How to instagrammaxx/how to act NT to get girls
Ill make this guide so that if you don't want to read you can just see the title of each step and put it into practice.
Step 1: Private your account, and have a good pfp that mogs
Privating your account makes it so that girls are intrigued especially after seeing your pfp. Think of your pfp as the hook to an essay in school or the hook to an instagram reel. The most important part is getting their attention they see hundreds of profiles a day make yours stand out. If you have a good front profile maybe a selfie showing your white teeth will work or if you have abs a gym mirror pic could work too. Make your name simple and as close as you can to your real name in real life dont do anything corny like “notjoe_smith” or “joes_world”. Abuse your strengths in the pfp.
Step 2: mass follow then unfollow people 150~ every day
Go to the people who follow you, go to their followers and follow ONLY girls why the fuck would you follow men. Do 50-75 in the morning and 50-75 at night. Instagram is very picky about bots and will shadowban you if you follow too many people too quick. Dont have your following be higher than 1000 and try to keep them 1:1 until you are at 1000 followers
What to do if shadowbanned from mass following?
Stop following people for a few days and check your following count, if it goes up after you refresh it you have to wait more once it stops going up that means that instagram is finally caught up to all the follow requests that you have sent and you can continue slowly for the next day or two then back to business as usual
Step 3: Get more than 1000 followers and make a provocative post
Since these followers arent botted and are people who you kind of know since they are basically friend of a friend they will likely engage with your posts. This is how your posts should be made
Post every 1-2 weeks
Pic #1 shirtless picture of your mogging. Again like step 1 the first interaction is the most important make it count
Pic #2-5 social proof, you with friends walking, watching sunset, in jacuzzi, playing billiards, playing board games, at a picnic etc..if you have girls that are mtb or above perfect have 1-3 posts with them.
Pic #6-9 scenic photos, food pictures, silly photos of you laughing, pictures of cool cars, pictures of cool motorcycles, pictures of you playing guitar, campfire etc..
Why like this?
Think about instagram like a funnel, make the neck of the funnel as big as you can and make the friction of the funnel as little as you can. The neck being the first photo of a carousel and your pfp. The friction being social proof having more than 1000 followers pictures with other good looking girls BUT make sure it doesnt look like they are your girlfriend. And finally the last few pictures show your personality so girls dont think that you are a bot
Step 4: posting performative stories
A couple times a week not everyday post something interesting and relevant to you. You saw a cool sunset post it, you got a nice coffee post it, your at dinner with a girl post the food with her hands in the picture to get social proof (girls fucking love this i have had multiple times where whole friend groups want me its a competition thing against each other) if you go skating post it, if you have abs and go to the gym consistently post a shirtless pic maybe once a week dont make it seem like you are trying too hard though that is an immediate turn off for most woman see more in step 6
Step 5: liking stories and initiating interactions with girls
Unless you are subhuman girls should be liking your stories, if they do this is her telling you to shoot your shot. Unless she is your friend and already has a boyfriend dont like her stories this is cuck behavior just shoot your shot in the dms. Initiate by saying something flirty about the story she posted AFTER you confirm that she has some sort of attraction from her liking your story. For example if she posts herself in a museum or art gallery or historical site say something like “i bet you wouldnt have gone if you couldnt take pictures there” it shows that you dont give a fuck (REALLY IMPORTANT) but that you are still interested in her
Step 6: NOT GIVING A FUCK
You should have an abundance mindset. Unless she has given you what you want being a relationship or sex don't have any emotional tie to her at all. if she stops responding you stop responding, if she gives low effort you give low effort, if she stops liking your posts you stop liking her posts. Why the fuck is this so hard to understand NT boys care too much about one specific girl when there are millions out there.
Step 7: calls, facetime.
From this point you can kind of pick and choose your method but i suggest moving from
Messaging on instagram -> messaging on imessage -> calling or facetime -> setting up a date
On the call talk about brain dead shit most of these girls are really low IQ just ask her normal questions but spice them up for example
What was the best part of your day/week?
What really pissed you off today? (good one that makes them ramble)
___ reminded me of you today (she likes when men think about her when she isnt around)
Your objective is to make them ramble and you keep pushing them to ramble by saying shit that they want to hear to make them feel better. Slowly transition to more taboo themes like drinking and drugs, partying, sex etc.. if you dont hit these taboo topics she will think of you as a friend
Step 8: seeing her in person
Set up a low effort date that she could leave easily from if things went wrong, not because you suck but because it makes it easier for her to say yes. Good dates have 3 parts, like getting coffee, grabbing a sandwich, and going for a walk. Very low effort but lots of time to bond and tease. Make her feel comfortable and wait for her to start physical touch like holding hands
At this point you basically have it in the bag but alter your actions based on the outcome that you want. If you want a ltr give her flowers, bake cookies and give them to her and her parents ,strong handshake when you meet her dad, open doors before her, pump her gas, pay for the food etc.. if you just want sex you probably wouldn't take the long route and just ask her to come to your place.
