Starting to think dating apps like Tinder are cope tbh

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I’m just gonna ramble here.
I dunno boyos, but tinder just seems harder then in real life like in clubs and bars or day game. Even with tinder experiments with Chad fishes they at times struggle. Then once you’ve matched many wont even write back. Then other only write back to flirt for fun or tease guys. Then if you get to a meet up they flake. Then other times they don’t flake but you wish they had because they’re photo frauding like a .me user.
Not to mention the absolutely abominable ratio of women to men on datings apps. Then you have the whole cringe process of actually having to text the foid.
In a club or bar at least you know where you stand. What they see is what they get. Your height, face from all angles, skin, physique is all on display, no need to fraud. And the hookup is usually that night, just hours after meeting.

I dunno boyos, I just don’t know
 
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I’m just gonna ramble here.
I dunno boyos, but tinder just seems harder then in real life like in clubs and bars or day game. Even with tinder experiments with Chad fishes they at times struggle. Then once you’ve matched many wont even write back. Then other only write back to flirt for fun or tease guys. Then if you get to a meet up they flake. Then other times they don’t flake but you wish they had because they’re photo frauding like a .me user.
Not to mention the absolutely abominable ratio of women to men on datings apps. Then you have the whole cringe process of actually having to text the foid.
In a club or bar at least you know where you stand. What they see is what they get. Your height, face from all angles, skin, physique is all on display, no need to fraud. And the hookup is usually that night, just hours after meeting.

I dunno boyos, I just don’t know
in the bar they are drunk, being drunk = lower standards
but also NT really matters when clubbing
 
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They are so you really think the average women uses tinder? No they don’t they all meet their boyfriends through Instagram Snapchat or parties
 
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Easier to be judgmental through a screen
I have more luck in social settings
Unless youre photogenic and white tinder is going to be a disaster for you
 
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It's all over and death is everywhere.
Cope till the end and become dust.
Coom until you're just a pile of bones with a rock on top of you.
 
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I’m just gonna ramble here.
I dunno boyos, but tinder just seems harder then in real life like in clubs and bars or day game. Even with tinder experiments with Chad fishes they at times struggle. Then once you’ve matched many wont even write back. Then other only write back to flirt for fun or tease guys. Then if you get to a meet up they flake. Then other times they don’t flake but you wish they had because they’re photo frauding like a .me user.
Not to mention the absolutely abominable ratio of women to men on datings apps. Then you have the whole cringe process of actually having to text the foid.
In a club or bar at least you know where you stand. What they see is what they get. Your height, face from all angles, skin, physique is all on display, no need to fraud. And the hookup is usually that night, just hours after meeting.

I dunno boyos, I just don’t know
Just do whatever works for you and stop thinking about it beyond that

tinder works for you? Great, use tinder
Clubs work for you? Great keep going there
 
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Im just gonna ramble here.
 
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but tinder just seems harder then in real life like in clubs and bars or day game.
I dunno boyos, I just don’t know
You ever chat up chicks so far irl? or not really? And you tried Tinders?
from a guy I know. Tinder seems most efficent, time wise. as in: time spend to get a date. But that dude is a very high tier normie for sure, maybe Chadlite actually. With friaded picks, he sure looked Chadlite.

That dude tracked time spend.
And it took him about 1hour and 15 minutes of time spend on Tinder App, to get 1 date setup. That is imo not bad. Probably the flake rate is high. But meeting women irl randomly also has a high flake rate. And to get a date IRL by spending 1:15 hour taking EVERYTHING INTO ACCOUNT, is not easy. Plus Tinder is hell of a lot more comfortablea nd less painfull, then chatting up randoms face to face..

IRL. thinking back in my PUA days. It took me about 10 women to chat up, to get a date. I must say, I was a normie tier looks. So not good looking at all.
To chat up 10 women. that took plenty hours, in total.
 
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The easiest way to succeed on Tinder is to run big dick game. All those women are looking for casual sex anyways so of course they’re gonna want a bigger dick. Most of those women are giga whores and if you run big dick game you’re sure to get a lot of matches. Like @Vvvvxxxx

A lot of the other girls on there are just there for instagram follows.
 
