Talking to girls on tinder is so exhausting

[DoctorLooksmax]

So after a couple of weeks of swiping I have 100 matches, I swipe left to all fatties and also swipe left to really hot girls 7+/10 since I know they won’t match me since I’m not a chad lol. So out of those 100 matches about 75 respond to my first message (I’m quite creative and try and say something about their profile or pics to stand out from the crowd). From those 75 I’ve gotten about 20 convos that went on for a decent number of time, 9 numbers/snapchats to char off tinder out of those 9 most have just randomly stopped talking to me at some point when I took too long to reply because I was busy for a few days or something. So I’m left with 4 girls I’m currently talking to and seem fairly keen on me all 4-5/10 looks. I’m working 60 hours this week so can’t go on any dates but will try and maintain all the convos for that time. I’ll then try and arrange dates with these 4 and I predict I will probably get one actual shag out of all 4 of them. You do start to wonder if it’s all worth t for the amount of time I spent talking to these girls to shag a 4/10 when I could have paid £100ish to shag a 7/10 prostitute, plus I will Pay for a couple of drinks on the date which will be like £6-7 and bare in mind the time I lost I could have been working earning more money that I spent on the date itself would be easily another £20, do the maths and the prossie begins to look economical .


But who are we kidding life is all about validation anyway

 

[New Poster]

all this to avoid approaching

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

all this to avoid approaching

Approaching is not NT. Not unless you’re approaching girls in clubs that’s alrite but I wouldn’t wanna be the guy doing that on a night out with my mates tbh when everyone else is just tryna have a laugh and I’m just a boring horny cunt

 

[New Poster]

Approaching is not NT. Not unless you’re approaching girls in clubs that’s alrite but I wouldn’t wanna be the guy doing that on a night out with my mates tbh when everyone else is just tryna have a laugh and I’m just a boring horny cunt

Yesh, wonder why you're incel

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Yesh, wonder why you're incel

I mean I wouldn’t class myself as an incel tbh. I’d say I’m a normie atleast in terms of sexual experience

 

[Lil_KINJA]

Paying drinks for girls who you then may or may not bang is still more alpha than hiring prostitutes, imo. At least you can hope for some validation and genuine mutual attraction.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Paying drinks for girls who you then may or may not bang is still more alpha than hiring prostitutes, imo. At least you can hope for some validation and genuine mutual attraction.

Yes that’s was exactly my point. Like if it’s genuinely was only about sex I would just pay for prossies and moneymax but obviously it goes a lot deeper than that which is why I’m willing to invest quite a significant amount of effort to bang a 5/10

 

[New Poster]

I mean I wouldn’t class myself as an incel tbh. I’d say I’m a normie atleast in terms of sexual experience

Keep swiping boyo

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Keep swiping boyo

I mean in the past 12 months ive slept with 3 diff young attractive white girls so I’d say I’m normie

 

[New Poster]

I mean in the past 12 months ive slept with 3 diff young attractive white girls so I’d say I’m normie

Keep swiping and maybe you'll make it!

 

[Deleted member 245]

Paying drinks for girls who you then may or may not bang is still more alpha than hiring prostitutes, imo. At least you can hope for some validation and genuine mutual attraction.

No its not jfl its stupid as fuck.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

No its not jfl its stupid as fuck.

Mate I’m not fussed about buying a couple of £3 glasses of wine. My last tinder date I went on the girl offered to go halves with me anyway but I insisted. Makes you look like a complete poorcel if you can’t spend 7 quid on a round of drinks

 

[Lil_KINJA]

No its not jfl its stupid as fuck.

JFL if you believe that a woman will go out with a subhuman because of a 2$ beer.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

JFL if you believe that a woman will go out with a subhuman because of a 2$ beer.

Good thing I’m not a subhuman

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

I'm right there with you OP. I'm much more interested in finding an actual woman to sleep with than some professional leg spreader.
Tinder all the way if that's your game.

"The chase" is supposed to be a rewarding experience in it's own right.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I'm right there with you OP. I'm much more interested in finding an actual woman to sleep with than some professional leg spreader.
Tinder all the way if that's your game.

"The chase" is supposed to be a rewarding experience in it's own right.

True, hopefully I’ll have sex with atleast one tinder sloot this summer

 

[rockndogs]

Talking to any girl in any situation in exhausting. They are shallow af

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Talking to any girl in any situation in exhausting. They are shallow af

LEts not act like we’re any better

 

[GhastlyGhoul]

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Talking to any girl in any situation in exhausting. They are shallow af

That's why you gotta get her to do the Helen Keller, make her speak with her hips!

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Approaching is not NT. Not unless you’re approaching girls in clubs that’s alrite but I wouldn’t wanna be the guy doing that on a night out with my mates tbh when everyone else is just tryna have a laugh and I’m just a boring horny cunt

Only high inhib pussies second guess doing something just because it doesn’t come across as NT just lol

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Only high inhib pussies second guess doing something just because it doesn’t come across as NT just lol

I am a high inhib Pussy when it comes to girls, most guys are. I’m working on it atleast

 

[rockndogs]

LEts not act like we’re any better

i am not jfl. My problem is starting to interact with people

 

[Vitruvian]

all this to avoid approaching

 

[DoctorPMA]

But who are we kidding life is all about validation anyway

 

[Deleted member 773]

Women got nothing to offer but their pussy. That’s a fact.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

100 matches.

Gtfo of this forum

 

[MrCucumber]

Read like the first sentence.

If this was legit, you would just go to a club or bar at night and slay.

 

[xit]

prostitutes dont count. sex is about validation

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Read like the first sentence.

If this was legit, you would just go to a club or bar at night and slay.

Mate 100 matches mostly 4-5/10 is nothing special. If you get no tinder matches you’re ugly sorry boyo. Also m tinder pics are angle and lighting frauded so I probs look half a point better there than irl but bitches all do the same so it doesn’t really matter

 

[MrCucumber]

Mate 100 matches mostly 4-5/10 is nothing special. If you get no tinder matches you’re ugly sorry boyo. Also m tinder pics are angle and lighting frauded so I probs look half a point better there than irl but bitches all do the same so it doesn’t really matter

What country?

Crisick gets loads of matches on tinder but IRL he fails cause he is catfishing using someone else's pics or looks like shit IRL or something.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

What country?

Crisick gets loads of matches on tinder but IRL he fails cause he is catfishing using someone else's pics or looks like shit IRL or something.

UK.

I also get laid irl with decent girls and have had an ltr with a cute slim white girl

 

[MrCucumber]

Oh UK and you are not slaying off tinder?

cage

UK is tinder heaven.

 

[Deleted member 470]

life is all about validation anyway

there's ur answer bro

 

[Cretinous]

fucking kids

if you just want to nut in a warm body, just go get a whore. Your brain does not know the difference contrary to what the bubble-boys on incel forums make believe, you feel just as good after fucking a whore as you do a "civilian".

leave the talking and rapport for bitches you actually want to date. I wouldn't date any girl who has tinder on her phone, are you kidding me? muh "its 2019! everyone uses tinder!" no they dont lmfao. If a girl is using tinder its because casual sex and a rolodex of sexual partners is a habitual part of her life. You lay in the bed you make, dont pretend you didn't have a choice.

 

[nobodyspecial369]

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sex is about validation

thats what i realized… its not even about the sex itself- its the validation i desire and am addicted to. i’ve been trying to separate my sense of self worth from sexual validation

hookups are a trap