The fact that 99% of women don't approach

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It's brutal, only good looking guys are confident enough to approach, no 5'7 LTN can approach foids so what can you do? absolutely nothing, this is why there is an incel and male loneliness epidemic. Average guys cannot approach due to them being mocked and humiliated in public and if you can't approach then you're incel for life because women will not approach. It's so retarded, i think women should approach men half the time atleast to keep things balanced.

You are basically trapped and stuck if you are average or below average as a man, especially if you're a manlet because you can't approach girls and no foid is ever going to approach so you literally can't do anything but stay incel.

Tall normalfags will say "dude just approach some girls and you'll get a gf", it's "just bee yourself" tier advice, it doesn't work because it's not really feasible. Women make it a point to humiliate and embarrass any sub-par man that approaches them. The only lucky ones are the guys who somehow have the foid make the first move.
 
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When girls do approach. Oblivious people like me are usually tired or confused asf
 
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They approach retard
I always see good looking guys (htns) around beckies
Even I got approached once
Low inhib foids will always give IOIs atleast
But I approached foids the most tbh
 
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They approach retard
I always see good looking guys (htns) around beckies
Even I got approached once
Low inhib foids will always give IOIs atleast
No they don't you fucking retard. Only tall chadlites/HTNs might get approached and even then it's not often. Below HTN = 0 chance of being approached.
 
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No they don't you fucking retard. Only tall chadlites/HTNs might get approached and even then it's not often. Below HTN = 0 chance of being approached.
Where do you live where only Chadlites get approached by foids, is not like they ask for number right off the bat they just say hi and ask an obvious question about the place. Foids who ask for number right away are super rare tho.
 
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Where do you live where only Chadlites get approached by foids, is not like they ask for number right off the bat they just say hi and ask an obvious question about the place.
No they don't i live in the UK and have never seen thsi happen. Women don't approach, not even to ask random questions like that. What cope is this? maybe in whatever country you live in it's different but i doubt it
 
No they don't i live in the UK and have never seen thsi happen. Women don't approach, not even to ask random questions like that. What cope is this? maybe in whatever country you live in it's different but i doubt
Men shoudnt cold approach cus it has never worked for me. Women are now the ones approaching because if you're not a HTN+ cold approaching is useless asf. You need to receive the signal and act. Women are choosing their men now, men (incels) can't do anything about it hypergamy is on the rise and dating is dying.
 
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they will all approach if you are attractive enough. We just will never get to experience it.
 
jfl as a tallfag if I approached a girl I think she would pepper spray me
 
i’ve been approached many times but it was always girls when they’re with their friends. otherwise they just stare and peek at you and it’s up to you to take the bait
 
I've been approached more than once, but this doesn't contradict that yes, some foids absolutely will not approach a guy unless they're really drunk or something. My sister has done it once in her life, when she was in her early 20s, she was in a gift shop somewhere and a legit giga Chad walked in, she called me to tell me about it afterwards. But just like the times foids have approached me, it was awkward and didn't lead to anything.
 
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It is only possible to get "approached" in a drunk setting? You're in ethnic central but have you been past a club, or gone to a house party?
Women act insanely different. How do you think I lost my V? Otherwise I would have been KHHV to this day.

Clubs/Bars/house parties: There is definitely a chance for MTNs and even NTmaxxed LTNs as long as they are in a drunk setting with women. They need to have a few drinks and then they let their guard down and start being very social and talkative. Yes, they can make the first move. It's still common for men to do it, but they will definitely give you signals to do it.

Work/School/Grocery store/ Gym: In non-degen settings, women will at best give ambiguous signs to a guy she is interested (laugh at jokes, try to sit near him etc). There is still no sure fire way to know she likes him or will make a move. These situations best reserved for chadlites. I doubt even HTNs would get approached by a women.
 
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Where do you live where only Chadlites get approached by foids, is not like they ask for number right off the bat they just say hi and ask an obvious question about the place. Foids who ask for number right away are super rare tho.
He overrates men. Called this recessed subhuman balding currycel a mtn jfl.

Imo, if you are at least mtn, you will get some attention.
 
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It is only possible to get "approached" in a drunk setting? You're in ethnic central but have you been past a club, or gone to a house party?
Women act insanely different. How do you think I lost my V? Otherwise I would have been KHHV to this day.

