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How can every single one of us optimise our style in order to maximise our sex appeal to women?
This is my first post so have mercy on me
Introduction -
I am sick and tired of seeing these very good looking guys, especially on social media, continue to make the same mistakes when dressing themselves. It seems almost every time I see a "Looksmax influencer" on TikTok or Instagram they are wearing the most fuckass outfits they could put together, as if their mom still buys them their clothes or they never even considered the possibility of improving their appearance beyond their face. In 2025 there is almost no comprehensible reason as to why you can not be taking advantage of fashionmaxxing, and I am hopefully here to give you some tips on how you should find your style, big things to avoid, even smelling good. All of these things are non-negotiables and I will try to make this as easy to digest as possible without too much waffle.
Why is this even important in the first place? -
Yes, pretty much the most important single feature to make someone attractive is their face, I am in no way trying to argue that by fixing your sense of style will you ascend overnight to CL and start pulling women like no tomorrow. This will not happen. You just need to accept that women have always and will always want men who can dress well and can present themselves as well put together at a glance.
Every time you approach someone, walk past someone, or even see someone's photo, you see their whole body. Obvious right? So why are we not maximising the aesthetics of that body. Yes having a nice body in general will help you, but you are not sitting without a top on in school or out in public most of the time to show off your bidelt. This is why it is imperative to maxmise your style. The way you are dressed not only embodies who you are as a person, but also shows off your class, perhaps how much money you make, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY - DICTATES THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU ATTRACT.
How your style will dictate the women you attract -
Most people are aware of the concept of nichemaxxing, by connecting with girls who have similar interests as you, you can easily jumpstart relationship with them which will help you fuck. This is a very simple concept, you will more easily be able to connect to people if you are similar to them, however I do not see people using this advantage as much even at a less extreme extent.
THIS IS ESSENTIALLY NICHEMAXXING WITHOUT HAVING TO RELATE TO A GIRLS INTERESTS
WHAT DOES ANY OF THIS RAMBLING MEAN?
-If you dress like an incel freak, you will not attract any women, and if you do they will also be freaks
-If you dress in mostly sportswear you will attract girls who dress similarly and might be interested in sport
- If you wear TikTok "drip" you will attract the girl version of that
It does NOT matter if you like the style or not, always consider what the girls who also like that style are like.
Girls who wear baggy jeans and wear that streetwear shit are almost always pretentious.
Girls who wear leggings literally EVERYWHERE are almost always chavs (Britcels unite)
These are my observations in the UK, different cultures in different countries will dictate what kind of connotations of different styles are. This is not a one size fits all explanation, but I am trying to exemplify why you need to wisely choose the way you dress.
If you take away one thing from this post, it should be this. If you DO NOT care about the quality of girl you attract, then dress however the fuck you want. I will still go over style tips, and hopefully this should help you anyway, however if you DO then make sure you are considering how your choices will affect your options in women.
FINAL NOTE!
Sorry if you are still reading, this is the last thing I want to add. Whilst looking at the different styles I will suggest later I want you to try and imagine yourself wearing them, would they actually suit you, this is hard to explain but some characteristics on people make their style not as meaningful, for example imagine an emo with blonde hair blue eyes, they might be chad, but the contrast just would make it very unnatural.
Okay that's it.
FASHION TIPS FINALLY
What not to wear first.
If you actually wear this shit you must have a mental defect.
This TikTok drip shit actually pisses me off. Maybe this is cool in some corner of the earth but in most countries it is gay as fuck. Do not wear full tracksuits, as with everything I say there will be exceptions but not here, DO NOT WEAR FULL TRACKSUITS. You will look like a 14 year old who just had their birthday.
As I was saying earlier, this type of fashion will attract the worst women there is. Ghetto bitches, drug addicts, no girl who has had a decent upbringing would ever be seen with one of these guys. Central Cee on the left is the exception simply due to the magnitude of his status. (I might try cover this in a later post if this post goes well.)
Seriously though, do not wear overly skinny shit, especially trousers unless you are going for very specific styles. This style actually has no positives, it isn't cheap, looks shit, attracts shit.
WHAT THE FUCK.
Okay, luckily most people do not dress like this and thank god they don't or else I would not step foot outside for the foreseeable future.
Do not wear skinny jeans in most cases. Do not wear gay 'softcore' shit either, and do not wear clothing with logos littered across it, sometimes it looks good on specific pieces of clothing, however as you can see on our subject on the right a lot of times you will end up looking like a Romanian cigarette smuggler.
