Solo clubbing experience 3, many many rejections

[DoctorLooksmax]

Went out solo once more firday night. One of my mates was DJing at another club so I went and had few beers with them beforehand which made me feel like less of an aspie for going out alone. In my desperate hunt to get sex I hit up another club where no one I know goes so i dont risk awkwardly bumping to someone. I had my elevator shoes on with in soles, making me a 6'2 Mog machine, standing in the queue when going in solo is always kind of awkward because its the one part of the night where its obvious you are there alone, once youre inside luckily no one can really tell, when im the queue I always pretend to be on the phone to someone so if anyone asks I can be like oh yh my mates already inside im meeting him in there, just on the phone to him now. In the queue I was weareing my tight try hard gymcel fitted t shirt, someone ( a male obviously) standing next to me compliments my arms in the queue. First girl I approach I see smiling at me a little bit so I go up to her and chat to her for a minute, im getting good vibes from her so i just say 'do you wanna get with me?' and then she goes 'ermm not yet' and runs away and 2 mins later I saw her snogging some black guy. Anyway go a few more approaches, I alwasy just go up to girls and ask hey hows ypour night going to begin with, whats your name etc, just basic normal stuff, if they actually are attracted to me its obvious within about 10 seconds and ill jsut go for this kiss. Anyway so managed eye contact with some girls so I go up to them an try and talk to them, a lot of them just flat out ignore me and carry on dancing with their freinds, or do a kind of provactive dance move in your direction but if you try and actually talk to them they just back away, a couple of girls who I approached asking them how their night was going straight up told me to fuck off.

So im hanging around the bar area and some guy in a mixed gender group taps me on the shlulder and says she wants you to buy her a drink, I sasy well she can ask he herself if she wants that haha, then he taps her and shes like oi but the girls like no hehe, but I think she might have acc been attracted to be bnut just backed out anyway who knows. I see a girl sitting on the sofas by herself so I go up to her and say hi, talk to her for about 30 seconds, shes actualy being fairly receptive to me but then she says sorry ive got a boyfriend hes literally over there just getting me a drink now, I say 'no worries thanks for letting me know anyway' and then walk off. This was the only girl who was actually polite to me when I approached her out of all the girls i approached that night so I somewhat appreciated that, anhway at this point ive been in the club for about an hour- an hour and a half and approached about 8 girls and been rejected in one form or another each time so decide to call it a night, I leave the club, immediately take out my insole lifts because theyre uncomfortable as fuck and walk home alone

 

[Chintuck22]

Imagine going to clubs to cold approach

kys faggot

 

[SMVbender]

i went club alone once. got a laid but she ghosted me later.

i was lucky since they don't a man without a partner generally AND found someone.

tried one or two later but extremely hard and other fuckbois were seem pathetic af.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Imagine going to clubs to cold approach

kys faggot

You have to try and meet girls somehow. Whats the alternative? Rotting in my basement

i went club alone once. got a laid but she ghosted me later.

i was lucky since they don't a man without a partner generally AND found someone.

tried one or two later but extremely hard and other fuckbois were seem pathetic af.

Ive been quite a few times now, made some seperate threads on the topic, last time I was full on making out with this girl who was fairly attractive, she was grinding on me grabbing me cock etc, but she was too drunk to ask to come back to mine so I got her number textd her for a few days but she ended up airing me like 4 days later

 

[Deleted member 3328]

i went club alone once. got a laid but she ghosted me later.

i was lucky since they don't a man without a partner generally AND found someone.

tried one or two later but extremely hard and other fuckbois were seem pathetic af.

Imagine wanting something serious from a girl you hook up with from a club.

It's good to ghost your ONS, I wouldn't want to be in ltr with some slut.

 

[turkproducer]

keep in mind OP is 5’11/6’0 and gymcelled with above average face

it’s over for the majority of men

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Imagine wanting something serious from a girl you hook up with from a club.

It's good to ghost your ONS, I wouldn't want to be in ltr with some slut.

tbf I had an ONS with my oneitis and asked her out on an actual date afterwards but got rejected, its a bit of a different scenario though since i didnt just meet her in the club knew her from social cirlce kinda

keep in mind OP is 5’11/6’0 and gymcelled with above average face

it’s over for the majority of men

I was actually much taller than that on this night since I was wearing airmax and a 1 inch insert

 

[Chintuck22]

You have to try and meet girls somehow. Whats the alternative? Rotting in my basement

It's OK if you want ons tho. But going out in clubs to get girlfriend material is hilarious, that's what i'm saying

 

[BigBiceps]

You can't just go for the kiss in first 10 seconds you've introduced yourself to girl. That kind of stuff only happens in movies. You need to strike up a conversation, make her feel relaxed around you and maybe then go for the kiss.

