Tell me a biological reason why when I showed the most love and affection to her, she left me days after

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Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
 
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Women are super unconfident/shy, they can't even hold or talk about convos, they don't want to the take the "L" or be seen as the bad person
She probably didn't like you but didn't wanna hurt your feelings (well she did anyways) it is what it is
 
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Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
U were too nice. A bit cliché but true. No wants something everyone can have. You were too available, which gave her the idea that anyone can have you which turned her off. If not any of this, were u bad in bed
 
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Probably dried up her coochie acting like a hopeless romantic simp

Commenter above me is also spot on btw
 
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Probably dried up her coochie acting like a hopeless romantic simp

Commenter above me is also spot on btw
Maybe, on every date she told me how much she loves me how much she cares for me, she told me that her heart already chosen and she doesn’t see a future with any other guy, she planned our future and I thought she is absolutely crazy for me and nothing bad can happen, it seems it was all an act, I knew to not give in into these words but when I finally did, she turned around
 
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She wants you to chase after her <3
 
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She wants you to chase after her <3
Yeah I know but I don’t see it, cause it’s just feels like over, she doesn’t want to meet me again, she was cold through texts, complaining about me, saying it’s my fault, why would I chase her now if she already moved on I think
 
Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
when you gave her all that love, she probably dipped cause it was too much too fast. Humans brains chase dopamine, they get hyped from mystery, challenge, and not knowing if they fully got you yet.
When you’re acting like a simp, she kinda get tired of you and she loses that excitement.
Also, if she’s avoidant, deep emotions or closeness freak her out. So when you showed mad love, she felt trapped and ran.
 
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Yeah I know but I don’t see it, cause it’s just feels like over, she doesn’t want to meet me again, she was cold through texts, complaining about me, saying it’s my fault, why would I chase her now if she already moved on I think

Send her a video edit of pics of you two together with Nickelback's i love you song.
 
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when you gave her all that love, she probably dipped cause it was too much too fast. Humans brains chase dopamine, they get hyped from mystery, challenge, and not knowing if they fully got you yet.
When you’re acting like a simp, she kinda get tired of you and she loses that excitement.
Also, if she’s avoidant, deep emotions or closeness freak her out. So when you showed mad love, she felt trapped and ran.
I didn’t ever say I love her, I was always quite emotionless and observant, I was trying for us to have a good time together, doing cool dates, spending time with good people, seeing new places, I wanted it to be honest and adventurous, first time we met I had to ask her mother for a permission for us to just go to park where I first Time kissed her, it felt like she’s new to dating and still pure, maybe they aren’t ever pure
 
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I didn’t ever say I love her, I was always quite emotionless and observant, I was trying for us to have a good time together, doing cool dates, spending time with good people, seeing new places, I wanted it to be honest and adventurous, first time we met I had to ask her mother for a permission for us to just go to park where I first Time kissed her, it felt like she’s new to dating and still pure, maybe they aren’t ever pure
Foids these days are very unexpected .
 
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Foids these days are very unexpected .
Yeah she prob found another guy and moved on, maybe she already planned it, I gave her an excuse to leave, an excuse that is keeping her pure image and Madonna like persona, and she did, she don’t wanna be innocent pure girl anymore
 
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Was she a Stacy? No, move on, nigga
 
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Foids these days are very unexpected .
She will be a slut from now on, I can sense it, she will change completely and she will say it’s my fault who ever ask her for it, she found a victim in me, now she’s free to express her real nature around guys that will just dominate her, treat like a slut, ye she done
 
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She will be a slut from now on, I can sense it, she will change completely and she will say it’s my fault who ever ask her for it, she found a victim in me, now she’s free to express her real nature around guys that will just dominate her, treat like a slut, ye she done
A few months ago I kissed a girl in my grade in a party and I thought it was something real, I mean we talked a lot and stuff but then she said she’s not ready for a relationship, and it was like that for every other girls I had something with. Over for girls nowadays.
 
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Was she a Stacy? No, move on, nigga
You know in my eyes she was the most beautiful girl I’ve ever met, especiallywith those bright eyes and cute face she had that light and spark in her, that was just mesmerising and promising, I guess I took it from her and she is no longer pure and she doesn’t want to be pure, all girls are whores she needed that first ‘love’ experience and now it’s enough, she will just explore her sexuality and go into that dark route, she doesn’t want love
 
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I’m happy it happened it was a nice time between us shame it’s over, when I really thought we are meant for each other and that she is special and different that all the girls I’ve been with before, turns out they are all sluts and From the beggining to an end they shouldn’t be treated serious, they just looking for good genes, good sex, fun time, doesn’t matter she religious, with strict parents, nothing ever matters, they all whores
 
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Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
Chad trait: She received you sperm and has gone in search of betabux. It isn't your fault. Its an automatic process that gets triggered in foids.
 
