Manana
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I have been severly blackpilled for around 2 years, although I have accepted most of its concepts before that.
Overconsuming the blackpill is extremely harmfull for your life and dating chances long term. I will explain exactly why this is the case in this thread.
Also if you are young, I can't see a good reason for you to rot here. Get out asap.
Benefits
Awareness
You are less likely to get cucked because you understand foids' behaviour better. This can be used to avoid/get out of bad relationships. You are also less likely to expect unconditional love; a trap many fall into.
You are less likely to be too soft, naive in relationship with women. All of this should be inherently in you already, but since many men are hopeless romantics, a huge dose of awareness is often needed.
Looksmaxxing
Looksmaxxing is by far the best and most usefull part of the blackpill. Most high IQ move you can make is just take the usefull looksmaxxing info here and bail. This also takes us to why blackpill is harmfull.
Bad side of the blackpill
Taking looksmaxxing too far
Looksmaxxing is taken to the extremes here. Most hyperfocus on it, despite being already good looking enough. For example @Clavicular is a forum chad that bonesmashes and takes like 20 supplements
Huge problem here is that every dating shortcoming is contributed to looks (if/when I look better this won't happen). Completely disregarding the mental/social part of dating, or the unavoidable appearance of deviations and anomalies.
The bell curve of blackpill consumption
Like most things looksmaxxing, the whole blackpill viewpoint can be looked at as a giant bell curve.
Where optimal knowledge about is somewhere in the middle, and going far into it is almost guaranteed to lead you to autism valley.
Notice that I placed bluepill naivity and autism valley on the same distance from the median. This was intentional.
The true optimal blackpill knowledge (optimal for dating of course) still has some viewpoints.
Bluepill naivity
For example, bluepill is very usefull for taking rejection, which is almost guaranteed to happen to you.
When a bluepilled man gets rejected he takes it with little personal offence. We know this is all cope but it works 10× better than what bp man will experience.
When a blackpilled man gets rejected he takes it extremely personally. It is indeed personal when you look at it as foids disliking your genetic material (notice how much emotional weight that sentance has).
Basically dissing you and your entire bloodline (brutal).
I completely understand why very few here approach, but dissimissing this as a big collective issue is complete ignorance.
Bluepilled men will also approach/put themselves in uncomfortable social situations way more, mostly because they are more confident. Bluepilled men are confident by default, while blackpilled men need to have a strong genetic base to be confident, which is obviosly unachievable for most.
More bluepill societal advatages include; more likely to successfully socialize, more likely to be accepted and liked, less likely to be looked at as an outsider and much more.
Some bluepilled personal advatanges: being more confident, feeling happier, less overthinking, less likely to atribute your problems to your shortcomings, more likely to find a decent cope for your shortcomings, etc.
The worst part is how hard (borderline impossible) it is so go back to the bluepilled mindset, even slightly.
Autism valley
I called it autism valley even though I dislike the term autism and how easily it is thrown around here.
Any niche interest taken to the extremes will be looked at as autism by normies. So taking the blackpill/lookism to the extremes will always make you come across as weird.
More importantly, overconsuming the blackpill will change your whole viewpoint on the world in a very negative way.
You will constantly analyze, zone out and in the end overly judge people on their looks; ultimately making you less likely to socialize as required and to be happy overall. Most of you can remember the pre-blackpill socializing, and how it was probably more effortless.
Ask yourself, did you really need to know all of this?
Overconsuming the blackpill will almost always make you autistic to some extent. Anyone with 10k+ posts is probably too far gone. I don't know whether they would be autistic anyway (brain chemistry is very subjective and volatile).
I don't dislike most of these users, they are usually very informative and/or pleasant to talk to. However, I am convinced almost all would live happier lives if they never got blackpilled, and the happiest if they never took it to those extremes and could stay in that optimal range. I know some individuals are more likely to take interest to the extremes, so it is not entirely their fault.
Notice how miserable most users with high post count here are. Even chads like @Amnesia and @orb are extremely pessimistic.
It's because the blackpill generalization of the whole world is quite sad.
There is no room for love; the only feeling that makes life worth living in my opinion.
How can there be room for love (for sub chads) when everything is determined by genetics, even how loved and accepted you are?
Losing touch with spirituality
With how the blackpill is all about the physical and is a very deterministic viewpoint, this also often makes you lose touch with spirituality; a crucially important aspect of life in my opinion.
Not everyone needs to be spiritual, but having some sort of spiritual depth can be quite liberating and comforting; and is also a deep desire of most people.
Blackpill is(n't) liberating
This is such a bs myth it's insane. If anything, being bluepilled is liberating, being that ignorant is honestly peak existence. I know most are here because they are either too intelligent, too aware, think too much or are just too unattractive.
I envy people who don't think much. They are usually extremely low inhib and live life in another gear, they experience so much more.