 

[Deleted member 3328]

keep in mind OP is 5’11/6’0 and gymcelled with above average face

it’s over for the majority of men

Is he PSL 5?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It's OK if you want ons tho. But going out in clubs to get girlfriend material is hilarious, that's what i'm saying

Im trying to get whatever I can mate. GF, Fuck buddy, ONS, I just need sex one way or another, How i get it is very much a secondary concern for me

 

[turkproducer]

Is he PSL 5?

i don’t know but above 4

 

[Andros]

keep in mind OP is 5’11/6’0 and gymcelled with above average face

it’s over for the majority of men

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You can't just go for the kiss in first 10 seconds you've introduced yourself to girl. That kind of stuff only happens in movies. You need to strike up a conversation, make her feel relaxed around you and maybe then go for the kiss.

well thats not the case when girls are very drunk in a night time environment imo. All im saying is when i actually have got girls in clubs, I kissed them after maybe 30 seconds of talking to them

 

[Gazzamogga]

Clubs are terrible to meet women unless you're giga tall or have giga chad face.

Bitches go for validation and free drinks as well as social media posts and social status.

 

[Chadelite]

You can't just go for the kiss in first 10 seconds you've introduced yourself to girl. That kind of stuff only happens in movies. You need to strike up a conversation, make her feel relaxed around you and maybe then go for the kiss.

works for chad

 

[turkproducer]

this whole post is sui fuel

 

[Chadelite]

Clubs are terrible to meet women unless you're giga tall or have giga chad face.

Bitches go for validation and free drinks as well as social media posts and social status.

good since i will have both

also liverpool mogs

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Clubs are terrible to meet women unless you're giga tall or have giga chad face.

Bitches go for validation and free drinks as well as social media posts and social status.

I know its not ideal mate, but I figure I need to try every single avenue of oppurtunity I can. What would you reccomend instead? Tinder? I get some decent matches but they usually ignore me or wont meet me. Social cirlcle? Youre limited to a very small pool of women and have to jsut hope one of them might be attracted to you. Daytime cold approach? Not low inhib enough for it and worry ill get metoo-ed

 

[Gazzamogga]

I know its not ideal mate, but I figure I need to try every single avenue of oppurtunity I can. What would you reccomend instead? Tinder? I get some decent matches but they usually ignore me or wont meet me. Social cirlcle? Youre limited to a very small pool of women and have to jsut hope one of them might be attracted to you. Daytime cold approach? Not low inhib enough for it and worry ill get metoo-ed

Social circle is the absolute best way to go for men that aren't at least Chadlite.

Also social events such as parties or festivals (that you go to through your social circle), hobby/sports classes, gym.. Just generic normie things

 

[turkproducer]

Social circle is the absolute best way to go for men that aren't at least Chadlite.

Also social events such as parties or festivals (that you go to through your social circle), hobby/sports classes, gym.. Just generic normie things

he is high inhib cuck

 

[Gazzamogga]

good since i will have both

also liverpool mogs

Oranje mogs

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Social circle is the absolute best way to go for men that aren't at least Chadlite.

Also social events such as parties or festivals (that you go to through your social circle), hobby/sports classes, gym.. Just generic normie things

I do all these things as well as cold approaching. How are you meant to make a move on a girl in your social cirlcle? Seriously, what do you do? Just go up to her and say you like her, try and subtley flirty with her? What does social cirlce game even mean?

 

[Gazzamogga]

I do all these things as well as cold approaching. How are you meant to make a move on a girl in your social cirlcle? Seriously, what do you do? Just go up to her and say you like her, try and subtley flirty with her? What does social cirlce game even mean?

You don't go for girls in your direct circle unless they're really into you. It's about the parties that you'll go to through your social circle, the people you meet through your social circle etc. The most important thing is to not be autistic, and I'm getting some autistic vibes from you which explains your lack of succes. (if you're really 6' gymcelled above avg face)

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You don't go for girls in your direct circle unless they're really into you. It's about the parties that you'll go to through your social circle, the people you meet through your social circle etc. The most important thing is to not be autistic, and I'm getting some autistic vibes from you which explains your lack of succes. (if you're really 6' gymcelled above avg face)

I go to parties all the time but normally will just chill with my close mates, do drugs with them and drink with them, dont tend to speak to girls. Also i always feel like if I approach a girl at aparty with my friends there they will judge me for it or say something weird.

