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johnny4612
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Is it better to have an average guy's social media (1k followers, showing status, preselection, etc.) or to not have it at all?
Because people will search for you on social media and see you have a reliable status, but that kills their fantasies/mystery about you, doesn't it?
Just to cite an example, if a woman met an attractive guy who doesn't have social media, she would ask why, and have the mystery about it, and she will start to validate his "fantasies" by what she sees in real life, rather than what she sees in a virtual space. This can also make it more appealing for her to reach out to him, and anything that he will show about his life, like having a good social circle, pre-selection, hobbies, etc., will make him more of high value for her.
So, what do you think?
Is it better to show you have things and kill their fantasies/mystery (also you would attract the "status-digger" women), or to not show anything in the virtual space, but only in real life?
Because people will search for you on social media and see you have a reliable status, but that kills their fantasies/mystery about you, doesn't it?
Just to cite an example, if a woman met an attractive guy who doesn't have social media, she would ask why, and have the mystery about it, and she will start to validate his "fantasies" by what she sees in real life, rather than what she sees in a virtual space. This can also make it more appealing for her to reach out to him, and anything that he will show about his life, like having a good social circle, pre-selection, hobbies, etc., will make him more of high value for her.
So, what do you think?
Is it better to show you have things and kill their fantasies/mystery (also you would attract the "status-digger" women), or to not show anything in the virtual space, but only in real life?