Stop reacting to reality and start shaping it (Depressioncels GTFIH)

[BlendedBlade]

Stop Reacting to Reality and Start Shaping It​

Most people are stuck in a cycle of reaction.
​

They see something they don’t like about themselves, about their life, about their circumstances—and they respond emotionally instead of doing something about it.

They waste energy complaining, coping, and drowning in self-pity. They overanalyze their flaws, make excuses, and distract themselves with temporary pleasures to numb the discomfort of their own inaction.

Meanwhile, the ones who actually get ahead? They don’t waste a second reacting to reality. They spend every ounce of their time and energy shaping it.




Because here’s the truth:

Every second spent reacting to reality is a second lost in shaping it.​

Time doesn’t stop when you sit there feeling sorry for yourself. The world keeps moving, and so do the people who are willing to take action. The more you waste time thinking about your problems, the less time you have to fix them.

And make no mistake—you are responsible for fixing them.

Nobody is coming to save you. Nobody will hand you the life you want. If you don’t take control, reality will shape you instead of the other way around.

And reality? It doesn’t care about your feelings.

I'll give you an example.

Who Survives?​

Let’s say you’re in a car crash. The vehicle flips, smoke starts filling the air, and you’re trapped inside. You immediately go into survival mode, looking for a way out, assessing the situation, controlling your breathing, thinking logically.

Meanwhile, your friend next to you is screaming about how unfair life is. How it wasn’t supposed to happen. How it’s someone else’s fault.

Who do you think is getting out of that car alive?

This is exactly how life works. When you waste time reacting to a problem instead of solving it, you’re just making your own situation worse.

Your Looks? Your Responsibility.​

Hate how you look?

Good.
That means you’re self-aware. That means you have a choice:

1. Fix it. work out, lose the weight, build muscle, improve your skin qualiy, upgrade your fashion, get better grooming, optimize your nutrition.
   
   There are more resources available today than ever before—if you’re not using them, you have no excuse.
2. Accept it. If something truly can’t be changed (and make sure that’s actually true), then you move on and focus on the things that can be improved.

What’s not an option?

• Complaining.
• Blaming your parents.
• Crying about your genetics.
• Making excuses.
• Expecting someone to feel sorry for you.
• The list goes on and on...

That doesn’t change ANYTHING.

Surgery​

A lot of people cope by saying, "I can’t change this" when in reality, they just don’t want to put in the effort or money to fix it.

We live in an era where almost any aesthetic flaw can be improved through surgery.

• Hate your nose? Rhinoplasty, fillers
• Weak jawline? Genio and mandibular implants.
• Cucked eye area? Fat grafting, botox, fillers, supra and infra implants, cantho, orbital decompression etc.
• Bad teeth? Braces, veneers, or dental implants.
• Receding hairline? RU58841, minoxidil, microneedling, fin/dut, hair transplant
• Bad skin? Laser treatments, microneedling, accutane, skincare, good diet
• Short? Leg lengthening
• Narrow frame? Clavicle lengthening

The list goes on.

If something seriously bothers you and you know you can’t accept it—save money and get it fixed.

There ARE some falios you just can't fix, you know what?

THIS IS HOW IT IS, LIVE WITH IT OR ROPE (don't rope please)

Is surgery expensive?

Yes. But so is wasting years of your life feeling insecure over something that could be corrected in a few hours.

You invest in your future self. Just like you wouldn’t settle for a garbage-tier job, you shouldn’t settle for a look that kills your confidence if there’s a way to improve it.

You Have One Life. Make It Count.​

You only get one shot at this life. One chance to become the best version of yourself.

One opportunity to experience everything you want before time runs out.

Why waste it reacting to things you don’t like when you could be changing them?

Happiness doesn’t come from sitting around hoping things will get better. It comes from taking control and making them better. And the best part?

The moment you stop reacting and start acting, everything changes.

So next time you catch yourself complaining, ask yourself this:

Am I reacting to reality, or am I shaping it?

Your answer will determine the kind of life you end up living.

 

[NorwoodAscender]

Have always thought this as well, good thread OP

 

[EliDKing]

Over for me!

 

[fluxx]

redpill thread but i think its good

 

[BlendedBlade]

redpill thread but i think its good

It’s better than making young guys depressed, a lot of issues with looks can be fixed/improved, unless you are subhuman

 

[fluxx]

It’s better than making young guys depressed, a lot of issues with looks can be fixed/improved, unless you are subhuman

i agree, most guys here can make it by just doing shit and not rotting here all day
blackpill is real, looks are the most important factor, but most people have potential

 

[TitusA]

Stop Reacting to Reality and Start Shaping It​

Most people are stuck in a cycle of reaction.
​

They see something they don’t like about themselves, about their life, about their circumstances—and they respond emotionally instead of doing something about it.

They waste energy complaining, coping, and drowning in self-pity. They overanalyze their flaws, make excuses, and distract themselves with temporary pleasures to numb the discomfort of their own inaction.

Meanwhile, the ones who actually get ahead? They don’t waste a second reacting to reality. They spend every ounce of their time and energy shaping it.




Because here’s the truth:


Time doesn’t stop when you sit there feeling sorry for yourself. The world keeps moving, and so do the people who are willing to take action. The more you waste time thinking about your problems, the less time you have to fix them.

And make no mistake—you are responsible for fixing them.