 

[Deleted member 616]

https://looksmax.org/threads/going-home-with-becky-now.100935/#post-1712815

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

https://looksmax.org/threads/going-home-with-becky-now.100935/#post-1712815

But if i dont go then i will just be incel

 

[Slayerino]

or do a kind of provactive dance move in your direction but if you try and actually talk to them they just back away,

This. THIS. FUCKING THIS!.

 

[Deleted member 5061]

I go to parties all the time but normally will just chill with my close mates, do drugs with them and drink with them, dont tend to speak to girls. Also i always feel like if I approach a girl at aparty with my friends there they will judge me for it or say something weird.

Yes because thats exactly what happens. If you cold approach a foid at a party that is with her foid friends there, chances are her friends will cock block, because they might be jealous that she is beeing approached and they arent. Also one of her friends might not like you and comment some negative shit about you. Even if she initially found you ok/somewhat gl, the moment her foid friends say smth negative abt you its over, she loses interest in you.

Thats why its retarded to approach foids when theyre with female friends. You basically have to impress ALL in order to have success, not just the one u want. And if youre not at least chadlite, chances of achievingg it are extremely small.

And ofc your buddies will judge you also and try to bring you down/make fun of your approach. One- cause they werent low inhib enough to do it themselves and two- theyd be fucking jealous if it worked for you and youd get to smash P that evening, while they circle jerk each other off like fkn faggots.

Trust me, doesnt matter how big of a BRO you are with them, dudes get jealous when it comes to foids, if someone gets to smash while they dont.

Clubs/bars/didcos is a lose/lose scenario at least in the west.

 

[Virgincel]

FACE

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Yes because thats exactly what happens. If you cold approach a foid at a party that is with her foid friends there, chances are her friends will cock block, because they might be jealous that she is beeing approached and they arent. Also one of her friends might not like you and comment some negative shit about you. Even if she initially found you ok/somewhat gl, the moment her foid friends say smth negative abt you its over, she loses interest in you.

Thats why its retarded to approach foids when theyre with female friends. You basically have to impress ALL in order to have success, not just the one u want. And if youre not at least chadlite, chances of achievingg it are extremely small.

And ofc your buddies will judge you also and try to bring you down/make fun of your approach. One- cause they werent low inhib enough to do it themselves and two- theyd be fucking jealous if it worked for you and youd get to smash P that evening, while they circle jerk each other off like fkn faggots.

Trust me, doesnt matter how big of a BRO you are with them, dudes get jealous when it comes to foids, if someone gets to smash while they dont.

Clubs/bars/didcos is a lose/lose scenario at least in the west.

mate this post honestly perfectly sums up my experience of parties in college, for the most part the foids just hangout and drink in their foid groups and take pictures of themselves all dressed up slutty even tjoigh they probably dont have any attention of actually hooking up with a guy. Then the dudes just chill in their own groups drink, do drugs etc. Occasionally through a combination of random luck/chance and normally large amounts of alcohol 2 people will hook up, and have sex, I know this because its happened to me a grand total of one time. Everyone is just out cock blocking eachother, 'wingmaning' aka helping your mates get pussy is just a meme and never actually happens. Maybe high school parties were different, I was an unpopular loser back then so I dont know what they were like. People say social circle/parties is the way to go if youre only avrage or slightly above average but atleast in my experience the amount of hooking up going on at these parties is much much less than I had imagined before I began college, thats not to say it doesnt happen

 

[Unknownjpg]

Very interesting reading, if I can ask op what’s ur body like? I go out sometimes with friends clubbing etc, but I’m very tall(norm the tallest in the club) good frame, but aspie when it comes to girls I can’t approach etc a good lot of times when I go out girls come up n comment on how I dress etc touch me even out of the blue, they’ll say smthin and I’ll jus end the convo basically.My face isn’t great normal tbh. Tbh a lot of people on here wouldn’t do what your doing so I say keep doing it, there’s no point of rotting and shit go out, idk how u do talk to foids, but is that true you getting with girls in a min, do you ask or just lean in? I think getting sex from a club is common enough but hooking up kissing etc is a lot more.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Very interesting reading, if I can ask op what’s ur body like? I go out sometimes with friends clubbing etc, but I’m very tall(norm the tallest in the club) good frame, but aspie when it comes to girls I can’t approach etc a good lot of times when I go out girls come up n comment on how I dress etc touch me even out of the blue, they’ll say smthin and I’ll jus end the convo basically.My face isn’t great normal tbh. Tbh a lot of people on here wouldn’t do what your doing so I say keep doing it, there’s no point of rotting and shit go out, idk how u do talk to foids, but is that true you getting with girls in a min, do you ask or just lean in? I think getting sex from a club is common enough but hooking up kissing etc is a lot more.

