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So yeah there's this stereotype that Slav women like latin and med men.
Im Slav and in my experience the opposite is true.
Med females like Slavic men.
I have seen more Med/Latin females with Slavic men than the opposite. But this is in The Netherlands so I guess it's different than in Brittanistan. I legit heard Spanish/Turkish foids say they like Polish men. (Yeah this forum seems to think otherwise) Because they're so honest, stabile, reliable and don't bother other people.
My problem is:
Yes they're very agressive towards me. They take the initiative and really cross boundaries. They're basically picking me up.
The thing is, I feel smothered and overwhelmee by their avances. I feel the need to run away. It's hard for me to control this feeling. I've been suffering from it for a long time. It's always the same type. They always have a similar pheno.
Now I like their extroverted nature, but it's a bit too agressive. Instead of talking to me like a normal person, they pretty quickly go to sexual or affectionate topics.
How do I deal with this? I've really tried to maxx my NT and communicative abilities, and I've come real far from where I started, but I still struggle a lot from this specific thing:
They overpursue me and I feel smothered.
Advice is very much appreciated.
Im Slav and in my experience the opposite is true.
Med females like Slavic men.
I have seen more Med/Latin females with Slavic men than the opposite. But this is in The Netherlands so I guess it's different than in Brittanistan. I legit heard Spanish/Turkish foids say they like Polish men. (Yeah this forum seems to think otherwise) Because they're so honest, stabile, reliable and don't bother other people.
My problem is:
Yes they're very agressive towards me. They take the initiative and really cross boundaries. They're basically picking me up.
The thing is, I feel smothered and overwhelmee by their avances. I feel the need to run away. It's hard for me to control this feeling. I've been suffering from it for a long time. It's always the same type. They always have a similar pheno.
Now I like their extroverted nature, but it's a bit too agressive. Instead of talking to me like a normal person, they pretty quickly go to sexual or affectionate topics.
How do I deal with this? I've really tried to maxx my NT and communicative abilities, and I've come real far from where I started, but I still struggle a lot from this specific thing:
They overpursue me and I feel smothered.
Advice is very much appreciated.
