Style, personality, confidence, and status are not cope

[ey88]

You guys who say this are brainwashed

Only a small amount of people here are actually ugly enough for these not to matter

 

[lifeless]

Only a small amount of people here are actually ugly enough for these not to matter

youd be surprised

 

[FIuffy]

They obviously matter but all of these things aren’t subjective. Every setting has requirements you either fit or not.
Personality is just being Nt and fitting the social requirements for things like taste in music