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Alright, so first of all, this is going to be a long thread because it’s a pretty large topic to cover. I’ll try my best to explain everything, though.
What does this mean?
This means that softmaxing and NT-maxxing (like being confident) can work, but ironically, you just have to know how. For example, the hotter you are, the more you can get away with. Like I said, the blackpill is pretty much 99% accurate for the top and bottom 0.1%. However, it’s less true for the mid-range, so all these "soft skills" and improvements do make a huge difference.
Believe it or not, I’ve seen this with my own eyes, and I’ve seen a lot. Everything but looks can boost your attractiveness by about 20–70%, depending on how attractive you are to start with.
Yes, some of those people were tall, but there truly is a match for almost everyone. I’ll get more in-depth on this later, but I can’t stress enough:
THESE THINGS MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
I’ll also provide advice on every aspect of how to improve your life.
Once again, I’ve seen it enough times to know:
The only reason hypergamy exists is because it’s human nature to choose the best option for your offspring. It’s no different than men being horny—yet not raping every attractive girl they see. It’s just nature.
BTW AL COPING CRYING INCELLS READ THE WHOLE POST BEFORE U SPEAK
First of All
The blackpill is 99% true when it comes to the top and bottom 0.1% of people—so, sub-5s and Chads (PSL 7.5+, etc.).What does this mean?
This means that softmaxing and NT-maxxing (like being confident) can work, but ironically, you just have to know how. For example, the hotter you are, the more you can get away with. Like I said, the blackpill is pretty much 99% accurate for the top and bottom 0.1%. However, it’s less true for the mid-range, so all these "soft skills" and improvements do make a huge difference.
Believe it or not, I’ve seen this with my own eyes, and I’ve seen a lot. Everything but looks can boost your attractiveness by about 20–70%, depending on how attractive you are to start with.
- A sub-5 might only see a 20% improvement.
- But let’s say someone who’s high-tier normie (HTN) maxes everything—charisma, confidence, hairstyle, clothes (even frauding height), and whitening strips—the whole package. He WILL out-pull a Chadlite who doesn’t bother with these things.
Yes, some of those people were tall, but there truly is a match for almost everyone. I’ll get more in-depth on this later, but I can’t stress enough:
THESE THINGS MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
I’ll also provide advice on every aspect of how to improve your life.
Second: Hypergamy Doesn’t Work the Way People Think
While yes, there are women (and some areas where this is more common) who only want to date Chads, in most cases, a normal, high-quality woman—somewhat educated and not completely ran through—will date their looks match or one level above.Once again, I’ve seen it enough times to know:
- Good game and charisma can help you date someone more attractive than yourself.
- Cold approaches may not work as much, but if you find someone in your direct area (someone you already talk to or can easily approach), you can succeed without immediately showing your intentions.
The only reason hypergamy exists is because it’s human nature to choose the best option for your offspring. It’s no different than men being horny—yet not raping every attractive girl they see. It’s just nature.
Relationships (In-Depth Tutorial)
I’ll split this into three categories: low-tier, mid-tier, and high-tier relationships.1. Low Tier
This is the hardest category. Your best bet is learning manipulation. I’ve seen girls choose much uglier guys over better-looking ones because of this. Combine manipulation with other boosts, and you’ll improve your chances significantly.- Your best targets: broken or depressed girls who you can "fix."
- Stay away from promiscuous women (they’re more likely to backfire on you).
2. Mid Tier
If most girls see you as average, manipulation won’t always be necessary. However, improving your "stats" (e.g., appearance, social skills, etc.) can help you start cold-approaching at places like clubs, festivals, or parties.- Learn to read body language and signals to gauge whether someone is interested in you.
- Playing off rejected guys and making her laugh can sometimes work.
- Like with low tier, aim for broken girls because they’re easier to attract.
3. High Tier
Not much needs to be said here. While these improvements can still help, they’re not necessary. High-tier men will naturally have more success.How Can You Improve?
Here’s a list of things you can (and should) do:- Test Maxxing:
- Zinc, magnesium, vitamin D3, K2, calcium.
- Heavy lifting (3x/week), cardio (5x/week), sprinting (3x/week).
- Lean bulk for a year, then stay at 10–12% body fat.
- Appearance Maxxing:
- Use height boosters and whitening strips.
- Get a good hairstyle.
- Train masseters by eating tougher foods like meats.
- Fashion Maxxing:
- Develop a style that aligns with what you want to represent. Avoid extreme or "weird" looks.
- Social Skills:
- Talk to more people (both men and women).
- Learn social cues and how to connect with people (shared dislikes are an easy starting point).
- Work somewhere social to increase interactions.
- Learn Manipulation:
- This is underrated but can massively improve your life.
SMV (Sexual Market Value)
People often forget how SMV works and fail to fully understand it.
As I mentioned before, SMV mostly applies to the bottom and top 0.1%.
Girls Have Types
Even the most attractive man or woman might not be sexually appealing to everyone. People often underestimate how much individual preferences matter. The key is to play into the type of women you want to attract.
Examples by Niche:
- Easy, Non-Serious Girls
- Play into the "bad boy" archetype.
- Yes, it sounds cliché, but it works: Dark Triad traits, darker clothing, a slightly edgy or mysterious vibe, and even darkened hair/eyebrows.
- Emo Fetish
- Go for the "alt" aesthetic. This is arguably the best strategy for sub-5s and one of the easiest niches to game.
- Loving, Long-Term Wife Material
- Focus on being a good, stable, and respectable man.
- As I said earlier, a mid-tier normie (MTN) who is stable and reliable can beat a Chad in this category.
- Even if there’s a small chance she cheats, (1) you’ll still be her husband, and (2) this scenario is much rarer with high-quality, loyal women.
- Easy, Non-Serious Girls
Changing Your SMV
You can transform your SMV dramatically—it’s insane how much potential improvement is possible. You just need to research and understand how to optimize for your specific niche.
The Takeaway
If you’re out there complaining, stop. You’re wasting time. If you work on yourself and commit for a year—maybe even just half a year—you can completely change your situation.
This DOES work.
- This is underrated but can massively improve your life.
BTW AL COPING CRYING INCELLS READ THE WHOLE POST BEFORE U SPEAK