[srs] friend likes a girl but the girl likes me

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ok im in a tough spot here. i have a genuinely very nice friend from my same class. we are very like-minded and have the same view on a lot of things.

there is this girl in my class who is from the same city as me. we only figured this out after some time.

this friend of mine likes her. he's been telling me about it since the first weeks of classes.
me and this girl have been talking a lot as we are from the same city and we found out me and the girl have a lot in common too (f1, humor, etc)

this girl has been blatantly flirting with me lately and its evident at this point that she likes me. whatever shitty joke i make she laughs and likes the messages in the group chat, etc. pretty obvious at this point.

how do i deal with this? do i tell the friend or do i not tell him or do i not talk with her more? what do i do
 
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i've only know both of them for ~3 months so i dont really have an emotional bias towards anyone tbh. and she's pretty too
 
This happened to me, I just DNRD the girl because she was LTB and my friend was too pussy to even do anything with her. Best outcome tbh friendship prevailed and girl had to LDAR. Different though because me and my friend were friends for years beforehand. Bros before hoes.
 
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You Cockblock your friend and fuck the girl then introduce him to this site
 
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This happened to me, I just DNRD the girl because she was LTB and my friend was too pussy to even do anything with her. Best outcome tbh friendship prevailed and girl had to LDAR. Different though because me and my friend were friends for years beforehand. Bros before hoes.
what LDAR?
 
If you're a htn/slayer don't fuck that bitch and risk to lose the friend since you can get another bitch easily

If you're subhuman/ltn then fuck her cuz you'll hardly get another girl
 
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Happened to me too nigga, only difference my guy friend knew this girl that he liked was into me and he didn’t tell me cuz he was too scared i would have fucked her (i didn’t like her and i told him too smh)
 
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@HarrierDuBois don't wtf react me unless that girl is ugly and he is gl that's the best solution for him
 
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If you're a htn/slayer don't fuck that bitch and risking to lose the friend since you can get another bitch easily

If you're subhuman/ltn then fuck her cuz you'll hardly get another girl
she is a really pretty girl but not like the slutty pretty. like a really pretty girl with a mature feminine personality.

hmm, idk how i feel towards either im just in the middle zone rn
 
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Also it feels good to cuck people big test boost
 
This happened to me, I just DNRD the girl because she was LTB and my friend was too pussy to even do anything with her. Best outcome tbh friendship prevailed and girl had to LDAR. Different though because me and my friend were friends for years beforehand. Bros before hoes.
yeah i would do this without a second thought if it was my best friend who ive been close with for years just like you.

but then again ive only known both of them for a few months and the girl is really very pretty too
 
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she is a really pretty girl but not like the slutty pretty. like a really pretty girl with a mature feminine personality.

hmm, idk how i feel towards either im just in the middle zone rn
Wait man if she is HTB and feminine and mature you have got to take her, I mainly rejected this girl because of looks level I changed my mind @Napoleon1800 was right cuck him fuck her.
 
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Wait man if she is HTB and feminine and mature you have got to take her, I mainly rejected this girl because of looks level I changed my mind @Napoleon1800 was right cuck him fuck her.
Anything strong mtb+ witn okay or decent body is worth fucking
 
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she is a really pretty girl but not like the slutty pretty. like a really pretty girl with a mature feminine personality.

hmm, idk how i feel towards either im just in the middle zone rn
Do you wanna have an LTR with her then or just pump and dump?
It would be dumb to lose your friend for just a hookup, but from what i'm reading it seems you want an LTR with her, idk give it more time and see if it's worth it
 
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@HarrierDuBois @Napoleon1800 her face is the biggest "it" factor for me ngl. like a very very pretty face. she is easily one of the prettiest girls ive seen.
 
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@HarrierDuBois @Napoleon1800 her face is the biggest "it" factor for me ngl. like a very very pretty face. she is easily one of the prettiest girls ive seen.
PM pic.
 
Do you wanna have an LTR with her then or just pump and dump?
It would be dumb to lose your friend for just a hookup, but from what i'm reading it seems you want an LTR with her, idk give it more time and see if it's worth it
yeah i think i would want an LTR with her if i were to be with her ngl
like you get what i mean right, she's that pretty gf mature type
 
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@HarrierDuBois @Napoleon1800 her face is the biggest "it" factor for me ngl. like a very very pretty face. she is easily one of the prettiest girls ive seen.
I wanna cry rn
 
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@HarrierDuBois @Napoleon1800 her face is the biggest "it" factor for me ngl. like a very very pretty face. she is easily one of the prettiest girls ive seen.
Do you have pic to dm

Also what rating r u + whats ur height
 
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I wanna cry rn
I had the same reaction when I once saw a foid thought she was the prettiest girl ever, she would later become my oneitis and brutally reject me

While u get pretty foids to want to fuck you

Mirin op but huge suifuel
 
@HarrierDuBois @Napoleon1800 her face is the biggest "it" factor for me ngl. like a very very pretty face. she is easily one of the prettiest girls ive seen.
yeah i think i would want an LTR with her if i were to be with her ngl
like you get what i mean right, she's that pretty gf mature type
If you like her that much then go for it, your friend will have to accept that she likes you and not him.
 
