the more friends the better your health

[Bewusst]

It's over for many of us.

 

[onnysk]

we're here to socialize low key

 

[Aesthetic]

Real friends are almost impossible to come by

But if you mean conditional superficial ones then sure

 

[Bewusst]

Real friends are almost impossible to come by

But if you mean conditional superficial ones then sure

"Real friends" is an elastic term, I think that any companionship which yields more total positive experiences than negative ones is beneficial.

 

[toolateforme]

The better looking you are the happier
The watery you get the wetter

 

[SixFootManlet]

Next up you're going to tell me the more chiseled your jawline the better your mental health from fucking all the Stacies.

legit, son

 

[Bewusst]

The better looking you are the happier
The watery you get the wetter

Next up you're going to tell me the more chiseled your jawline the better your mental health from fucking all the Stacies.

legit, son

This isn't only about mental health but physical health and lifespan also. It's assumed that a good number of (quality) friendships can retain physical health despite living an otherwise unhealthy lifestyle (drugs, bad diet, lack of sleep etc.). Read the last sentence on top right in the picture. It's as fascinating to me as it is disturbing.

 

[SixFootManlet]

It's assumed that a good number of (quality) friendships can retain physical health despite living an otherwise unhealthy lifestyle

Yeah that explains why good looking Chads can look healthy while living the most degenerate lifestyle imaginable.

Stress is the #1 cause of bad health.

 

[Effortless]

Real friends are almost impossible to come by

But if you mean conditional superficial ones then sure

Exactly, I can say I have a lot of friends but I don't really give a fuck about them apart from 5 of my best mates.

 

[SixFootManlet]

Exactly, I can say I have a lot of friends but I don't really give a fuck about them apart from 5 of my best mates.

With that said, I think it's more about that feeling of belonging. Or that feeling of being valued in a social circle. That you and your opinions matter.

I've had that various points in my life (even though I wouldn't call them 'real' friends) and yeah those points were definitely the highest for me, health-wise.

 

[Bewusst]

Yeah that explains why good looking Chads can look healthy while living the most degenerate lifestyle imaginable.

Stress is the #1 cause of bad health.

The question that instantly comes to my mind knowing all this is, how can I make (good) friends? How can loneliness be fixed if nobody cares to be friends/spend time regularly with me even though I'm a reliable person? What else can be done other than looksmaxxing (obviously) and trying to interact with more people and low-inhib-maxx?

 

[Aesthetic]

Exactly, I can say I have a lot of friends but I don't really give a fuck about them apart from 5 of my best mates.

True, most ¨friends¨ are replaceable

 

[Deleted member 1551]

The only true friends i have are people i've known for 10 years + . Exactly 3. All the other ones are "bekannte". Imo as older you get the more difficult it becomes to get "real" friends

 

[SixFootManlet]

The question that instantly comes to my mind knowing all this is, how can I make (good) friends? How can loneliness be fixed if nobody cares to be friends/spend time regularly with me even though I'm a reliable person? What else can be done other than looksmaxxing (obviously) and trying to interact with more people and low-inhib-maxx?

For me it's always been down to random luck.

I have a difficult time making friends unless the stars align right 100%. I just can't relate to people - that's always been my problem. In fact I'd say I'd never had a true ride-or-die friend in my 20+ years of existence on this planet. Every single friend has been more like a hang-out buddy than a friend now that I think about it.

 

[Bewusst]

For me it's always been down to random luck.

I have a difficult time making friends unless the stars align right 100%. I just can't relate to people - that's always been my problem. In fact I'd say I'd never had a true ride-or-die friend in my 20+ years of existence on this planet. Every single friend has been more like a hang-out buddy than a friend now that I think about it.

The image of the best friend who would die for you and who is willing to give back at least as much as you invest, that someone who'd cancel any date with a female for you and would always be reliable - the image you get in Hollywood movies - does not resemble reality 99.9% of the time. So that's a fake image implanted into our heads by television.

But people who you hang out with regularly and who you have a good time with are not any less valuable and yield exactly the same (physical) health benefits mentioned before.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Big part of the problem is technology. I wish I grew up in a time before video games, I’d have spent way more time being social and playing sports

 

[Bewusst]

Big part of the problem is technology. I wish I grew up in a time before video games, I’d have spent way more time being social and playing sports

Absolutely.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Absolutely.

My kids will be rural raised, home schooled jocks. They won’t be chads ofc but they’ll at least be nt, happy, and healthy

 

[Bewusst]

My kids will be rural raised, home schooled jocks. They won’t be chads ofc but they’ll at least be nt, happy, and healthy

Good luck with that

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Good luck with that

Thanks brah