RealNinja
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Be agreeable.
This might be water but it’s very important so I’m going to restate. One thing a lot of spergs struggle with, myself included, is being too honest and not having a filter. Most people want to avoid any sort of social conflict, even very minor ones without real consequences.
You have to learn to nod and smile when people say stupid shit. Normies do this all the time. Today I was talking to a guy in the gym, and I made a joke that I was doing the “left-right split.” I said it in a deadpan way so he initially thought I was being serious. He smiled and said “oh, nice bro” even though it’s completely retarded to do a “left right split” and no one does that.
This applies when you’re talking to anyone that you aren’t good friends with, but I think it applies especially when you talk to women. Girls are sensitive. It’s easy to make them scared, uncomfortable, hurt their feelings, etcetera. If you’re on a date with a girl or having a conversation with a girl and she’s rambling about some dumb shit that she cares about, DO NOT LAUGH, BE DISMISSIVE, OR TELL HER THAT SHES TALKING ABOUT DUMB SHIT. You have to learn to say “that’s nice babe!” And let her keep talking.
This might be water but it’s very important so I’m going to restate. One thing a lot of spergs struggle with, myself included, is being too honest and not having a filter. Most people want to avoid any sort of social conflict, even very minor ones without real consequences.
You have to learn to nod and smile when people say stupid shit. Normies do this all the time. Today I was talking to a guy in the gym, and I made a joke that I was doing the “left-right split.” I said it in a deadpan way so he initially thought I was being serious. He smiled and said “oh, nice bro” even though it’s completely retarded to do a “left right split” and no one does that.
This applies when you’re talking to anyone that you aren’t good friends with, but I think it applies especially when you talk to women. Girls are sensitive. It’s easy to make them scared, uncomfortable, hurt their feelings, etcetera. If you’re on a date with a girl or having a conversation with a girl and she’s rambling about some dumb shit that she cares about, DO NOT LAUGH, BE DISMISSIVE, OR TELL HER THAT SHES TALKING ABOUT DUMB SHIT. You have to learn to say “that’s nice babe!” And let her keep talking.