SocialProof and Preselection

[johnny4612]

I’d love to share the story of a friend’s life transformation over the past year.

He has essentially become an influencer, posting extensively about his life (but all post were intrinsecally about preselection and social proof)

As a personal trainer, he presents himself in a position of leadership, guiding others. People compliment him, laugh with him, and seek advice from him. He has effectively created a highly emotionally engaged community, particularly among women in his group.

Can you imagine this guy went from 50 likes per post to 400? Remarkably, 80% of those likes are from women.

Preselection and social proof are incredibly important and play a major role in elevating a person's status.

You can give a woman two watches—one is real and one is fake. If you don’t tell her which is the real one but inform her friend that the fake one is real, she will likely believe it.
You can turn shit in chocolate and viceversa.


This real-life experience has deepened my understanding of this topic. Are there any guides or resources on social proof and preselection that are worth exploring? I’ve seen many well-detailed guides on blackpilled looksmax but not much on this subject.

 

[HotDork]

So, what are you implying by social proof and preselection? That status and social media presence attracts women to men? Of course it does, it's nothing new but looks still play significant factor in attraction, no matter the status you have. Ugly and physically undesirable famous men are not lusted by women publicly like they do with attractive famous men.

 

[NZb6Air]

you can not turn shit into chocolate LOL, if the watch is disgusting nigger shit and believed to be real, she's still gonna pick the nice looking "fake" one

yea being desirable and then socially peer reviewed makes u even more desirable amazing

 

[noodlelover]

You don't need a guide. It's common sense.

1. Looksmax first (low bodyfat, good muscle mass, visible abs)
2. Dress & Act sexy. If you act like this, it's indirectly social proof because women assume because no one has put you in your place, you have resources. Only poor people have habitualized acting "proper" to keep their jobs.
3. Create a social media presence where you talk about a topic women find interesting. (Not technology. Not Science)
4. Bot views
5. Bot comments
6. Create a bunch of fake female profiles (or buy them) and comment on your looks positively and thumbs up other comments you did.

Give girls you're talking to links to this. Make sure you have manual approval of comments turned on so none of them comment some dumb shit and ruin it for you.

 

[HotDork]

Let's be real, there are famous men who don't look conventionally attractive yet women lust over them. Some of them are even a bit ugly. Status halo makes even ordinary looking men attractive by perception. Women tend to sexualize famous men collectively like a cult. They start seeing something that they otherwise wouldn't see in such men if they were nobody and saw them in the streets.

 

[johnny4612]

So, what are you implying by social proof and preselection? That status and social media presence attracts women to men? Of course it does, it's nothing new but looks still play significant factor in attraction, no matter the status you have. Ugly and physically undesirable famous men are not lusted by women publicly like they do with attractive famous men.

Hmm I'll be more specific.

This friend of mine, maxed out social proof and pre-selection by showing that he is a leader in his environment created by him, and that there are women who "incite" him and he "incites" them to improve.
He also shows a healthy lifestyle, and has clips where he shows himself traveling doing actions that again max out social proof.

It's not being "famous" for the nation, but he is "famous" and has "pre-selection" in his city. Which makes him very attractive in his city.

 

[johnny4612]

yea being desirable and then socially peer reviewed makes u even more desirable amazing

Let's say he was a MTN at the start of the process.

The shit was just a metaphor

 

[johnny4612]

Create a social media presence where you talk about a topic women find interesting

For example?
Music, Art, Astrology, Poetry?

 

[HotDork]

Hmm I'll be more specific.

This friend of mine, maxed out social proof and pre-selection by showing that he is a leader in his environment created by him, and that there are women who "incite" him and he "incites" them to improve.
He also shows a healthy lifestyle, and has clips where he shows himself traveling doing actions that again max out social proof.

It's not being "famous" for the nation, but he is "famous" and has "pre-selection" in his city. Which makes him very attractive in his city.

Yeah, there's one manlet chadlite in my country who does the exact same thing by advertising himself on Instagram by showing off badass clothes and lifestyle. It's a legit way to increase your SMV but only in a select target location, not globally unless you're in Hollywood.

 

[noodlelover]

For example?
Music, Art, Astrology, Poetry?

I'm not sure, but I would go with something that my ideal girl would be interested in, that's also something that many women are interested in. So I'd start by writing up about the habits, routines, beliefs, values and everything of my ideal girl.

Also keeping it realistic to something that some girls in my area like.

 

[johnny4612]

I'm not sure, but I would go with something that my ideal girl would be interested in, that's also something that many women are interested in. So I'd start by writing up about the habits, routines, beliefs, values and everything of my ideal girl.

Also keeping it realistic to something that some girls in my area like.

Very well done!

For example I can see those women going for tatooed men.
Don't get me wrong, but usually those aren't good women, they usually cheat, or do something I don't like.

How would you structure the writing about her? Which categories to consider?

 

[Xangsane]

I’d love to share the story of a friend’s life transformation over the past year.

He has essentially become an influencer, posting extensively about his life (but all post were intrinsecally about preselection and social proof)

As a personal trainer, he presents himself in a position of leadership, guiding others. People compliment him, laugh with him, and seek advice from him. He has effectively created a highly emotionally engaged community, particularly among women in his group.

Can you imagine this guy went from 50 likes per post to 400? Remarkably, 80% of those likes are from women.

Preselection and social proof are incredibly important and play a major role in elevating a person's status.

You can give a woman two watches—one is real and one is fake. If you don’t tell her which is the real one but inform her friend that the fake one is real, she will likely believe it.
You can turn shit in chocolate and viceversa.


This real-life experience has deepened my understanding of this topic. Are there any guides or resources on social proof and preselection that are worth exploring? I’ve seen many well-detailed guides on blackpilled looksmax but not much on this subject.

What’s his looks level

 

[noodlelover]

Very well done!

For example I can see those women going for tatooed men.
Don't get me wrong, but usually those aren't good women, they usually cheat, or do something I don't like.

How would you structure the writing about her? Which categories to consider?

Just write: Hobbies, What she looks like, Degree(s) or Training, Family Life, Relationships, Friendships, Movies/Shows she Likes, Speaking Style, and any other categories you can think of.

This is your target demographic. You might attract a girl that's a little different than what you wrote, but at least you have something to base your style of video, presentation, color palette, video shooting locations, body language, speaking style, video style, etc. on.

After you write the description, try to find as much media, movies, TV shows, games (if they'd play games), influencers, music, etc. to look at for possible things that could help with your branding, and as references.

Make sure you pick the content platform that they would actually use, based on their age and personality type.