General notes
If you guys are exchanging instagrams dont follow her first give her your instagram. Showing signs of chasing her have to be very carefully thought out and deliberate because if done wrong it essentially kills all desire for her. In gta5 if the first day you played some hackers just dropped you millions of dollars and you bought all the cars and bikes in the game you wouldnt want to play the game anymore. Same with cookie clicker when we used to hack it and get trillions of cookies it completely removed any desire
Always let her chase you not the other way round, keep her thinking is he being sarcastic or does he like me, why is he saying he doesnt like my outfit but says he loves my hair shit like that. Never let her predict your next move. Any pictures that you post with other men you have to be by far the best looking guy in the picture
Create tension. Have moment of silence where you just look her in the eyes. Like poker you dont want the opponent to know your hand dont show how you feel about her. Say playful teases see next paragraph. If she says something that could be interpreted as sexual point it out in a funny way this moves the needle a lot. Think about what friends would do and do the opposite. Pull her chair so she falls at a restaurant. Point out the things that arent being talked about in a playful manner, say to the waiter “yeah she only uses me for my money but its ok because she is really fucking beutiful so ill take it”
Good lines to use. “How about we talk about the elephant in the room” (makes her curious about what your about to say use sparingly) “theres no way you came out the house like that” (makes her seek validation) “damn i didnt know you sucked at this” (only use this line during something that she isnt proud of doing like if she dances 5 times per week dont say she sucks at dancing in that scenario its more high risk decent reward) “your about to say sum bullshit arent you” “woah take me out to dinner first” (if she says something that taken out of context is sexual)
Be nice to waiters, open doors for her, carry her stuff, give sparing compliments about things that she put effort in, make it a habit to talk to other strangers men woman old young etc.. it will make you a lot more social and seem more confident and therefor attractive. Say wild shit somtimes out of pocket stuff.
make her admit she likes you this is a fucking bombshell ive used this one very few times becuase it is high risk insanely ridiculously high reward. say shit like “admit i have your dream body” “say im not your exact type” “you problably want me to fuck you dont you” “you problably think about my dick dont you” make assumptions about her they love that
if you are looking for a ltr have the ability to switch between deep meaningful conversations and silly joking conversations the rollercoaster creates a lot of depth that girls who are worth dating love.
everything is fake it till you make it. fake the confidence. fake the abundance. fake it. create an avatar of her perfect man and do what he would do. dont do pussy shit and do anything that makes you a fuckin baller
This was meant to be just a instagram guide but it bled out a little bit into how to have game in dates i hope yall found this useful.
last thing. BE THAT MUDAFUCKIN GUY
Ill make this guide so that if you don't want to read you can just see the title of each step and put it into practice.
Step 1: Private your account, and have a good pfp that mogs
Privating your account makes it so that girls are intrigued especially after seeing your pfp. Think of your pfp as the hook to an essay in school or the hook to an instagram reel. The most important part is getting their attention they see hundreds of profiles a day make yours stand out. If you have a good front profile maybe a selfie showing your white teeth will work or if you have abs a gym mirror pic could work too. Make your name simple and as close as you can to your real name in real life dont do anything corny like “notjoe_smith” or “joes_world”. Abuse your strengths in the pfp.
Step 2: mass follow then unfollow people 150~ every day
Go to the people who follow you, go to their followers and follow ONLY girls why the fuck would you follow men. Do 50-75 in the morning and 50-75 at night. Instagram is very picky about bots and will shadowban you if you follow too many people too quick. Dont have your following be higher than 1000 and try to keep them 1:1 until you are at 1000 followers
What to do if shadowbanned from mass following?
Stop following people for a few days and check your following count, if it goes up after you refresh it you have to wait more once it stops going up that means that instagram is finally caught up to all the follow requests that you have sent and you can continue slowly for the next day or two then back to business as usual
Step 3: Get more than 1000 followers and make a provocative post
Since these followers arent botted and are people who you kind of know since they are basically friend of a friend they will likely engage with your posts. This is how your posts should be made
Post every 1-2 weeks
Pic #1 shirtless picture of your mogging. Again like step 1 the first interaction is the most important make it count
Pic #2-5 social proof, you with friends walking, watching sunset, in jacuzzi, playing billiards, playing board games, at a picnic etc..if you have girls that are mtb or above perfect have 1-3 posts with them.
Pic #6-9 scenic photos, food pictures, silly photos of you laughing, pictures of cool cars, pictures of cool motorcycles, pictures of you playing guitar, campfire etc..
Why like this?