Let's compare an average blackpiller to that.
Rots all day, looks at other people's lives and judges/makes jokes, looksmaxxes in hope of looking like a chad in 2040 and doesn't socialize until then. His highlight of the month is a pointless forum feud Quite sad, if you can look introspectively, I think you can agree.
Blackpill is liberating if you need a good reason to give up.
I know sub5s have it extremely hard, so for them it is liberating to know it's really not about anything they did wrong. But for normies, blackpill is giga cope.
I know because I have done this too. I have used looksmaxxing as a cope (when I acheive a certain level of looks, I will try). Basically delaying my life.
Non blackpilled normies life mog us
Normies (I am a blackpilled normied btw) life mog us to death because they are closer to the middle of the bell curve than an average forum user. They have a far more favourable mindset for dating and life, because they don't have the weight of the knowledge about dating and foids that we do.
The ideal
The ideal blackpill consuption is being aware of it but not making it a huge interest of yours or god forbid, a part of your personality.
I know lookism is fascinating but beware. Ideally you would take the looksmaxxing info and bail. Once you are here too long you can go back. It's an addiction.
You maybe think it's an addiction to the truth (and there is some truth in that) but it's actually an addiction to being miserable, feeling self-pity and giving up.
You can still escape
I see kids aged 15 asking me to rate them, it honestly saddens me. I'm happy to give out looksmaxxing advice (and good on you for doimg it so early) but this mindset will consume you in the long run.
It's success rate in making people miserable is extremely high.
For lurkers, don't make an account. You risk too much.
Blackpill is just the best generalization
In the end it is just that. It's not the whole truth. It's never black and white. There is always room for exceptions. Don't give up on yourself, and don't overconsume the blackpill.
Conclusion
In conclusion, overconsuming the blackpill ideology can severely harm your life and dating prospects in the long term.
While it offers some benefits, such as increased awareness of certain social dynamics and useful looksmaxxing advice, the negatives far outweigh these advantages.
Embracing the blackpill excessively can lead to a detrimental mindset, characterized by increased pessimism, social isolation, and an unhealthy focus on superficial attributes.
This viewpoint can make rejection feel deeply personal, hinder social interactions, and ultimately lead to a less fulfilling and more miserable life.
It's crucial to strike a balance: take the useful information, but avoid getting consumed by it. For younger individuals especially, it's best to distance yourself from this mindset to ensure a healthier and happier future.
GPT wrote the conclusion
Overconsuming the blackpill is extremely harmfull for your life and dating chances long term. I will explain exactly why this is the case in this thread.
Also if you are young, I can't see a good reason for you to rot here. Get out asap.
Benefits
Awareness
You are less likely to get cucked because you understand foids' behaviour better. This can be used to avoid/get out of bad relationships. You are also less likely to expect unconditional love; a trap many fall into.
You are less likely to be too soft, naive in relationship with women. All of this should be inherently in you already, but since many men are hopeless romantics, a huge dose of awareness is often needed.
Looksmaxxing
Looksmaxxing is by far the best and most usefull part of the blackpill. Most high IQ move you can make is just take the usefull looksmaxxing info here and bail. This also takes us to why blackpill is harmfull.
Bad side of the blackpill
Taking looksmaxxing too far
Looksmaxxing is taken to the extremes here. Most hyperfocus on it, despite being already good looking enough. For example @Clavicular is a forum chad that bonesmashes and takes like 20 supplements
Huge problem here is that every dating shortcoming is contributed to looks (if/when I look better this won't happen). Completely disregarding the mental/social part of dating, or the unavoidable appearance of deviations and anomalies.
The bell curve of blackpill consumption
Like most things looksmaxxing, the whole blackpill viewpoint can be looked at as a giant bell curve.
Where optimal knowledge about is somewhere in the middle, and going far into it is almost guaranteed to lead you to autism valley.
Notice that I placed bluepill naivity and autism valley on the same distance from the median. This was intentional.
The true optimal blackpill knowledge (optimal for dating of course) still has some
viewpoints.Bluepill naivity
For example, bluepill is very usefull for taking rejection, which is almost guaranteed to happen to you.
When a bluepilled man gets rejected he takes it with little personal offence. We know this is all cope but it works 10× better than what bp man will experience.
When a blackpilled man gets rejected he takes it extremely personally. It is indeed personal when you look at it as foids disliking your genetic material (notice how much emotional weight that sentance has).
Basically dissing you and your entire bloodline (brutal).
I completely understand why very few here approach, but dissimissing this as a big collective issue is complete ignorance.
Bluepilled men will also approach/put themselves in uncomfortable social situations way more, mostly because they are more confident. Bluepilled men are confident by default, while blackpilled men need to have a strong genetic base to be confident, which is obviosly unachievable for most.
