lot of spergs struggle with, myself included, is being too honest and not having a filter. Most people want to avoid any sort of social conflict, even very minor ones without real consequences.

You have to learn to nod and smile when people say stupid shit. Normies do this all the time. Today I was talking to a guy in the gym, and I made a joke that I was doing the “left-right split.” I said it in a deadpan way so he initially thought I was being serious. He smiled and said “oh, nice bro” even though it’s completely retarded to do a “left right split” and no one does that.

This applies when you’re talking to anyone that you aren’t good friends with, but I think it applies especially when you talk to women. Girls are sensitive. It’s easy to make them scared, uncomfortable, hurt their feelings, etcetera. If you’re on a date with a girl or having a conversation with a girl and she’s rambling about some dumb shit that she cares about, DO NOT LAUGH, BE DISMISSIVE, OR TELL HER THAT SHES TALKING ABOUT DUMB SHIT. You have to learn to say “that’s nice babe!” And let her keep talking.
Yeah this is why guys like me who grew up being an edge lord with no filter in all male friend groups struggle to talk to most women now.

I was just at a church event, meeting multiple women and I’ve realized that women are just so boring and NPC. They expect sub Chadlite men to entertain them and do all the heavy lifting in conversation which is an art itself. You have to take conversational risks while maintain NT-ness which is difficult AF. With most girls I talk to if I be myself/low inhib, I’ll end up weirding them out 90% of the time. But then I try to be NT/Normal they end up getting bored. Seems like I can never win.

Average guys have do all this shit while foids on TikTok are complaining ab how their 6 month Chad situationship has never cared to ask details ab her personal life. While MTN niggas are like “wHeRe dO u sEe yOuRsElF iN tHe nExT 5 yRs”
 
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i was called too honest and mean two days ago by a foid
 
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Learn 48 laws of power to dominate social situations
 
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Yeah this is why guys like me who grew up being an edge lord with no filter in all male friend groups struggle to talk to most women now.

I was just at a church event, meeting multiple women and I’ve realized that women are just so boring and NPC. They expect sub Chadlite men to entertain them and do all the heavy lifting in conversation which is an art itself. You have to take conversational risks while maintain NT-ness which is difficult AF. With most girls I talk to if I be myself/low inhib, I’ll end up weirding them out 90% of the time. But then I try to be NT/Normal they end up getting bored. Seems like I can never win.

Average guys have do all this shit while foids on TikTok are complaining ab how their 6 month Chad situationship has never cared to ask details ab her personal life. While MTN niggas are like “wHeRe dO u sEe yOuRsElF iN tHe nExT 5 yRs”
@RealNinja any advice on how to deal with this?
 

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