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Just do whatever works for you and stop thinking about it beyond that

tinder works for you? Great, use tinder
Clubs work for you? Great keep going there

greycel moment
 
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In a club or bar there's not 500+ guys begging for a crumb of pussy and there aren't 25 Chads at her disposal

so yes, dating apps are indeed not real life
 
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Yes dating apps are proof of how many men it’s over for @personalityinkwell @rightfulcel
 
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In a club or bar there's not 500+ guys begging for a crumb of pussy and there aren't 25 Chads at her disposal

so yes, dating apps are indeed not real life
she carries her phone with her, though. proably she glued to it.
tinder-is-the-night-vf.jpg
 
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I was on a tinder date with this chick last Wednesday & she showed me the other dudes she’s talking to. My “competition”

Biggest dopamine rush of my life. I face, body, aesthetics, money, status & probably personality mog every single one of those subhumans. Matter of fact the dopamine rush was so intense I didn’t even wanna fuk here anymore. Haven’t texted her since

Moral of the story: you are probably 10x better than everyone else she’s texting so lose the paranoia. Idk why in my head I always have the image that they are texting lachowski-tier guys
 
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The easiest way to succeed on Tinder is to run big dick game. All those women are looking for casual sex anyways so of course they’re gonna want a bigger dick. Most of those women are giga whores and if you run big dick game you’re sure to get a lot of matches. Like @Vvvvxxxx

A lot of the other girls on there are just there for instagram follows.
this.

6+/10 and big dick = SLAYER on tinder

heck, i wonder if 4-5/10 guys can run this
 
u guys are rtardsrrds
 

I was on a tinder date with this chick last Wednesday & she showed me the other dudes she’s talking to. My “competition”

Biggest dopamine rush of my life. I face, body, aesthetics, money, status & probably personality mog every single one of those subhumans. Matter of fact the dopamine rush was so intense I didn’t even wanna fuk here anymore. Haven’t texted her since

Moral of the story: you are probably 10x better than everyone else she’s texting so lose the paranoia. Idk why in my head I always have the image that they are texting lachowski-tier guys
whats ur psl
 
Tldr. But in my personal experience if youre not a literal model tinder Is shit.
 
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If you want to fuck then tinder is cope unless you're chad.
But if you're fine with just meeting women with no expectation then it's legit, although yes 80-90% of foids will have some excuse not to meet, real reason being she found chad and you're not him
 
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you just can't have any expectations using this apps, if you don't have expectations, it can be fun (if u are getting matches that is, if not, then it's only good for depressionmaxing)
 
I was on a tinder date with this chick last Wednesday & she showed me the other dudes she’s talking to. My “competition”

Biggest dopamine rush of my life. I face, body, aesthetics, money, status & probably personality mog every single one of those subhumans. Matter of fact the dopamine rush was so intense I didn’t even wanna fuk here anymore. Haven’t texted her since

Moral of the story: you are probably 10x better than everyone else she’s texting so lose the paranoia. Idk why in my head I always have the image that they are texting lachowski-tier guys

the average guy isn't your competition

chad is
 
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I was on a tinder date with this chick last Wednesday & she showed me the other dudes she’s talking to. My “competition”

Biggest dopamine rush of my life. I face, body, aesthetics, money, status & probably personality mog every single one of those subhumans. Matter of fact the dopamine rush was so intense I didn’t even wanna fuk here anymore. Haven’t texted her since

Moral of the story: you are probably 10x better than everyone else she’s texting so lose the paranoia. Idk why in my head I always have the image that they are texting lachowski-tier guys
JFL
My date also started showing her tinder at the end of our date.
I took it as a sign as I'm not good enough, but to be fair she just complained and swiped left on everyone
 
& lol @ every other guy on tinder posting a shirtless pic in half natty lighting with a pump & squeezing the shit out their biceps

You got outside & 90% of guys are scrawny or flabby n sick. Guys are more insecure than women in 2020
 
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You ever chat up chicks so far irl? or not really? And you tried Tinders?
from a guy I know. Tinder seems most efficent, time wise. as in: time spend to get a date. But that dude is a very high tier normie for sure, maybe Chadlite actually. With friaded picks, he sure looked Chadlite.

