The day after: A conversation we need to have in this trash hole

[MaghrebGator]

Insha Allah, everyone on this forum will end his inceldom sooner or later. But it's time we start asking the real and uncomfortable questions.

You just got married/whatever other degeneracy you have in mind, yes, you got your dopamine rush, the night of the wedding/whatever unfortunate degeneracy was amazing for the time it lasted, but now the next day comes.

What are you planning to do with your relationship? What is your vision of keeping everything stable, as happy as possible, avoid problems, not feeling overwhelmed, not being sad or numb when things just go wrong and you finally realize that 30 minutes of sex every night doesn’t achieve to make you be fulfilled.

How would you deal with your wife the rest of the day? What would be your hobbies, where would you bring her? I can only imagine restaurants, funfair whenever it's open, etc

What are your conversations going to be about?

It's one of those threads where experienced people could give us advise and explain their own stories. This is as important if not even more than finally finding the girl you like.

 

[NoHoesinOhio]

i shoot her and go back to playing roblox

 

[Daddy's Home]

There are so many questions with so many potential answers, with so many different situations that cannot be categorized only in black and white, but are very much in gray..

But to generally cope as well as possible with everything, you need to have a kind of secure attachment in the first place, a level of conscientiousness as high as possible (these the partner must also have) and by these things generally work themselves out, or if they don't, it is much easier to manage them

Having a person (girlfriend/wife in this case) next to you everyday is a lot of fun and helpful, since you'll be best friends, and you'll basically end up modeling each other as if you were one, or rather, you'll have a copy of you, who can do things that you would generally do yourself alone..

 

[MaghrebGator]

But to generally cope as well as possible with everything, you need to have a kind of secure attachment in the first place, a level of conscientiousness as high as possible (these the partner must also have) and by these things generally work themselves out, or if they don't, it is much easier to manage them

Elaborate more on all this paragraph

 

[Daddy's Home]

Elaborate more on all this paragraph

As I said, there can be a lot to write and discuss, because the subject can be very much developed from many points of view. Choose something more particular if you would like me to tell you specifically about it. I'm not ChatGPT

 

[MaghrebGator]

As I said, there can be a lot to write and discuss, because the subject can be very much developed from many points of view. Choose something more particular if you would like me to tell you specifically about it. I'm not ChatGPT

For not being an AI you sound like the most refined of them.

Anyways, tell us about usual subjects to speak about with a woman.

 

[Daddy's Home]

Anyways, tell us about usual subjects to speak about with a woman.

If you two are still getting to know each other (so you are not in a relationship yet) you can talk about 1. what you have done so far 2. what you are doing now 3. what you want to do in the future. Then you can extend that but to your immediate family, and eventually after if it's something more interesting and unique (like you have a millionaire cousin), you can extend it to your extended family/friends

Related to this, you need to tell her about your school, career, material situation, social circle, and the activities you do in your free time. Also, describe your romantic and sentimental history as briefly as possible, without going into too much detail or putting too much emphasis on it. You can also ask her these things yourself, obviously, it's a discussion, you both have your own window of time in which to describe your experiences and desires.

But the most important thing is to let her know as early as possible what you want from her / what your plans are with her (you just want sex, you want a relationship but you're not ready for a serious one and LTR, you want an LTR but no marriage and kids, you want a marriage but no kids, or you would be willing with her to go even as far as marriage and kids if everything goes well. There are many options, and you need to determine these things)

But very important is more what you should NOT say/discuss with her:

1. Your subhuman hobbyes, like sitting all day on the internet, watching anime, playing video games, going to the gym, etc. which all point to you being a human failure in life..
2. Her history of sexual partners, or about her love life in general (it's natural to ask her that, but as I said, very briefly, like ''How was your last relationship? What went wrong? Ahh.. this, ok..''' and that's it, nothing more, nothing less)

If you're already in a relationship, talk about the events of the day, what interesting things the people you interacted with that day had to say, what news you have about anything that she should know about, what you want to eat, how you're planning your next round of doing things around the house, what you've read/seen interesting or funny on the internet, discuss a particular movie/show/TV show. Discuss the political situation and events of the day, or news in general about the city you live in or the country you live in.