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Chad trait: She received you sperm and has gone in search of betabux. It isn't your fault. Its an automatic process that gets triggered in foids.
What’s crazy is that the rubber actually broke and I half nutted in her without knowing, then I said okay you gotta take the pill cause rubber broke and she said no that’s not a problem, a child is not a problem, I want future with you, we can make it, I mean i half nutted because I pulled it out mid ejaculation but something still went inside, crazy to me that after even such thing she doesn’t care for me anymore, absolutely insane
 
What’s crazy is that the rubber actually broke and I half nutted in her without knowing, then I said okay you gotta take the pill cause rubber broke and she said no that’s not a problem, a child is not a problem, I want future with you, we can make it, I mean i half nutted because I pulled it out mid ejaculation but something still went inside, crazy to me that after even such thing she doesn’t care for me anymore, absolutely insane
sorry bro, this is what happens when you mess around with creatures that don't have free will
 
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Some guy made a good thread about this last week or so. One week she can be crying in your arms saying you are the one and she actually means it. But then one day she wakes up and it's over.

To women emotional intensity is less correlated with emotional permanency than with men.

When a man falls in love, the love for the girl slowly fades over time.
But women can be obssessed with a guy one day and forget him in the next day.
They think more in the present and care less about the past so it's easier for them to forget a guy.
 
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Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
either you are not her type, found you boring, shes trying to reach out for better options, or you are just a blatant simp

i tell you man, i treated my last two (batshit trauma daddy issues crazy) exes like literal queens, they both left me after 2-3 months of being together, they dont give a fuck about me, not the slightest, however, a girl i made it out with almost three years ago (two at the moment) who i treated like utter shit (love bombing, ghosting her lots of times, etc…) still thinks we are gonna be a couple and marry and stuff like that, like i heard from one of my best friends (since this guys gf is friends with this girl) that she got her tarot cards read just to see if i will came back to her life and they told her yeah, like jfl, and she isnt even crazy, shes just a normal girl, just made her emotionally dependant even when i treated her super bad, most women dont give a fuck if you treat them right, its her usual business to be worshipped as goddesses regardless of their inner value, be different

treat them foids like shit pill is brutal
 
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conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us,
Because that is a fucking gay conversation to have.

Girls don’t to hear this lovey dovey bollocks. You seem like a pussy first off.

They don’t want something attainable, they like the chase. Even when she has you in a relationship she enjoys the excitement of feeling that she could lose you at any moment.
 
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Lol. Your oneitis left you it seems.
 
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Women are super unconfident/shy, they can't even hold or talk about convos, they don't want to the take the "L" or be seen as the bad person
She probably didn't like you but didn't wanna hurt your feelings (well she did anyways) it is what it is
Bro what? She didnt like him, but dated him, let him take her virginity, fucked with him bruh, a women would never date and sleep with anybody just to not hurt anyones feelings lol
 
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Maybe, on every date she told me how much she loves me how much she cares for me, she told me that her heart already chosen and she doesn’t see a future with any other guy, she planned our future and I thought she is absolutely crazy for me and nothing bad can happen, it seems it was all an act, I knew to not give in into these words but when I finally did, she turned around
Maybe it was an act, maybe it wasn't. How do I explain this... You were like a prize that she keeps chasing. She wanted you because she didn't have you fully to herself. The moment you gave urself into her is the moment she decided she didn't want you
 
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I’m happy it happened it was a nice time between us shame it’s over, when I really thought we are meant for each other and that she is special and different that all the girls I’ve been with before, turns out they are all sluts and From the beggining to an end they shouldn’t be treated serious, they just looking for good genes, good sex, fun time, doesn’t matter she religious, with strict parents, nothing ever matters, they all whores
And sleep with her mom and sent her the video
 
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Maybe it was an act, maybe it wasn't. How do I explain this... You were like a prize that she keeps chasing. She wanted you because she didn't have you fully to herself. The moment you gave urself into her is the moment she decided she didn't want you
Update is I’m supposed to meet with her tomorrow, unless she changes her mind, but this just might be last chapter to our story, I may be disrespected, heartbroken, humiliated by her tomorrow, but I still want to go and see for myself, who I was dealing with, who is she now, how will I manage the situation, what we gonna talk about, what’s really behind those eyes, I don’t know I’ll probably let it happen then let her go and respectfully leave it all in memories, I expect her to be so distand and cold towards me, just seeing if I’m weak, how much she hurted me, I expect she wants to see how much she broke me and that’s why she wants to meet
 
Being overly loving is boring and unsustainable thus she eventually feels empty towards you. Detach from her by talking to other women
 