NOT AS BAD (APART FROM MIDDLE)
Okay, very left is not a bad style. HOWEVER. I have noticed this sort of thing only looks good in pictures, in real life this shit looks corny as hell. It is not necessarily a bad outfit, but it is way too striking and you will automatically be that one guy who tries too hard. I suspect in certain scenarios it would be okay i.e. a fashion event, but for everyday this is too much in my opinion. If you like this style and find that it suits you go for it.
The middle is the typical UK raver outfit, its not horrible, however it is still bad, mostly again because of the connotations of the sort of person who wears it.
And the right picture is also almost acceptable, it's okay but because of how popular that style got on social media it again is overplayed and people will think you are trying too hard and trying to copy styles off TikTok.
HOW YOU SHOULD DRESS (QUICK OVERVIEW)
Now since we went over how not to dress, and I could give 100 more examples it's time to move onto how we SHOULD dress.
In my eyes, your outfits should have these key components.
1. Simplicity
2. Appeal
3. Compliments you
4. Sprezzatura
These are easy concept to understand, simplicity means you should not overdress for the occasion. If you are going to school you are going to school, dress like it. If you are going to a party or the club, dress like it. Each occasion should have it's own outfits.
By appeal I mean that it should appeal to women, not to men, which is a common mistake I see being made. The soft pastel cottage gay core outfit I showed is an extremely exaggerated version of this and it is lacking Sprezzatura, which I will also cover.
When an outfit compliments you, it should fit your proportions, not be too striking, and also fit your colouring. (Like the blonde emo example I gave.)
LASTLY, and most importantly, the concept of Sprezzatura.
Sprezzatura means studied carelessness, or a sort of effortless grace. A lot of your style will be elevated once you stop obsessing so much. The same goes with your hairstyles and grooming. You want your style to look like it takes no effort, this obviously will work better for those who are more attractive, but everyone should strive for this. What I mean in specific is, your outfits should not be too perfectly put together or seem like you spent an hour picking out an outfit to impress people. You should look clean and appealing but no more. It is very obvious when you try too hard and women WILL notice. Some women may like this but most might see you as gay. Women like the thought of a man who can get out of bed, put on whatever clothes they see first in their wardrobe and step out while still looking good. If you obsess too much about your appearance, they WILL see you as gay and you will subconsciously be filtered out of their mind as a potential partner. WHY would a girl want a guy who spends just as much time as her getting ready to go out to a restaurant. You are their partner and not their girl friend.
NOW SOME IDEAS OF STYLES OR OUTFITS
This is my first post so have mercy on me
Introduction -
I am sick and tired of seeing these very good looking guys, especially on social media, continue to make the same mistakes when dressing themselves. It seems almost every time I see a "Looksmax influencer" on TikTok or Instagram they are wearing the most fuckass outfits they could put together, as if their mom still buys them their clothes or they never even considered the possibility of improving their appearance beyond their face. In 2025 there is almost no comprehensible reason as to why you can not be taking advantage of fashionmaxxing, and I am hopefully here to give you some tips on how you should find your style, big things to avoid, even smelling good. All of these things are non-negotiables and I will try to make this as easy to digest as possible without too much waffle.
Why is this even important in the first place? -
Yes, pretty much the most important single feature to make someone attractive is their face, I am in no way trying to argue that by fixing your sense of style will you ascend overnight to CL and start pulling women like no tomorrow. This will not happen. You just need to accept that women have always and will always want men who can dress well and can present themselves as well put together at a glance.
Every time you approach someone, walk past someone, or even see someone's photo, you see their whole body. Obvious right? So why are we not maximising the aesthetics of that body. Yes having a nice body in general will help you, but you are not sitting without a top on in school or out in public most of the time to show off your bidelt. This is why it is imperative to maxmise your style. The way you are dressed not only embodies who you are as a person, but also shows off your class, perhaps how much money you make, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY - DICTATES THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU ATTRACT.
How your style will dictate the women you attract -
Most people are aware of the concept of nichemaxxing, by connecting with girls who have similar interests as you, you can easily jumpstart relationship with them which will help you fuck. This is a very simple concept, you will more easily be able to connect to people if you are similar to them, however I do not see people using this advantage as much even at a less extreme extent.
THIS IS ESSENTIALLY NICHEMAXXING WITHOUT HAVING TO RELATE TO A GIRLS INTERESTS
WHAT DOES ANY OF THIS RAMBLING MEAN?
-If you dress like an incel freak, you will not attract any women, and if you do they will also be freaks
-If you dress in mostly sportswear you will attract girls who dress similarly and might be interested in sport
- If you wear TikTok "drip" you will attract the girl version of that
It does NOT matter if you like the style or not, always consider what the girls who also like that style are like.