That dude tracked time spend.
And it took him about 1hour and 15 minutes of time spend on Tinder App, to get 1 date setup. That is imo not bad. Probably the flake rate is high. But meeting women irl randomly also has a high flake rate. And to get a date IRL by spending 1:15 hour taking EVERYTHING INTO ACCOUNT, is not easy. Plus Tinder is hell of a lot more comfortablea nd less painfull, then chatting up randoms face to face..

IRL. thinking back in my PUA days. It took me about 10 women to chat up, to get a date. I must say, I was a normie tier looks. So not good looking at all.
To chat up 10 women. that took plenty hours, in total.
found more pl8s more d8s @cocainecowboy
 
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aha use Wink and only look for 13 year olds
 
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Chadfish isnt a cope. Its an indicator of how well you can do irl. If you get flaked on and shit its fine but youll always do better irl than on tinder. A chad irl has less value than url bc you mog any close by competition into oblivion
 
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Tinder is cope if not chad
 
best way to meet people = still the old traditional way. Through parties or through other party.

The whole "cold approach" game that the fraud PUA swindlers use are overrated. People usually meet other people through shared interests groups or by friends'.

If your friend is also a fuck up, social awkward disease or straight up loser with low self esteem then boot out and get yourself new group of people who are better to hang out and meet women that way.
 
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Chadfish isnt a cope. Its an indicator of how well you can do irl. If you get flaked on and shit its fine but youll always do better irl than on tinder. A chad irl has less value than url bc you mog any close by competition into oblivion
Given youre 4 psl and not fat
 
online game is mostly waste of time in 2020 if she doesnt initate imho
 
Depends on your personal life. I study at a STEM uni, in a STEM oriented city. Competition in clubs/bars is ridiculous here with 2 to 3 men per woman at almost every club/bar/festival/party.

Advantage is that being NT matters less at clubs/bars/festivals than on online-dating, since you have alcohol to get you through and the setting helps with flirting with chicks.

Without online-dating i would still be a kissless virgin at 25yo. There's no opportunities in my daily life to meet women.
 
she carries her phone with her, though. proably she glued to it.
tinder-is-the-night-vf.jpg
Honestly this is bullshit

I know this forum likes to be all blackpilled and shit, and I respect your posts a lot generally

But girls aren't looking at their Tinder when there's hot or 'hot enough' guys at their disposal right fucking away in a club.
 
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Honestly this is bullshit

I know this forum likes to be all blackpilled and shit, and I respect your posts a lot generally

But girls aren't looking at their Tinder when there's hot or 'hot enough' guys at their disposal right fucking away in a club.
Could be true. I dunno. I haven't visited clubs since 10 years anymore. Since an LTR happened, and after that ended, I hated clubs to much to go there back again.
 
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Depends on your personal life. I study at a STEM uni, in a STEM oriented city. Competition in clubs/bars is ridiculous here with 2 to 3 men per woman at almost every club/bar/festival/party.

Advantage is that being NT matters less at clubs/bars/festivals than on online-dating, since you have alcohol to get you through and the setting helps with flirting with chicks.

Without online-dating i would still be a kissless virgin at 25yo. There's no opportunities in my daily life to meet women.
Me too. Tinder sucks but I’d be a Virgin without it
 
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Advantage of clubs is that it can lead to instant slays, going from not knowing eachother to kissing within a minute, to fucking within an hour. Also requires 0 NT, you can be a complete socially isolated aspie and still slay in clubs. Unlike tinder where you need to jestermax, chat her up on the date, have a plan, etc.

I've had 1 slay on a festival where our conversation didn't even go as far as introducing our names. She just said that she was horny, we started making out, I invited her over to my appartement. Other time I just went up to a girl and asked her to make out, then went in for the kiss. Again no idea what her name was or anything really. You don't need to be able to talk, music is so loud that talking is shit anyways.