Nobody is coming to save you. Nobody will hand you the life you want. If you don’t take control, reality will shape you instead of the other way around.

And reality? It doesn’t care about your feelings.

I'll give you an example.

Who Survives?​

Let’s say you’re in a car crash. The vehicle flips, smoke starts filling the air, and you’re trapped inside. You immediately go into survival mode, looking for a way out, assessing the situation, controlling your breathing, thinking logically.

Meanwhile, your friend next to you is screaming about how unfair life is. How it wasn’t supposed to happen. How it’s someone else’s fault.

Who do you think is getting out of that car alive?

This is exactly how life works. When you waste time reacting to a problem instead of solving it, you’re just making your own situation worse.

Your Looks? Your Responsibility.​

Hate how you look?

Good.
That means you’re self-aware. That means you have a choice:

1. Fix it. work out, lose the weight, build muscle, improve your skin qualiy, upgrade your fashion, get better grooming, optimize your nutrition.
   
   There are more resources available today than ever before—if you’re not using them, you have no excuse.
2. Accept it. If something truly can’t be changed (and make sure that’s actually true), then you move on and focus on the things that can be improved.

What’s not an option?

• Complaining.
• Blaming your parents.
• Crying about your genetics.
• Making excuses.
• Expecting someone to feel sorry for you.
• The list goes on and on...

That doesn’t change ANYTHING.

Surgery​

A lot of people cope by saying, "I can’t change this" when in reality, they just don’t want to put in the effort or money to fix it.

We live in an era where almost any aesthetic flaw can be improved through surgery.

• Hate your nose? Rhinoplasty, fillers
• Weak jawline? Genio and mandibular implants.
• Cucked eye area? Fat grafting, botox, fillers, supra and infra implants, cantho, orbital decompression etc.
• Bad teeth? Braces, veneers, or dental implants.
• Receding hairline? RU58841, minoxidil, microneedling, fin/dut, hair transplant
• Bad skin? Laser treatments, microneedling, accutane, skincare, good diet
• Short? Leg lengthening
• Narrow frame? Clavicle lengthening

The list goes on.

If something seriously bothers you and you know you can’t accept it—save money and get it fixed.

There ARE some falios you just can't fix, you know what?

THIS IS HOW IT IS, LIVE WITH IT OR ROPE (don't rope please)

Is surgery expensive?

Yes. But so is wasting years of your life feeling insecure over something that could be corrected in a few hours.

You invest in your future self. Just like you wouldn’t settle for a garbage-tier job, you shouldn’t settle for a look that kills your confidence if there’s a way to improve it.

You Have One Life. Make It Count.​

You only get one shot at this life. One chance to become the best version of yourself.

One opportunity to experience everything you want before time runs out.

Why waste it reacting to things you don’t like when you could be changing them?

Happiness doesn’t come from sitting around hoping things will get better. It comes from taking control and making them better. And the best part?

The moment you stop reacting and start acting, everything changes.

So next time you catch yourself complaining, ask yourself this:



Your answer will determine the kind of life you end up living.

Ur wasting your breath most here just want to rot to eternity and complain. When you cope so hard you wont even exercise, or take looksmax drugs like steroids, get minimal procedures theirs no helping you.

Also allot of users here are weak minded and lack resilience because of shit lifestyle they live but still wont even inject a shot of test. They are clearly not desperate to change the situation they are in.

Best thing for half of these users here would be to throw them in the military so they got hit with a dose of reality and couldn't cope online all day with forums, porn and video games.

 

[BlendedBlade]

Ur wasting your breath most here just want to rot to eternity and complain. When you cope so hard you wont even exercise, or take looksmax drugs like steroids, get minimal procedures theirs no helping you.

Also allot of users here are weak minded and lack resilience because of shit lifestyle they live but still wont even inject a shot of test. They are clearly not desperate to change the situation they are in.

Best thing for half of these users here would be to throw them in the military so they got hit with a dose of reality and couldn't cope online all day with forums, porn and video games.

This.

If you don’t have the willpower to do softmaxxes you’re beyond saving (leanmaxxing literally is the best looksmax unless you’re boneless, + hair maxxing and skin maxxing ofc)

Muscle halo also plays a role esp if you’re tall and have wide frame

Just workout (roid), get huge and lean, do softmaxxes for face, dress well and you prob already will be respected and get some decent women if you’re mtn+

I’m not even talking about wageslaving to get surgery (which would improve a lot of guys dating lifes, ones who have major falios dragging them down)

 

[TitusA]

i agree, most guys here can make it by just doing shit and not rotting here all day
blackpill is real, looks are the most important factor, but most people have potential

This is true too I see people posting how bad their situation is and how they cant change. Lol everybody in this current gen is fucked up with social media. If you even work hard, have some social skills, some self belief and look good at all you can get ahead in no time.

 

[BlendedBlade]

This is true too I see people posting how bad their situation is and how they cant change. Lol everybody in this current gen is fucked up with social media. If you even work hard, have some social skills, some self belief and look good at all you can get ahead in no time.

It’s easier to just give up and say “it’s over for me” hoping for empathy

These guys deserve to lose, almost no one is born perfect, I just don’t get why wouldn’t you want to be the best version of yourself in terms of looks, status, intellect, body etc

I guess some people are just built weak and don’t want it bad enough, it doesn’t bother them that much