rustcohle
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I deadass saw someone on the forum type this
it isnt the ingredient for social development you fucking retards
ITS THE SIGN OF SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Im ND as fuck and mildly on the spectrum, i literally have zero interpersonal relationships, never had friends that stayed, never had a friend group never knew what that was like in any meaningful capacity, and yet I've fucking pulled twice as an adult
How? By feigning neurotypicality as fucking hard as I could and being manipulative as shit, literally abandoning all morals and treating women as pussy instead of this abstract superior entity that judges every aspect of my inferior being, its much easier to reduce inhibition if you dont view girls as the supreme critic.
Importantly, it did NOT help me socially develop as an adult - what makes you think it would've helped if I had pulled at an earlier age? Do you think you just magically become neurotypical after nutting in a condom or kissing a girl? Did yall even give that a bit of thought? Do you think the kids at your highschool were socially underdeveloped before they pulled, and only became NT after slaying? REALLY ?
No it doesnt help at all, if anything getting a girl while being socially undeveloped and mildly autistic just makes you feel more alone, since you understand
all the mental effort you had to put yourself through when the task should've not been that hard (its literally hardwired in us to want to approach girls). Plus girls are way more likely to be NT and you get to see what thats like up close, its makes you feel insanely alone.
Its not fucking normal to be this high inhibition, and its not fucking curable by pulling your local MTB or even HTB (trust me I know, I literally was with a 5'3 blonde hair green eyes fat ass high htb-stacylite, good luck dealing with all the competition afterwords lol)
Point is, social development comes WAY earlier, way before you think of girls, it comes from when you are in pre-kindergarden to middleschool. Me personally the earliest I remember crying alone wondering why I couldnt connect with kids was at those ages.
The one benefit of teen love is it may make you feel less scared (or maybe even more scared) of girls, as well as reducing FOMO, but thats it.
But hey, the good news is if you missed out on teen love but are NT then its nowhere near over for you, it probably was circumstantial or you need to softmax (maybe hardmax).
If you are ND however, well theres a good chance we'll never find happiness, even if we do manage to find a girl
it isnt the ingredient for social development you fucking retards
ITS THE SIGN OF SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Im ND as fuck and mildly on the spectrum, i literally have zero interpersonal relationships, never had friends that stayed, never had a friend group never knew what that was like in any meaningful capacity, and yet I've fucking pulled twice as an adult
How? By feigning neurotypicality as fucking hard as I could and being manipulative as shit, literally abandoning all morals and treating women as pussy instead of this abstract superior entity that judges every aspect of my inferior being, its much easier to reduce inhibition if you dont view girls as the supreme critic.
Importantly, it did NOT help me socially develop as an adult - what makes you think it would've helped if I had pulled at an earlier age? Do you think you just magically become neurotypical after nutting in a condom or kissing a girl? Did yall even give that a bit of thought? Do you think the kids at your highschool were socially underdeveloped before they pulled, and only became NT after slaying? REALLY ?
No it doesnt help at all, if anything getting a girl while being socially undeveloped and mildly autistic just makes you feel more alone, since you understand
all the mental effort you had to put yourself through when the task should've not been that hard (its literally hardwired in us to want to approach girls). Plus girls are way more likely to be NT and you get to see what thats like up close, its makes you feel insanely alone.
Its not fucking normal to be this high inhibition, and its not fucking curable by pulling your local MTB or even HTB (trust me I know, I literally was with a 5'3 blonde hair green eyes fat ass high htb-stacylite, good luck dealing with all the competition afterwords lol)
Point is, social development comes WAY earlier, way before you think of girls, it comes from when you are in pre-kindergarden to middleschool. Me personally the earliest I remember crying alone wondering why I couldnt connect with kids was at those ages.
The one benefit of teen love is it may make you feel less scared (or maybe even more scared) of girls, as well as reducing FOMO, but thats it.
But hey, the good news is if you missed out on teen love but are NT then its nowhere near over for you, it probably was circumstantial or you need to softmax (maybe hardmax).
If you are ND however, well theres a good chance we'll never find happiness, even if we do manage to find a girl
which many NDs already are due to our axiomatic way of thinking, employing reason over emotion more than most etc etc. Channel both of those things into interaction with every female
