
Orc
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I’m 31 year old 1,92 long and attractive Latino man with a steady finance manager job. However I’ve to confess the Dutch dating culture is horrible and nonexistent. All the dates I’ve had were with foreign women. Dutch women are mostly not interested in foreigners not all majority don’t even bother. If you approach them or seek any interest it’s no go. You might get polite answer like ok then ghost or fuck off. I’ve noticed feminine Dutch men have a great time or ice cold Dutch men who look like bums that have slept outdoors for years. The only way you end up in a relationshi is to go out clubbing and get drunk magically end up with random Dutch women. For those who don’t drink you are basically fucked. Dates or interest into Dutch women starts only at work, or via via friends circles they had since high school. It’s such a closed off cold society. Spontaneous dates? You can forget non-existent and on top of it all her friends need to validate you. Even those who speak Dutch that are originally from foreign countries but here for generations date foreigners. I Noticed many men are afraid to be called creeps in this country. There’s no culture of randomly getting to know a woman. You only speak to each other if you have something mutual or in same friends circle. The Netherlands is not great for social activity and dating. Cold, individualistic are to main key take away I’ve got. Anyone else seen same with Dutch women and dating scene?