vision_n
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Black pillers view the world as one big competition.
It’s normal to feel like it’s a “mog or be mogged” world.
After all, the rewards of life (women, money, power) are asymmetrically distributed. When someone else wins, there’s a higher chance that you lose. For every top 10%, there’s a bottom 90%. If you try to bring everyone up to the top 10%, the goalposts would just shift. There will always be a hierarchy no matter how much people collectively improve.
However, with that being said, going about life with this “everyone is out to get me and it’s me vs the world” mindset is so bad for not only your mental health, but also the way you interact with other people and your ability to be charismatic and magnetic.
You go to a social event and you immediately scan the area feeling threatened by the “competition”. The insecurity grows even more. You’re always in this competitive frame which doesn’t allow for your magnetic personality and social skills to shine.
Being in a collaborative frame is absolutely crucial when you’re being social. You want to feel like everyone is your friend rather than your enemy. It’s a feeling you have to tap into.
A loving, giving state rather than a “what value can I extract from other people” state
dont retardmaxx, no one is perfect and has his own flaws.
do not let insecurity and jealosy get inside your cranium
It’s normal to feel like it’s a “mog or be mogged” world.
After all, the rewards of life (women, money, power) are asymmetrically distributed. When someone else wins, there’s a higher chance that you lose. For every top 10%, there’s a bottom 90%. If you try to bring everyone up to the top 10%, the goalposts would just shift. There will always be a hierarchy no matter how much people collectively improve.
However, with that being said, going about life with this “everyone is out to get me and it’s me vs the world” mindset is so bad for not only your mental health, but also the way you interact with other people and your ability to be charismatic and magnetic.
You go to a social event and you immediately scan the area feeling threatened by the “competition”. The insecurity grows even more. You’re always in this competitive frame which doesn’t allow for your magnetic personality and social skills to shine.
Being in a collaborative frame is absolutely crucial when you’re being social. You want to feel like everyone is your friend rather than your enemy. It’s a feeling you have to tap into.
A loving, giving state rather than a “what value can I extract from other people” state
dont retardmaxx, no one is perfect and has his own flaws.
do not let insecurity and jealosy get inside your cranium