There's a shit ton of things to talk about, you can never run out, the point is just to be both of you to talk about them, if you feel like talking..

 

[MaghrebGator]

If you two are still getting to know each other (so you are not in a relationship yet) you can talk about 1. what you have done so far 2. what you are doing now 3. what you want to do in the future. Then you can extend that but to your immediate family, and eventually after if it's something more interesting and unique (like you have a millionaire cousin), you can extend it to your extended family/friends

For God's sake not the millionaire cousin thing again. You need to keep her to yourself, not to throw her into his arms.

Related to this, you need to tell her about your school, career, material situation, social circle, and the activities you do in your free time.

Yes, but don't mention this trash hole website on all of that.

Also, describe your romantic and sentimental history as briefly as possible, without going into too much detail or putting too much emphasis on it.

Don't worry, i think everyone here is confident to showcase his abilities and outperform on this one.

You can also ask her these things yourself, obviously, it's a discussion, you both have your own window of time in which to describe your experiences and desires.

I think this one should be emphasized. They sau the best relationships are the ones in which the man is silent and the woman is talkative. It's better if you talk about her and barely mention things about yourself until she almost begs you.

But the most important thing is to let her know as early as possible what you want from her / what your plans are with her (you just want sex, you want a relationship but you're not ready for a serious one and LTR, you want an LTR but no marriage and kids, you want a marriage but no kids, or you would be willing with her to go even as far as marriage and kids if everything goes well. There are many options, and you need to determine these things)

But very important is more what you should NOT say/discuss with her:

1. Your subhuman hobbyes, like sitting all day on the internet, watching anime, playing video games, going to the gym, etc. which all point to you being a human failure in life..

I knew it!! I just knew it!!!

2. Her history of sexual partners, or about her love life in general (it's natural to ask her that, but as I said, very briefly, like ''How was your last relationship? What went wrong? Ahh.. this, ok..''' and that's it, nothing more, nothing less)

Yeah, it's like you are making her relate your image to bad past experiences.

If you're already in a relationship, talk about the events of the day, what interesting things the people you interacted with that day had to say, what news you have about anything that she should know about, what you want to eat, how you're planning your next round of doing things around the house, what you've read/seen interesting or funny on the internet, discuss a particular movie/show/TV show. Discuss the political situation and events of the day, or news in general about the city you live in or the country you live in.

There's a shit ton of things to talk about, you can never run out, the point is just to be both of you to talk about them, if you feel like talking..

Nice response, AIs are getting some real grip lately. Good AI.

 

[Daddy's Home]

For God's sake not the millionaire cousin thing again. You need to keep her to yourself, not to throw her into his arms.

Who happens to be older than her by 30, has 3 kids and a wife

I think this one should be emphasized. They sau the best relationships are the ones in which the man is silent and the woman is talkative. It's better if you talk about her and barely mention things about yourself until she almost begs you.

Neh, you have to constantly convince her and assure her that you are a real man by the things you do and are going to do, so that she doesn't look for another chad in the meantime..

Yeah, it's like you are making her relate your image to bad past experiences.

It's more like that you inspire her that you might feel insecure about your own capabilities and maturity, if you have a problem with her past, or if something about it bothers you

Nice response, AIs are getting some real grip lately. Good AI.

 

[MaghrebGator]

Go ahead @Suns9999 weren't you so low inhib with your going around trying to convince people in the street of eating raw meat

Enlighten us

 

[MaghrebGator]

@SecularIslamist what are your plans

 

[Suns9999]

Go ahead @Suns9999 weren't you so low inhib with your going around trying to convince people in the street of eating raw meat

Enlighten us

i don’t know what you’re talking about, i think you got the wrong person man

 

[notsocommonthumb]

i've been told by a guy that having sec too much ruins the relationship and 2 girls agreed with him and said that once a week was perfect

 

[SecularIslamist]

@SecularIslamist what are your plans

I don't know. This thought haunts. I've never had compatibility with women. My interests, my hobbies they are just more seen as a more manly thing.