Taking initiative is the most important part of socialising tbh

[Deleted member 19442]

You can be a loser in school but it only takes a handful of friends to have an active social life. So it’s really about how proactive you are and whether you make plans with people and keep contact, otherwise you’ll just end up on your own for life. Getting girls and high status friends is another thing idk about tho

 

[Deleted member 62515]

You can be a loser in school but it only takes a handful of friends to have an active social life. So it’s really about how proactive you are and whether you make plans with people and keep contact, otherwise you’ll just end up on your own for life. Getting girls and high status friends is another thing idk about tho

hard when youre socially awkward and dont know how to carry a conversation

 

[Deleted member 42240]

Not worth it if you get mostly negative reinforcement for your social efforts

 

[Deleted member 19442]

hard when youre socially awkward and dont know how to carry a conversation

Same and I generally never try to socialise just rot all day. But what you’re supposed to do from my experience is gossip about other people and things you’ve seen in day to day life + any recent accomplishments you’ve made. You can also interject with inside jokes and insults if your friend is waffling bs again

Think about what NT users post here when talking about their daily life, making it funny by adding incel terminology and suffixes for no reason

 

[Bojack]

I used to be the jester always pushing myself to engage people. Now I don't do shut anymore. Life is a lot easier alone n shut.