Girls who wear baggy jeans and wear that streetwear shit are almost always pretentious.
Girls who wear leggings literally EVERYWHERE are almost always chavs (Britcels unite)
These are my observations in the UK, different cultures in different countries will dictate what kind of connotations of different styles are. This is not a one size fits all explanation, but I am trying to exemplify why you need to wisely choose the way you dress.
If you take away one thing from this post, it should be this. If you DO NOT care about the quality of girl you attract, then dress however the fuck you want. I will still go over style tips, and hopefully this should help you anyway, however if you DO then make sure you are considering how your choices will affect your options in women.
FINAL NOTE!
Sorry if you are still reading, this is the last thing I want to add. Whilst looking at the different styles I will suggest later I want you to try and imagine yourself wearing them, would they actually suit you, this is hard to explain but some characteristics on people make their style not as meaningful, for example imagine an emo with blonde hair blue eyes, they might be chad, but the contrast just would make it very unnatural.
Okay that's it.
FASHION TIPS FINALLY
What not to wear first.
If you actually wear this shit you must have a mental defect.
This TikTok drip shit actually pisses me off. Maybe this is cool in some corner of the earth but in most countries it is gay as fuck. Do not wear full tracksuits, as with everything I say there will be exceptions but not here, DO NOT WEAR FULL TRACKSUITS. You will look like a 14 year old who just had their birthday.
As I was saying earlier, this type of fashion will attract the worst women there is. Ghetto bitches, drug addicts, no girl who has had a decent upbringing would ever be seen with one of these guys. Central Cee on the left is the exception simply due to the magnitude of his status. (I might try cover this in a later post if this post goes well.)
Seriously though, do not wear overly skinny shit, especially trousers unless you are going for very specific styles. This style actually has no positives, it isn't cheap, looks shit, attracts shit.
WHAT THE FUCK.
Okay, luckily most people do not dress like this and thank god they don't or else I would not step foot outside for the foreseeable future.
Do not wear skinny jeans in most cases. Do not wear gay 'softcore' shit either, and do not wear clothing with logos littered across it, sometimes it looks good on specific pieces of clothing, however as you can see on our subject on the right a lot of times you will end up looking like a Romanian cigarette smuggler.
NOT AS BAD (APART FROM MIDDLE)
Okay, very left is not a bad style. HOWEVER. I have noticed this sort of thing only looks good in pictures, in real life this shit looks corny as hell. It is not necessarily a bad outfit, but it is way too striking and you will automatically be that one guy who tries too hard. I suspect in certain scenarios it would be okay i.e. a fashion event, but for everyday this is too much in my opinion. If you like this style and find that it suits you go for it.
The middle is the typical UK raver outfit, its not horrible, however it is still bad, mostly again because of the connotations of the sort of person who wears it.
And the right picture is also almost acceptable, it's okay but because of how popular that style got on social media it again is overplayed and people will think you are trying too hard and trying to copy styles off TikTok.
HOW YOU SHOULD DRESS (QUICK OVERVIEW)
Now since we went over how not to dress, and I could give 100 more examples it's time to move onto how we SHOULD dress.
In my eyes, your outfits should have these key components.
1. Simplicity
2. Appeal
3. Compliments you
4. Sprezzatura
These are easy concept to understand, simplicity means you should not overdress for the occasion. If you are going to school you are going to school, dress like it. If you are going to a party or the club, dress like it. Each occasion should have it's own outfits.
By appeal I mean that it should appeal to women, not to men, which is a common mistake I see being made. The soft pastel cottage gay core outfit I showed is an extremely exaggerated version of this and it is lacking Sprezzatura, which I will also cover.
When an outfit compliments you, it should fit your proportions, not be too striking, and also fit your colouring. (Like the blonde emo example I gave.)
LASTLY, and most importantly, the concept of Sprezzatura.
Sprezzatura means studied carelessness, or a sort of effortless grace. A lot of your style will be elevated once you stop obsessing so much. The same goes with your hairstyles and grooming. You want your style to look like it takes no effort, this obviously will work better for those who are more attractive, but everyone should strive for this. What I mean in specific is, your outfits should not be too perfectly put together or seem like you spent an hour picking out an outfit to impress people. You should look clean and appealing but no more. It is very obvious when you try too hard and women WILL notice. Some women may like this but most might see you as gay. Women like the thought of a man who can get out of bed, put on whatever clothes they see first in their wardrobe and step out while still looking good. If you obsess too much about your appearance, they WILL see you as gay and you will subconsciously be filtered out of their mind as a potential partner. WHY would a girl want a guy who spends just as much time as her getting ready to go out to a restaurant. You are their partner and not their girl friend.
