BigBallsLarry
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Teenage love is not all sushine and rainbows like you all niggas seem to think, id argue having a mature relationship is 10 times better.
Had plenty of experience with teenage love, main one was being in a 3 year relationship since 14 to 17, and lemme tell you, it was 80% miserable:
- Self-development gets completely put on hold and due to the illusion of "love forever" you're at risk of growing up being a people pleaser
- Constant worrying (also a breakup/heartbreak is guaranteed), having to text all the time when you dont even want to, forced to slow down or even abandon your favourite hobbies to make time for your girl, not to even mention hanging out with your niggas is now a once in 2 weeks experience.
- dating a mentally crazy girl is NOT fun
- You're MUCH less focues on education
- Having to adjust your life and personality so your girl is happy, becoming her bitch.
- If you're into anything time/money consuming like gym, dieting, instruments etc. The progress will become much slower.
Really, the upsides of feeling loved for your teenage years DO NOT outweight the downsides. Go grind, have a good diet and end with good education. Dont worry about this shit, its not worth it.
Had plenty of experience with teenage love, main one was being in a 3 year relationship since 14 to 17, and lemme tell you, it was 80% miserable:
- Self-development gets completely put on hold and due to the illusion of "love forever" you're at risk of growing up being a people pleaser
- Constant worrying (also a breakup/heartbreak is guaranteed), having to text all the time when you dont even want to, forced to slow down or even abandon your favourite hobbies to make time for your girl, not to even mention hanging out with your niggas is now a once in 2 weeks experience.
- dating a mentally crazy girl is NOT fun
- You're MUCH less focues on education
- Having to adjust your life and personality so your girl is happy, becoming her bitch.
- If you're into anything time/money consuming like gym, dieting, instruments etc. The progress will become much slower.
Really, the upsides of feeling loved for your teenage years DO NOT outweight the downsides. Go grind, have a good diet and end with good education. Dont worry about this shit, its not worth it.