But those situations are rare as I said: Most clubs/festivals have ridiculously bad female:male ratio's where I live, even worse than tinder. Often I would get bored at some party and start looking for a female to slay and would realize that there's 2 potentially fuckable chicks at a 50-person party. It's ridiculous
 
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I’m just gonna ramble here.
I dunno boyos, but tinder just seems harder then in real life like in clubs and bars or day game. Even with tinder experiments with Chad fishes they at times struggle. Then once you’ve matched many wont even write back. Then other only write back to flirt for fun or tease guys. Then if you get to a meet up they flake.
I dunno boyos, I just don’t know

When i did use tinder, the only message I would send was “what’s your sc?” or “Snapchat?”. That’s the best and only way to get on the same page and determine the foids fuckeligibility. I’d say 60-70% would respond and every response from my over 1000 matches was their sc handle. Although I got hundreds of snapchats I only hooked up with 10-15 tinder girls. Snapchat is where the game & angle frauding actually begins. It’s still a lot of effort and not really worth it, but it can be entertaining if you have nothing else to do.

The other dating apps aren’t worth it IMO. I had a friend that used hinge, and fucked higher quality girls but he was much more invested in the process and devoted a lot more time and effort.
 
I'm making a thread on this soon. Good to see someone else also prefers bars/clubs
 
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Tinder is easier than a club
 
every guy i see is subhuman irl

guys look even uglier IRL than tinder pics because you can see their frame and height in motion. And most guys are manlets/framecels
 
Girls use tinder for entertainment, getting Instagram and Snapchat followers, and the occasional hookup with someone way out of their league and I will never be convinced otherwise. Maybe the 80 20 thing isn’t true irl but it’s definitely true on tinder, if you don’t mog the girl by a significant status then you’re not gonna fuck her
 
Advantage of clubs is that it can lead to instant slays, going from not knowing eachother to kissing within a minute, to fucking within an hour. Also requires 0 NT, you can be a complete socially isolated aspie and still slay in clubs. Unlike tinder where you need to jestermax, chat her up on the date, have a plan, etc.

I've had 1 slay on a festival where our conversation didn't even go as far as introducing our names. She just said that she was horny, we started making out, I invited her over to my appartement. Other time I just went up to a girl and asked her to make out, then went in for the kiss. Again no idea what her name was or anything really. You don't need to be able to talk, music is so loud that talking is shit anyways.

But those situations are rare as I said: Most clubs/festivals have ridiculously bad female:male ratio's where I live, even worse than tinder. Often I would get bored at some party and start looking for a female to slay and would realize that there's 2 potentially fuckable chicks at a 50-person party. It's ridiculous
clubs require 0 NT? I though Tinder was better for aspies, but the disadvantage was that you need top tier looks on tinder.
 
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clubs require 0 NT? I though Tinder was better for aspies, but the disadvantage was that you need top tier looks on tinder.
Nah it requires 0 NT because everyone's drunk and the music is too loud to have conversations. Usually I went solo-clubbing because I am an aspie with no friends and it didn't matter tbh.

It's still very looks-based, but towards the end of a party when girls are most drunk, their standards tend to be lowered.
 
Nah it requires 0 NT because everyone's drunk and the music is too loud to have conversations. Usually I went solo-clubbing because I am an aspie with no friends and it didn't matter tbh.

It's still very looks-based, but towards the end of a party when girls are most drunk, their standards tend to be lowered.
does Tinder require NT if you have a big dick? From what I've seen big dick game on Tinder is straight to the point and requires no dates
 
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does Tinder require NT if you have a big dick? From what I've seen big dick game on Tinder is straight to the point and requires no dates
I found Tinder requires a lot of NT tbh. I have to jestermax for a couple of messages, then get her number, jestermax more, set-up a date for drinks in the city-centre, jestermax on the date, get her over to my appartement and then escalate.

The amount of frauding and jestering you have to do is exhausting.
 
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