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Being overly loving is boring and unsustainable thus she eventually feels empty towards you. Detach from her by talking to other women
I wasn’t overly loving, until that one aftercare sex conversation, then I opened up and we started talking in that upbeat love language of energy, to me it felt like it’s just getting started, but I was wrong, we laughed we kissed, we were fully in that zone, so what changed In her after idk
 
I wasn’t overly loving, until that one aftercare sex conversation, then I opened up and we started talking in that upbeat love language of energy, to me it felt like it’s just getting started, but I was wrong, we laughed we kissed, we were fully in that zone, so what changed In her after idk
Yeah It’s possible that after reaching that deep of an emotional and physical connection, it triggered something in her like fear of vulnerability, loss of freedom or just realized that the intensity wasn’t sustainable for her yet. sometimes people jst aren’t ready for the love they thought they wanted and instead of getting more into it they leave to protect themselves or avoid deeper emotional connection. Overall though the most successful relationships I know are built on what others would call "loverboy cuckoldry" its really not its just some people aren't ready for the real deal especially if shes young - just charge it to the game tho bro no point in even thinking about it because overall yall time went well before she left so you'll find someone else and most likely be fine
 
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Update is I’m supposed to meet with her tomorrow, unless she changes her mind, but this just might be last chapter to our story, I may be disrespected, heartbroken, humiliated by her tomorrow, but I still want to go and see for myself, who I was dealing with, who is she now, how will I manage the situation, what we gonna talk about, what’s really behind those eyes, I don’t know I’ll probably let it happen then let her go and respectfully leave it all in memories, I expect her to be so distand and cold towards me, just seeing if I’m weak, how much she hurted me, I expect she wants to see how much she broke me and that’s why she wants to meet
Keep us updated and don't be a simp
 
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Sexhaver problems dnr cuck
 
I wasn’t overly loving, until that one aftercare sex conversation, then I opened up and we started talking in that upbeat love language of energy, to me it felt like it’s just getting started, but I was wrong, we laughed we kissed, we were fully in that zone, so what changed In her after idk
What happened?
 
What happened?
Turned out it was my fault because I didn’t text her for 3 days after we had sex cause I wanted to traumatise her for having sex just like that, like a warning, look what can happen if you do have sex with random guy, she was looking sad and devastated at first but then we didn’t talk at first just were in silence, but then we lied on bed hugged each other tightly she said she loves me and I said I love her too, for first time, then for another 4 or 5 hours we were just talking laughing playing with each other, it felt like I’m treating her like a child provocating all the feelings in the book, one moment she was crying, one moment she was smiling and kissing me passionately, other moment she was mad, then absolutely in my arms, I played hot and cold with her, just treating her like such a cool being to be around, I told her the future is not as important as this moment we share now, and we were just so happy and in love with each other, absolutely dreamful experience, the feelings we’ve had to each other, beautiful
 
Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
DNR all but women like to cuck and humiliate ”good men” to feel like they are special and quirky. She want to feel like she is little evil so she can fantasize about her being mental ill and that she only goes for bad guys. She does that to spice up her life. She is rn prob searching for some bad boy cock sadly. Take care brotha.
 
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DNR all but women like to cuck and humiliate ”good men” to feel like they are special and quirky. She want to feel like she is little evil so she can fantasize about her being mental ill and that she only goes for bad guys. She does that to spice up her life. She is rn prob searching for some bad boy cock sadly. Take care brotha.
Cuck mentality
 
Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
you were boring and predictable, imagine the relationship as a car, to keep her in that car that car going you need fuel, the fuel you need to keep a girl is emotion, girls get bored in relationships way faster than men, we think logically they think emotionally if theyre not “feeling it” they’re gone, if we’re not “feeling it” we think about the time invested in the relationship, the memories and stories we shared, and ways to move forward and mend it, but the moment she’s bored she’s gonna think less of you, that’s just how it is, my main girl doesn’t even know what i do for a living, she doesn’t know where i am most of the day, she has no clue of my routine, i usually go out with her on a whim, or see her in short notice, she loves me but the moment she knew what i did everyday, what time i finished working, what time i went to the gym, when i was going to see her, she’d get bored, you still have to have the looks, but long term even looks can’t meet the need of a woman’s emotions.
 
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Tell me why after having sex with a girl and having conversations about love and being meant for each other and how it’s like a fate between us, how after that she left me, lost her interest and withdrawed, as if nothing ever happened between us, we had many beautiful cute dates and a story between us that most wouldn’t even believe, I met her parents, grandparents, I was on different parties with her, I also took her virginity before, so what the fuck is going on, why she moved on as if nothing really mattered, I don’t know man, it’s crazy
she was never urs bro it was ur turn
 

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