Clubs/Bars/house parties: There is definitely a chance for MTNs and even NTmaxxed LTNs as long as they are in a drunk setting with women. They need to have a few drinks and then they let their guard down and start being very social and talkative. Yes, they can make the first move. It's still common for men to do it, but they will definitely give you signals to do it.

Work/School/Grocery store/ Gym: In non-degen settings, women will at best give ambiguous signs to a guy she is interested (laugh at jokes, try to sit near him etc). There is still no sure fire way to know she likes him or will make a move. These situations best reserved for chadlites. I doubt even HTNs would get approached by a women.
Legit.

But I think threshold for the second situation is more like MTN-HTN. And I mean a legit MTN-HTN as perceived by normies and not the low standards of this site.
 
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i literally met my gf by cold approaching her at school
 
I was already being approached regularly when I looked like shit years ago.
 
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I was already being approached regularly when I looked like shit years ago.
means you looked good then. Your pre looksmax beats my post to the ground its over for me.
 
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ive gotten approached multiple times in clubs & bars and im not even CL
 
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I was already being approached regularly when I looked like shit years ago.
Hypergamy is a meme.

Doesn’t exist outside dating apps and you can still get dates if you are normie with a good profile
 
It's brutal, only good looking guys are confident enough to approach, no 5'7 LTN can approach foids so what can you do? absolutely nothing, this is why there is an incel and male loneliness epidemic. Average guys cannot approach due to them being mocked and humiliated in public and if you can't approach then you're incel for life because women will not approach. It's so retarded, i think women should approach men half the time atleast to keep things balanced.

You are basically trapped and stuck if you are average or below average as a man, especially if you're a manlet because you can't approach girls and no foid is ever going to approach so you literally can't do anything but stay incel.

Tall normalfags will say "dude just approach some girls and you'll get a gf", it's "just bee yourself" tier advice, it doesn't work because it's not really feasible. Women make it a point to humiliate and embarrass any sub-par man that approaches them. The only lucky ones are the guys who somehow have the foid make the first move.
they don't need to approach
 
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no foid ever approached me

im 34yo
 
It is only possible to get "approached" in a drunk setting? You're in ethnic central but have you been past a club, or gone to a house party?
Women act insanely different. How do you think I lost my V? Otherwise I would have been KHHV to this day.

Clubs/Bars/house parties: There is definitely a chance for MTNs and even NTmaxxed LTNs as long as they are in a drunk setting with women. They need to have a few drinks and then they let their guard down and start being very social and talkative. Yes, they can make the first move. It's still common for men to do it, but they will definitely give you signals to do it.

Work/School/Grocery store/ Gym: In non-degen settings, women will at best give ambiguous signs to a guy she is interested (laugh at jokes, try to sit near him etc). There is still no sure fire way to know she likes him or will make a move. These situations best reserved for chadlites. I doubt even HTNs would get approached by a women.
House parties are more of an American thing and what makes you think house parties are even a thing in ethnic central locations? they aren't. Ethnics do not have "house parties" JFL. You are talking about something that happened to you 10-11 years ago, times have changed. Women even just 10 years ago were far better and more receptive to men, also the whole tinder/dating shit wasn't on steroids like it is now. And what do you mean women act insanely different? isn't that the whole point of me saying they act differently when they're drunk? what are they doing in house parties... they're drinking which makes you lower inhib. Anyways you are a failed normie, you don't know the struggles of a truecel lifelong NEET.
>Clubs
Lol @ going to a club when 5'8 LTN or even MTN like yourself.
>Bars
Only 30+ year olds hang around here
>house parties
mostly not a thing in the UK and definitely don't exist in ethnic locations.
>grocery store / gym
Women do not want to be approached while shopping or working out, even a retard like me knows as much so why mention it?
>work/school
Yes, this is part of the proximitypill i mentioned, i didn't really state otherwise and have always mentioned the proximitypill being very important.
 
i literally met my gf by cold approaching her at school
No shit, you're 6'1 and like MTN or something right? and you live in slav land so what is there to be surprised about? ofc tall decent looking guy can cold approach and most likely get a warm reaction.
 
they don't need to approach
That's the point of my thread, the fact they don't need to approach means it's over for the average man and why we have an incel/male loneliness epidemic.
 
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Legit.

But I think threshold for the second situation is more like MTN-HTN. And I mean a legit MTN-HTN as perceived by normies and not the low standards of this site.
Nonsense, see my reply to secular above.
 
I've been approached more than once, not in clubs or bars.
I agree that relying on approaches is not reliable btw
 
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