More bluepill societal advatages include; more likely to successfully socialize, more likely to be accepted and liked, less likely to be looked at as an outsider and much more.
Some bluepilled personal advatanges: being more confident, feeling happier, less overthinking, less likely to atribute your problems to your shortcomings, more likely to find a decent cope for your shortcomings, etc.
The worst part is how hard (borderline impossible) it is so go back to the bluepilled mindset, even slightly.
Autism valley
I called it autism valley even though I dislike the term autism and how easily it is thrown around here.
Any niche interest taken to the extremes will be looked at as autism by normies. So taking the blackpill/lookism to the extremes will always make you come across as weird.
More importantly, overconsuming the blackpill will change your whole viewpoint on the world in a very negative way.
You will constantly analyze, zone out and in the end overly judge people on their looks; ultimately making you less likely to socialize as required and to be happy overall. Most of you can remember the pre-blackpill socializing, and how it was probably more effortless.
Ask yourself, did you really need to know all of this?
Overconsuming the blackpill will almost always make you autistic to some extent. Anyone with 10k+ posts is probably too far gone. I don't know whether they would be autistic anyway (brain chemistry is very subjective and volatile).
I don't dislike most of these users, they are usually very informative and/or pleasant to talk to. However, I am convinced almost all would live happier lives if they never got blackpilled, and the happiest if they never took it to those extremes and could stay in that optimal range. I know some individuals are more likely to take interest to the extremes, so it is not entirely their fault.
Notice how miserable most users with high post count here are. Even chads like @Amnesia and @orb are extremely pessimistic.
It's because the blackpill generalization of the whole world is quite sad.
There is no room for love; the only feeling that makes life worth living in my opinion.
How can there be room for love (for sub chads) when everything is determined by genetics, even how loved and accepted you are?
Losing touch with spirituality
With how the blackpill is all about the physical and is a very deterministic viewpoint, this also often makes you lose touch with spirituality; a crucially important aspect of life in my opinion.
Not everyone needs to be spiritual, but having some sort of spiritual depth can be quite liberating and comforting; and is also a deep desire of most people.
Blackpill is(n't) liberating
This is such a bs myth it's insane. If anything, being bluepilled is liberating, being that ignorant is honestly peak existence. I know most are here because they are either too intelligent, too aware, think too much or are just too unattractive.
I envy people who don't think much. They are usually extremely low inhib and live life in another gear, they experience so much more.
Let's compare an average blackpiller to that.
Rots all day, looks at other people's lives and judges/makes jokes, looksmaxxes in hope of looking like a chad in 2040 and doesn't socialize until then. His highlight of the month is a pointless forum feud
Quite sad, if you can look introspectively, I think you can agree.Blackpill is liberating if you need a good reason to give up.
I know sub5s have it extremely hard, so for them it is liberating to know it's really not about anything they did wrong. But for normies, blackpill is giga cope.
I know because I have done this too. I have used looksmaxxing as a cope (when I acheive a certain level of looks, I will try). Basically delaying my life.
Non blackpilled normies life mog us
Normies (I am a blackpilled normied btw) life mog us to death because they are closer to the middle of the bell curve than an average forum user. They have a far more favourable mindset for dating and life, because they don't have the weight of the knowledge about dating and foids that we do.
The ideal
The ideal blackpill consuption is being aware of it but not making it a huge interest of yours or god forbid, a part of your personality.
I know lookism is fascinating but beware. Ideally you would take the looksmaxxing info and bail. Once you are here too long you can go back. It's an addiction.
You maybe think it's an addiction to the truth (and there is some truth in that) but it's actually an addiction to being miserable, feeling self-pity and giving up.
You can still escape
I see kids aged 15 asking me to rate them, it honestly saddens me. I'm happy to give out looksmaxxing advice (and good on you for doimg it so early) but this mindset will consume you in the long run.
It's success rate in making people miserable is extremely high.
For lurkers, don't make an account. You risk too much.
Blackpill is just the best generalization
In the end it is just that. It's not the whole truth. It's never black and white. There is always room for exceptions. Don't give up on yourself, and don't overconsume the blackpill.
Conclusion
In conclusion, overconsuming the blackpill ideology can severely harm your life and dating prospects in the long term.
While it offers some benefits, such as increased awareness of certain social dynamics and useful looksmaxxing advice, the negatives far outweigh these advantages.
Embracing the blackpill excessively can lead to a detrimental mindset, characterized by increased pessimism, social isolation, and an unhealthy focus on superficial attributes.
This viewpoint can make rejection feel deeply personal, hinder social interactions, and ultimately lead to a less fulfilling and more miserable life.
It's crucial to strike a balance: take the useful information, but avoid getting consumed by it. For younger individuals especially, it's best to distance yourself from this mindset to ensure a healthier and happier future.
GPT wrote the conclusion
