whorehater
i don't really feel anything
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Before starting, I want to say that this guide won't work on every woman. Every one of them has a different personality.
Step I, the approaching
some of y'all might think that this is the hardest step, but it's actually not.
1. Do not be scared to approach her. If you manage to get one of her socials/do a little small talk you already have a 80% chance of slaying.
2. Do NOT be nervous and awkward. If you actually are nervous at least don't show it, she's gonna friendzone you.
3. Don't show your intentions from the start. Just say "you look cool and I wanna be your friend". Telling a woman you are romantically attracted to her without knowing her is a big turnoff.
4. Be chill, don't stutter, maintain a good posture and do your thing.
Step II, the texting
If you manage to get her socials, be sure to start texting her.
1. Don't be too obsessed. Text her once per 2-3 days and talk about the most random subjects.
2. Don't be too direct. You should seem chill and friendly, don't make flirty/dirty jokes.
3. If she is dry and doesn't show any interest stop texting her, you will just hurt yourself even more.
4. If she actually shows interest and texts first, don't be dry and start texting her daily
Step III, the first hangout
this is the hardest step, easy to get over tho
1. Don't be nervous. Greet her and talk freely.
2. Have a sense of humour. No matter how ugly you are if you are funny you instantly have a better chance of pulling.
3. Stay in a public space. Don't ask her to go in a private place/at your house, it might seem weird to her.
4. Always pay for her food. Even tho they seem like they don't appreciate it, they actually do.
Step I, the approaching
some of y'all might think that this is the hardest step, but it's actually not.
1. Do not be scared to approach her. If you manage to get one of her socials/do a little small talk you already have a 80% chance of slaying.
2. Do NOT be nervous and awkward. If you actually are nervous at least don't show it, she's gonna friendzone you.
3. Don't show your intentions from the start. Just say "you look cool and I wanna be your friend". Telling a woman you are romantically attracted to her without knowing her is a big turnoff.
4. Be chill, don't stutter, maintain a good posture and do your thing.
Step II, the texting
If you manage to get her socials, be sure to start texting her.
1. Don't be too obsessed. Text her once per 2-3 days and talk about the most random subjects.
2. Don't be too direct. You should seem chill and friendly, don't make flirty/dirty jokes.
3. If she is dry and doesn't show any interest stop texting her, you will just hurt yourself even more.
4. If she actually shows interest and texts first, don't be dry and start texting her daily
Step III, the first hangout
this is the hardest step, easy to get over tho
1. Don't be nervous. Greet her and talk freely.
2. Have a sense of humour. No matter how ugly you are if you are funny you instantly have a better chance of pulling.
3. Stay in a public space. Don't ask her to go in a private place/at your house, it might seem weird to her.
4. Always pay for her food. Even tho they seem like they don't appreciate it, they actually do.
just do your thing, talk to her just like you talked with her till now and always ask before doing anything (cuddling, kissing etc.)