Very interesting reading, if I can ask op what’s ur body like? I go out sometimes with friends clubbing etc, but I’m very tall(norm the tallest in the club) good frame, but aspie when it comes to girls I can’t approach etc a good lot of times when I go out girls come up n comment on how I dress etc touch me even out of the blue, they’ll say smthin and I’ll jus end the convo basically.My face isn’t great normal tbh. Tbh a lot of people on here wouldn’t do what your doing so I say keep doing it, there’s no point of rotting and shit go out, idk how u do talk to foids, but is that true you getting with girls in a min, do you ask or just lean in? I think getting sex from a club is common enough but hooking up kissing etc is a lot more.

All the girls I actually have kissed, its happened within a minute of approaching, basically PUA is bullshit but having the balls to go up to a girl and atually approach isnt. I got rejected a lot this time but last time I went out i spend ages getting with this fairly attractvie girl, she wasnt some stacy or antything but I dont expect that, she was like a 6/10 which im very happy with. Anyway she literally smiled and waved at me from across the bar and then i went over to her and said hey whats your name, she says Grace and she literally is smilling and me looking up at me the whole time and places her hands on my shoulders almsot straight away. I ask how her nights going shes like yh its good im here with my sister and points to some other girl over at the bar, her body language is just so flirtatious and obvious so just lean in for the kiss ( whole thing from her waving at me to the kiss was like 30 seconds srs) then spend the next half an hour making out and dancing with her but then she goes to the tolet and throws up from being so drunk and I cant really take her back to mine given shes literally drunk af and im sober so i get her number and let her go home with her sister. Anyway after that night on the sunday afternoon i text her like hey its 'my name' from last night do you remember me, shes like haha yeah i do. Anyway we text small talk for few days then its gets to Friday and i text her like so are you out this weekend then, and she just ignored that text and that was the end of that



Oh yeah one other point, Ive noticed whenever im out and have actually managed to kiss some girls or even slay, its usually been girls who are out in just a pair or a small group, girls out in big groups dont seem intrestred in anything other than dancing provocatively amongst themselves and taking group pictures. Girls who are out in pairs are usually more interested in actually meeting a guy to potentially fuck, plus youve only got one other girl to appease not a whole social cirlce of foids to navigate in order to get her

 

[Unknownjpg]

Dam v impressive op how long did it take ? I’m on sarm cutting cycle first time ever using tbh Ima stick w sarms prob or do a cycle of test e 300mg. But need to cut down I’m 20%+ rn. I never see people like that here going out it’s all basically 6ft normies. Also just wondering the in the past you said you got with girls within a min, did u lean in or ask if so what ?
Ty

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Dam v impressive op how long did it take ? I’m on sarm cutting cycle first time ever using tbh Ima stick w sarms prob or do a cycle of test e 300mg. But need to cut down I’m 20%+ rn. I never see people like that here going out it’s all basically 6ft normies. Also just wondering the in the past you said you got with girls within a min, did u lean in or ask if so what ?
Ty

depends how obvious their body language is, normally just lean in tbh, bare in mind this is only literally the 3rd time ive been out by myself trying to pull so im not an expert on it by any means.

Also Id save the drugs for bulking tbh, you can easily cut natty if youre 20% bf. One thing here no one here talks about in regards to steroids/sarms is that you dont have an unlimited number of cycles you can do. I mean eventually you will have one of the following things happen, either A) balding or B) some sort of health problem. So you need to achieve your goal body before one of these things happens to you, because once it does you cant keep blasting gear, maybe some guys are really unlucky and thatll happen to them after one cycle, maybe other guys itll be 20-30 cycles, all i can say for sure is if you keep using eventually you will run into some problems so make sure you make the most of your cycles

 

[Chadelite]

depends how obvious their body language is, normally just lean in tbh, bare in mind this is only literally the 3rd time ive been out by myself trying to pull so im not an expert on it by any means

u went out with @turkproducer right?

 

[turkproducer]

u went out with @turkproducer right?

NEVER

 

[.👽.]