Think about instagram like a funnel, make the neck of the funnel as big as you can and make the friction of the funnel as little as you can. The neck being the first photo of a carousel and your pfp. The friction being social proof having more than 1000 followers pictures with other good looking girls BUT make sure it doesnt look like they are your girlfriend. And finally the last few pictures show your personality so girls dont think that you are a bot
Step 4: posting performative stories
A couple times a week not everyday post something interesting and relevant to you. You saw a cool sunset post it, you got a nice coffee post it, your at dinner with a girl post the food with her hands in the picture to get social proof (girls fucking love this i have had multiple times where whole friend groups want me its a competition thing against each other) if you go skating post it, if you have abs and go to the gym consistently post a shirtless pic maybe once a week dont make it seem like you are trying too hard though that is an immediate turn off for most woman see more in step 6
Step 5: liking stories and initiating interactions with girls
Unless you are subhuman girls should be liking your stories, if they do this is her telling you to shoot your shot. Unless she is your friend and already has a boyfriend dont like her stories this is cuck behavior just shoot your shot in the dms. Initiate by saying something flirty about the story she posted AFTER you confirm that she has some sort of attraction from her liking your story. For example if she posts herself in a museum or art gallery or historical site say something like “i bet you wouldnt have gone if you couldnt take pictures there” it shows that you dont give a fuck (REALLY IMPORTANT) but that you are still interested in her
Step 6: NOT GIVING A FUCK
You should have an abundance mindset. Unless she has given you what you want being a relationship or sex don't have any emotional tie to her at all. if she stops responding you stop responding, if she gives low effort you give low effort, if she stops liking your posts you stop liking her posts. Why the fuck is this so hard to understand NT boys care too much about one specific girl when there are millions out there.
Step 7: calls, facetime.
From this point you can kind of pick and choose your method but i suggest moving from
Messaging on instagram -> messaging on imessage -> calling or facetime -> setting up a date
On the call talk about brain dead shit most of these girls are really low IQ just ask her normal questions but spice them up for example
What was the best part of your day/week?
What really pissed you off today? (good one that makes them ramble)
___ reminded me of you today (she likes when men think about her when she isnt around)
Your objective is to make them ramble and you keep pushing them to ramble by saying shit that they want to hear to make them feel better. Slowly transition to more taboo themes like drinking and drugs, partying, sex etc.. if you dont hit these taboo topics she will think of you as a friend
Step 8: seeing her in person
Set up a low effort date that she could leave easily from if things went wrong, not because you suck but because it makes it easier for her to say yes. Good dates have 3 parts, like getting coffee, grabbing a sandwich, and going for a walk. Very low effort but lots of time to bond and tease. Make her feel comfortable and wait for her to start physical touch like holding hands
At this point you basically have it in the bag but alter your actions based on the outcome that you want. If you want a ltr give her flowers, bake cookies and give them to her and her parents ,strong handshake when you meet her dad, open doors before her, pump her gas, pay for the food etc.. if you just want sex you probably wouldn't take the long route and just ask her to come to your place.
General notes
If you guys are exchanging instagrams dont follow her first give her your instagram. Showing signs of chasing her have to be very carefully thought out and deliberate because if done wrong it essentially kills all desire for her. In gta5 if the first day you played some hackers just dropped you millions of dollars and you bought all the cars and bikes in the game you wouldnt want to play the game anymore. Same with cookie clicker when we used to hack it and get trillions of cookies it completely removed any desire
Always let her chase you not the other way round, keep her thinking is he being sarcastic or does he like me, why is he saying he doesnt like my outfit but says he loves my hair shit like that. Never let her predict your next move. Any pictures that you post with other men you have to be by far the best looking guy in the picture
Create tension. Have moment of silence where you just look her in the eyes. Like poker you dont want the opponent to know your hand dont show how you feel about her. Say playful teases see next paragraph. If she says something that could be interpreted as sexual point it out in a funny way this moves the needle a lot. Think about what friends would do and do the opposite. Pull her chair so she falls at a restaurant. Point out the things that arent being talked about in a playful manner, say to the waiter “yeah she only uses me for my money but its ok because she is really fucking beutiful so ill take it”
Good lines to use. “How about we talk about the elephant in the room” (makes her curious about what your about to say use sparingly) “theres no way you came out the house like that” (makes her seek validation) “damn i didnt know you sucked at this” (only use this line during something that she isnt proud of doing like if she dances 5 times per week dont say she sucks at dancing in that scenario its more high risk decent reward) “your about to say sum bullshit arent you” “woah take me out to dinner first” (if she says something that taken out of context is sexual)
Be nice to waiters, open doors for her, carry her stuff, give sparing compliments about things that she put effort in, make it a habit to talk to other strangers men woman old young etc.. it will make you a lot more social and seem more confident and therefor attractive. Say wild shit somtimes out of pocket stuff.
make her admit she likes you this is a fucking bombshell ive used this one very few times becuase it is high risk insanely ridiculously high reward. say shit like “admit i have your dream body” “say im not your exact type” “you problably want me to fuck you dont you” “you problably think about my dick dont you” make assumptions about her they love that
if you are looking for a ltr have the ability to switch between deep meaningful conversations and silly joking conversations the rollercoaster creates a lot of depth that girls who are worth dating love.
everything is fake it till you make it. fake the confidence. fake the abundance. fake it. create an avatar of her perfect man and do what he would do. dont do pussy shit and do anything that makes you a fuckin baller
This was meant to be just a instagram guide but it bled out a little bit into how to have game in dates i hope yall found this useful.
last thing. BE THAT MUDAFUCKIN GUY
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