NOW SOME IDEAS OF STYLES OR OUTFITS
NOTICE HOW THEY ALL HAVE THE 4 CHARACTERISTICS I IDENTIFIED.
These are simple outfits, I find that blue, grey, red, and white are the easiest colours to work with, especially on a budget. It allows you to make many different outfits with less pieces of clothing. All of these outfits fit the people well, the jumpers / hoodies / jackets are well fitting, they aren't too baggy or long, too skinny or too short. The jeans or trousers arent too baggy or skinny apart from maybe the right photo, but in no way does it ruin the style and obviously personal preference is allowed and encouraged. If everyone dressed the same that would be weird as hell and no-one would be unique. All of these outfits look clean and well put together without being too flashy, very natural looks and don't look like they require much effort to make look good.
One thing to take away from these outfits is that there is nothing particularly extraordinary about them, they look good just because they are clean and fit the people well. This should be your primary goal when buying clothes. Do they fit well.
DIFFERENT MORE RELAXED STYLES.
I can appreciate not everyone is going to wear jeans every day, in which case remember to always go baggier than skinnier, I find a taller shoe is better as well since otherwise the baggy jogger will cover too much of the shoe and you will look weird. Baggier jeans are also okay, as long as you find a hoodie, t-shirt, whatever to compliment the bagginess and even out the proportions. This will give you more of a "streetwear" look. But again, notice how the outfits have pretty obvious colour blocks which make them look clean.
Some notes on each type of clothing -
There are many different options for different styles, I will try to cover popular ones for common styles, but use your own discretion when trying to look for new clothes.
Shoes - Most of the time should be white or black, grey/silver, or blue. Straying outside of this is fine, but make sure that the outfit doesn't leave you looking like a clown, they should be clean looking as to not make too much of a statement, but again different styles can accommodate this.
-Air force 1's are kind of outdated so I would avoid these
-Some popular and clean shoes now are New balance, Asics, a lot of Nike models E.g TN, 95, 90. Adidas also have some popular shoes currently, think Samba or Spezial.
-More expensive options include Golden Goose, Onitsuka Tiger.
Bottoms - This includes jeans, joggers, shorts, or other styles of trousers. I would recommend for jeans sticking with different shades of blue, personally am not a fan of black or grey jeans, but some people make them work and thats fine.
- As previously stated baggy joggers are ideal, just make sure they're not too baggy and you have a hoodie or t-shirt or whatever to match it
- I like straight / relaxed fit jeans so I typically go for Nudie jeans, or some Levi's models.
- For baggier models I'd recommend sites like ASOS, or use second hand marketplaces like Vinted or Depop.
- I don't really wear other types of trouser, but these can also look very nice and clean on some outfits i.e. the guy with the red shoes and grey sweater I posted.
T-shirts - Most of your t-shirts should be white, mostly ones that are relaxed and clean. T-shirts with logos are fine as long as there isn't huge graphics all over or some cringe shit written on it. Other than white you should stick with simple colours, black, grey, blue, dark green, red.
- I actually prefer t-shirts with logos on them, since the rest of my outfit is usually quite simple and plain.
- Sometimes longer t-shirts are nice to have since they can stick out of your sweater as seen above.
- If you want plain t-shirts UNIQLO is good, zalando
- T-shirts with logos are better in my opinion and for this you can literally choose any brand you want, if the logo is small then any brand is usually fine, however you do not want a t-shirt with a fuckass huge adidas logo on the front and back, be smart, if you want to show off your t-shirt make sure it's a good brand.
Hoodies / sweaters - I like grey hoodies most, or blue. Again logos are fine here and same notes apply as above, no cringe writing or huge slazenger logos.
- Polo Ralph Lauren, Nike, Zara, ASOS, whatever the hell you want.
- More expensive options go for clean designer, again just be smart and don't try to flex too hard.
Jackets - Try to consider what kind of hoodies or jumpers you have when buying jackets, will you be able to wear them underneath the jacket if you need to. Shackets are kind of cool, windbreakers of varying types, nothing too crazy. Keep it simple and don't buy some Trapstar or some other bullshit brand and you'll be cool. If you are buying a designer jacket, then make sure you don't look like a wannabe gangster as shown in the first photos.
