StraightHeadJames
Under 190 cm = Manlet
- Joined
- Sep 23, 2022
- Posts
- 8,627
- Reputation
- 20,226
Started using Lookism in 2016 in my teen years, now nearing the end of my 20s I have some things that I need whatever person or people who were like me 8 years ago to understand.
It's good to perpetually improve and evolve your style and looks, the old saying "use it or lose it" is very true, but don't let this idea of seeking perfection or "waiting until I am were I need to be" stop you from living your youth.
I was constantly trying to improve my hair, face, fashion, add muscle, grow taller, jawline, skincare etc. All of the things that you see on here that I knew almost a decade ago.
My Dad kept telling me to "enjoy your youth before it runs out" and shit like "go out and meet some girls mane, I would do anything to be your age again" but I honestly just thought he was being retarded and coping with being old, and it didn't click for me until now, my mom always insisted that studying and getting a very high GPA was the most important thing, I was quite well liked by girls in High School and College, but I always persisted that I wasn't where I needed to be and could be way better looking, turned down girls and dates because I needed to elevate my looks (wtf)
I wasted the prime of my life working towards some bullshit that I thought was important. All of my closest friends are now married or with kids, partied throughout the whole time I was in this grindset bullshit mindset.
Fucking live your life and take risks while you are young, as you age life becomes way more dull, love feels way less vivid. I really would trade the next 60 years of my life to go back and actually grasp the opportunities I had. I turned down so many girls and parties for nothing of value. This grindset study hard, keep improving bullshit mentality is just modern industrial Capitalism propaganda. Fucking go out, party and don't wait for a "perfect time" that will never come or you will regret it the rest of your life.
I have been on a few dates in the last month, some cool little interactions but I ended up thinking about my teen crush I used text when I was younger, I will never forget how vivid those feelings were, I used to talk to her most nights and she was dropping hints all the time to come and party with her, I was even messaging her on New Years day while I was fucking gyming at midnight for the "hustle", what the fuck was I thinking
Nothing compares to teen love
It's good to perpetually improve and evolve your style and looks, the old saying "use it or lose it" is very true, but don't let this idea of seeking perfection or "waiting until I am were I need to be" stop you from living your youth.
I was constantly trying to improve my hair, face, fashion, add muscle, grow taller, jawline, skincare etc. All of the things that you see on here that I knew almost a decade ago.
My Dad kept telling me to "enjoy your youth before it runs out" and shit like "go out and meet some girls mane, I would do anything to be your age again" but I honestly just thought he was being retarded and coping with being old, and it didn't click for me until now, my mom always insisted that studying and getting a very high GPA was the most important thing, I was quite well liked by girls in High School and College, but I always persisted that I wasn't where I needed to be and could be way better looking, turned down girls and dates because I needed to elevate my looks (wtf)
I wasted the prime of my life working towards some bullshit that I thought was important. All of my closest friends are now married or with kids, partied throughout the whole time I was in this grindset bullshit mindset.
Fucking live your life and take risks while you are young, as you age life becomes way more dull, love feels way less vivid. I really would trade the next 60 years of my life to go back and actually grasp the opportunities I had. I turned down so many girls and parties for nothing of value. This grindset study hard, keep improving bullshit mentality is just modern industrial Capitalism propaganda. Fucking go out, party and don't wait for a "perfect time" that will never come or you will regret it the rest of your life.
I have been on a few dates in the last month, some cool little interactions but I ended up thinking about my teen crush I used text when I was younger, I will never forget how vivid those feelings were, I used to talk to her most nights and she was dropping hints all the time to come and party with her, I was even messaging her on New Years day while I was fucking gyming at midnight for the "hustle", what the fuck was I thinking
Nothing compares to teen love
