Status from women eyes

[johnny4612]

A low-level basketball coach may not matter on a macro level, but in his small world, family, friends, and close social circle, he's someone. The same goes for work: a manager may seem irrelevant in the absolute sense, but for a secretary, he represents status.

"How much attention a woman gets for being seen with you."
My sister once told me that at the bank they let her go ahead just because she was "John wife." (John is a rich CEO). This is the "status" that truly matters to women, more than movie-like love or romantic stuff, which are garbage.

This is why I opened the discussion: understanding what a woman's desirable status is is complex.
Every woman lives in a different ecosystem, and to conquer it, you need to understand that world and position yourself at its peak.
But if you enter her world, you will always live with a feeling of dependence and dissatisfaction, even if she gives you everything: love, children, well-being.

The key, however, is to create your own world and let her in.
The highest status is definitely in the macrosphere, because once a woman truly enters your "macrosphere," she'll never go back to the "microsphere"

She'll love you for who you are, but also for "how much attention a woman gets from being seen with you".

So what are the highest statuses in the macrosphere?

 

[Bl0odKn1ght]

This is why i want to villagemax

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

A low-level basketball coach may not matter on a macro level, but in his small world, family, friends, and close social circle, he's someone. The same goes for work: a manager may seem irrelevant in the absolute sense, but for a secretary, he represents status.

Before social media this was true and the reason why many men got good huzz. Today, a basketball coach, local fireman, small scale entrepreneur or middle manager is just some guy who isn't a 6'4 millionaire 9/10 movie star. Good to settle for when you're 32 and post wall, but not enough for prime becky who gets 1.1k tinder likes in 3 days

 

[Restitutor Orbis]

Ah next one. This line in particular:

a manager may seem irrelevant in the absolute sense, but for a secretary, he represents status.

This is currently melting away because young women go to college more than young men and therefore often out-earn young men. So not even in the micro sphere do you often have men who seriously impress them. This is only really true for Gen Xers still, while Millenial and Gen Z women are all girlbossing in their jew daycare job as vice president of LGBTQ+ inclusion so they think an honest man who would be high status in a village setting, like some guy with a roofing business is below her because he's not as le educated and doesn't live in le big city. From my own experience the rural birth rate is only much better than the urban birth rate because women don't have as much income, education and leftist brain rot so that they actually go for the 5/10 football coach who works as a wood worker and built his own home, because in their eyes he has status. In the big city, only Gandy and Chico have status.

Great thread btw. What you describe is how my dad and also all the dads of all my IRL friends got their MTB wives. These Gen X and Boomer dads all work middle management or have their own electrician business, or manage a local bank, manage a department at some local factory, coach some sport etc.

 

[johnny4612]

Great thread btw. What you describe is how my dad and also all the dads of all my IRL friends got their MTB wives. These Gen X and Boomer dads all work middle management or have their own electrician business, or manage a local bank, manage a department at some local factory, coach some sport etc.

Thanks!
This is precisely why even family businesses maintain romantic relationships after children, after "sacrifices."
Simply, neither of them, or rather, more often than not, the wife, can't afford to separate and pay a mortgage and the inflated cost of living alone. So they'll say they made sacrifices for the relationship.

However, I believe the "Manager/Secretary" argument is still valid, as the older you get, so after 27/30.

Once you reach that age, every woman will seize the opportunity to be with the manager.

What do you think?

From my own experience the rural birth rate is only much better than the urban birth rate because women don't have as much income, education and leftist brain rot so that they actually go for the 5/10 football coach who works as a wood worker and built his own home, because in their eyes he has status. In the big city, only Gandy and Chico have status.

I'm not living in rural areas, but in a town with a population of 70,000, and this is the way of thinking.

Do you think it's fixed? I mean, do you think women who have this mindset can actually "grow up" and now have the same mindset as those "city girls"?

This happened with my sister. Now she despises all the boys from the village, even those who have a million, their own company, their own house.

While there are other women who appreciate them and still consider them status-conscious.

So, these girls, will they remain this way of thinking?
How do you find them?

And I've usually noticed, even with a partner, that these country girls are better for toxic relationships (i.e., they usually have trauma bonds) but that can just be aneddotical