THIS WAS WAY TOO LONG AND I GOT BORED OF WRITING AT THE END SO IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS OR NEED SPECIFIC HELP LMK. THIS POST FEELS LIKE I JUST VOMITED EVERY RANDOM THOUGHT I HAD FOR TWO HOURS SO IF ITS SHIT TELL ME.
These are simple outfits, I find that blue, grey, red, and white are the easiest colours to work with, especially on a budget. It allows you to make many different outfits with less pieces of clothing. All of these outfits fit the people well, the jumpers / hoodies / jackets are well fitting, they aren't too baggy or long, too skinny or too short. The jeans or trousers arent too baggy or skinny apart from maybe the right photo, but in no way does it ruin the style and obviously personal preference is allowed and encouraged. If everyone dressed the same that would be weird as hell and no-one would be unique. All of these outfits look clean and well put together without being too flashy, very natural looks and don't look like they require much effort to make look good.
One thing to take away from these outfits is that there is nothing particularly extraordinary about them, they look good just because they are clean and fit the people well. This should be your primary goal when buying clothes. Do they fit well.
DIFFERENT MORE RELAXED STYLES.
I can appreciate not everyone is going to wear jeans every day, in which case remember to always go baggier than skinnier, I find a taller shoe is better as well since otherwise the baggy jogger will cover too much of the shoe and you will look weird. Baggier jeans are also okay, as long as you find a hoodie, t-shirt, whatever to compliment the bagginess and even out the proportions. This will give you more of a "streetwear" look. But again, notice how the outfits have pretty obvious colour blocks which make them look clean.
Some notes on each type of clothing -
There are many different options for different styles, I will try to cover popular ones for common styles, but use your own discretion when trying to look for new clothes.
Shoes - Most of the time should be white or black, grey/silver, or blue. Straying outside of this is fine, but make sure that the outfit doesn't leave you looking like a clown, they should be clean looking as to not make too much of a statement, but again different styles can accommodate this.
-Air force 1's are kind of outdated so I would avoid these
-Some popular and clean shoes now are New balance, Asics, a lot of Nike models E.g TN, 95, 90. Adidas also have some popular shoes currently, think Samba or Spezial.
-More expensive options include Golden Goose, Onitsuka Tiger.
Bottoms - This includes jeans, joggers, shorts, or other styles of trousers. I would recommend for jeans sticking with different shades of blue, personally am not a fan of black or grey jeans, but some people make them work and thats fine.
- As previously stated baggy joggers are ideal, just make sure they're not too baggy and you have a hoodie or t-shirt or whatever to match it
- I like straight / relaxed fit jeans so I typically go for Nudie jeans, or some Levi's models.
- For baggier models I'd recommend sites like ASOS, or use second hand marketplaces like Vinted or Depop.
- I don't really wear other types of trouser, but these can also look very nice and clean on some outfits i.e. the guy with the red shoes and grey sweater I posted.
T-shirts - Most of your t-shirts should be white, mostly ones that are relaxed and clean. T-shirts with logos are fine as long as there isn't huge graphics all over or some cringe shit written on it. Other than white you should stick with simple colours, black, grey, blue, dark green, red.
- I actually prefer t-shirts with logos on them, since the rest of my outfit is usually quite simple and plain.
- Sometimes longer t-shirts are nice to have since they can stick out of your sweater as seen above.
- If you want plain t-shirts UNIQLO is good, zalando
- T-shirts with logos are better in my opinion and for this you can literally choose any brand you want, if the logo is small then any brand is usually fine, however you do not want a t-shirt with a fuckass huge adidas logo on the front and back, be smart, if you want to show off your t-shirt make sure it's a good brand.
Hoodies / sweaters - I like grey hoodies most, or blue. Again logos are fine here and same notes apply as above, no cringe writing or huge slazenger logos.
- Polo Ralph Lauren, Nike, Zara, ASOS, whatever the hell you want.
- More expensive options go for clean designer, again just be smart and don't try to flex too hard.
Jackets - Try to consider what kind of hoodies or jumpers you have when buying jackets, will you be able to wear them underneath the jacket if you need to. Shackets are kind of cool, windbreakers of varying types, nothing too crazy. Keep it simple and don't buy some Trapstar or some other bullshit brand and you'll be cool. If you are buying a designer jacket, then make sure you don't look like a wannabe gangster as shown in the first photos.
THIS WAS WAY TOO LONG AND I GOT BORED OF WRITING AT THE END SO IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS OR NEED SPECIFIC HELP LMK. THIS POST FEELS LIKE I JUST VOMITED EVERY RANDOM THOUGHT I HAD FOR TWO HOURS SO IF ITS SHIT TELL ME.