This Sounds like a bluepill but i think you have no game. Imagine getting rejected and everyone sees it. Then you go to the next girl like a beggar. Instant low value

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

This Sounds like a bluepill but i think you have no game. Imagine getting rejected and everyone sees it. Then you go to the next girl like a beggar. Instant low value

I dont use any game, I just go up to the girl and say hey hows your night going, then ask her name, after this point I can tell if shes gonna be open to getting with me or not. The girl from last time Grace already started touching my shoulders before i even got to ask her name, I know what a girls body language is like when theyre attracted to me and want to get with me, therefore if theyre not like that, thats a rejection in my eyes

 

[anti caking agents]

and then she goes 'ermm not yet' and runs away and 2 mins later I saw her snogging some black guy.

JFL

 

[.👽.]

I dont use any game, I just go up to the girl and say hey hows your night going, then ask her name, after this point I can tell if shes gonna be open to getting with me or not. The girl from last time Grace already started touching my shoulders before i even got to ask her name, I know what a girls body language is like when theyre attracted to me and want to get with me, therefore if theyre not like that, thats a rejection in my eyes

Im in no way an expert but this sounds boring. You are in a club bro, have fun talk and not something like "what do you work"

 

[Unknownjpg]

depends how obvious their body language is, normally just lean in tbh, bare in mind this is only literally the 3rd time ive been out by myself trying to pull so im not an expert on it by any means.

Also Id save the drugs for bulking tbh, you can easily cut natty if youre 20% bf. One thing here no one here talks about in regards to steroids/sarms is that you dont have an unlimited number of cycles you can do. I mean eventually you will have one of the following things happen, either A) balding or B) some sort of health problem. So you need to achieve your goal body before one of these things happens to you, because once it does you cant keep blasting gear, maybe some guys are really unlucky and thatll happen to them after one cycle, maybe other guys itll be 20-30 cycles, all i can say for sure is if you keep using eventually you will run into some problems so make sure you make the most of your cycles

I see ya what ur saying I’ll have to get in more tune with reading body language cause I’ve no idea,
And Ik what your saying about the cycles I’m on stuff for hair, tbh I’ll only be able to do a cycle or two before I go back to work in a year. Thanks for that.

 

[crosshold]

its rough yeah

honestly the times i went alone i dont even approach (i never approach actually cuz im afraid of rejection) i still have fun bcuz i just like to get drunk and dance

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I see ya what ur saying I’ll have to get in more tune with reading body language cause I’ve no idea,
And Ik what your saying about the cycles I’m on stuff for hair, tbh I’ll only be able to do a cycle or two before I go back to work in a year. Thanks for that.

mate theres nothing to be in tune with. Im pretty aspie but i know if a girl is looking up at me smiling, biting my her lip, responding well to my touch its a damn sure sign she wants me to kiss her

Im in no way an expert but this sounds boring. You are in a club bro, have fun talk and not something like "what do you work"

Does it really matter? I feel like if theyre not attracted to you theres nothing you can say to sway rhem

 

[Dark Latino]

Most women even though they might dress slutty etc they don't want to fuck some random guy under 5 minutes ... And trust me the girl who does that she has done it with tons of other guys other than you...Just flirt with them maybe try for a make out and take ig or phone number and take them on a date that way you have higher chances of getting laid ,most women will not fuck so fast when meeting a stranger

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Most women even though they might dress slutty etc they don't want to fuck some random guy under 5 minutes ... And trust me the girl who does that she has done it with tons of other guys other than you...Just flirt with them maybe try for a make out and take ig or phone number and take them on a date that way you have higher chances of getting laid ,most women will not fuck so fast when meeting a stranger

I mean id happily do that as well, I didnt even manage to get to the phone number point last night. If i got a girls number and shes like im not gonna go home with you tonight but you can take me out some other time id be perfectly happy with that situation as well. Just gotta keep trying approaching i suppose and hope something comes of it

 

[RAITEIII]

Imagine wanting something serious from a girl you hook up with from a club.

It's good to ghost your ONS, I wouldn't want to be in ltr with some slut.

But you're also there and you don't call yourself a male slut...

How would u go about a relationship because for me tinder and such can just be the same

 

[Deleted member 3328]

But you're also there and you don't call yourself a male slut...

How would u go about a relationship because for me tinder and such can just be the same

It's not the same.

Women is a slut because it's so easy to get sex. Women have 100% chance of getting sex if they want.

If you are a guy you have to actually try. This is why it's an accomplishment.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I literally need sex so so badly. Withut it every othetr aspect of life just gets put on the back burner, its so hard to even care about things like your degree or your career when ypoure literal biological imperatives are unfullfilled. This is so fucking unfair omg how cna i get sex, I feel like im gonna fuckling explode withpout it

 

[nastynas]

jfl at this dork going for kiss after 10 secs of meeting a girl and complaining about it

watch less movies and porn bro