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yeah i think i would want an LTR with her if i were to be with her ngl
like you get what i mean right, she's that pretty gf mature type
mtn kinda fat but im losing it rn + 6'1"
Then go for it man, if she's stacy with good personality and you're just mtn, i don't think you'll have another option anyway, go for it now better than staying 2-3 years without a gf
 
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Then go for it man, if she's stacy with good personality and you're just mtn, i don't think you'll have another option anyway, go for it now better than staying 2-3 years without a gf
This is suifuel how does a htb or stacylite wanna fuck a mtn unless he is young and his height is halo or he fits certain niche ?
 
This is suifuel how does a htb or stacylite wanna fuck a mtn unless he is young and his height is halo or he fits certain niche ?
You said it his young and the stacylite is young

Foids tend to be less hypergamous before college and 20s, this guy won't have a chance with that stacy in another 5 years
 
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You said it his young and the stacylite is young

Foids tend to be less hypergamous before college and 20s, this guy won't have a chance with that stacy in another 5 years
But based on this logic then so if I've been mocked for my looks all the way from 12 to now (17) and have remained a lonely ince does it mean I'm giga subhuman? Or is it cuz I'm non-nt? (But I became non-nt due to being isolated and bullied cuz of my looks, i was nt before)
 
losing a guy you genuinely get along with well is a much bigger loss IMO

she probably is nothing special and like any other whore out there

id just ghost her and not reciprocate
 
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losing a guy you genuinely get along with well is a much bigger loss IMO

she probably is nothing special and like any other whore out there

id just ghost her and not reciprocate
hmmm thats true

i have a shit ton of friends but him and i have the same exact political opinion so thats something
 
But based on this logic then so if I've been mocked for my looks all the way from 12 to now (17) and have remained a lonely ince does it mean I'm giga subhuman? Or is it cuz I'm non-nt? (But I became non-nt due to being isolated and bullied cuz of my looks, i was nt before)
That analogy doesn't work with truecels/incels lmao

I mean look at all the average/normie guys with Stacy girlfriends, most of the time they where high school sweethearts or knew each other for more than 10 years

Incel will get nothing obviously even when young but the average joe can (if he's very lucky of course)
 
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That analogy doesn't work with truecels/incels lmao

I mean look at all the average/normie guys with Stacy girlfriends, most of the time they where high school sweethearts or knew each other for more than 10 years

Incel will get nothing obviously even when young but the average joe can (if he's very lucky of course)
Oh okay so yea I thought you meant this for everyone

Sub mtn it's over at all times, be it adolescence, be it adulthood
 
tell ur friend to make a move otherwise ur gonna dick that bitch down cuz she is after u lol

ur friend sounds like a cuck so he probably wont do nothing and give u the green light
 
ok im in a tough spot here. i have a genuinely very nice friend from my same class. we are very like-minded and have the same view on a lot of things.

there is this girl in my class who is from the same city as me. we only figured this out after some time.

this friend of mine likes her. he's been telling me about it since the first weeks of classes.
me and this girl have been talking a lot as we are from the same city and we found out me and the girl have a lot in common too (f1, humor, etc)

this girl has been blatantly flirting with me lately and its evident at this point that she likes me. whatever shitty joke i make she laughs and likes the messages in the group chat, etc. pretty obvious at this point.

how do i deal with this? do i tell the friend or do i not tell him or do i not talk with her more? what do i do
If you like the girl just date her, if you don’t like her just leave her alone. You can’t have first dips on a hoe you aren’t even talking to. Fuck is your friend gonna do JFL if he has known her 3 months and hasn’t made his intentions clear
 
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tell ur friend to make a move otherwise ur gonna dick that bitch down cuz she is after u lol

ur friend sounds like a cuck so he probably wont do nothing and give u the green light
he's a shy guy for sure

cuz after i found out we r from the same city, ive tried to set them up (before me and her started talking a lot) but he just gets scared and just goes away and says "not today tomorrow". he's high inhib about her i guess cuz he's not high inhib otherwise

also do u really think telling him is a good idea?
 
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Never cuck your friend.
He isn’t cucking him cause the guy never made a move and they aren’t dating. His friend is just having first dips but too pussy to do anything.
 
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he's a shy guy for sure

cuz after i found out we r from the same city, ive tried to set them up but he just gets scared and just goes away and says "not today tomorrow". he's high inhib about her i guess cuz he's not high inhib otherwise

also do u really think telling him is a good idea?
yeah I think so, he might feel like shit but it's better than him finding out you've been boning her behind his back which will make him assume other stuff.
 
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he's a shy guy for sure

cuz after i found out we r from the same city, ive tried to set them up (before me and her started talking a lot) but he just gets scared and just goes away and says "not today tomorrow". he's high inhib about her i guess cuz he's not high inhib otherwise

also do u really think telling him is a good idea?
Why are you setting him up with this girl when you like her yourself? Put yourself first
 
@HarrierDuBois @Napoleon1800 her face is the biggest "it" factor for me ngl. like a very very pretty face. she is easily one of the prettiest girls ive seen.
just fuck her lol, I'm sure your friend will understand :lul: :lul:
 
Why are you setting him up with this girl when you like her yourself? Put yourself first
no this was a while ago before i developed interest in her. i havent tried setting them up since me and her started talking really well
 
no this was a while ago before i developed interest in her. i havent tried setting them up since me and her started talking really well
Just date her and see where it goes
 
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rape the girl dump her body her the river then have sex with your bro
 
Considering you've known both for the same amount of time, I'd go for it if you genuinely like her and want a LTR.
 
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