The more time you spend being social, the happier you will be.

[Deleted member 90909]

Isolation breeds a self-destructive mindset. The physical comfort, the safety, of being alone starts to become addicting, and you begin to, slowly, forget what it means to be happy. You start doubting yourself; the thoughts of self-hatred dominate, and it gradually becomes progressively more difficult to break free.

I think the best possible method of mitigating unhappiness is simply making the effort, no matter how difficult it may be, to be more social, to put yourself out there. It's healing.

 

[TheVoidInside]

good luck being social when you are constantly meeting neurotic hypercompetitive asexualic people since you were 14 or so

 

[fashioncel]

Isolation breeds a self-destructive mindset. The physical comfort, the safety, of being alone starts to become addicting, and you begin to, slowly, forget what it means to be happy. You start doubting yourself; the thoughts of self-hatred dominate, and it gradually becomes progressively more difficult to break free.

I think the best possible method of mitigating unhappiness is simply making the effort, no matter how difficult it may be, to be more social, to put yourself out there. It's healing.

Good advice but I'm a truecel

 

[Deleted member 90909]

Good advice but I'm a truecel

That isn't going to change unless you spend more time being social.

 

[fashioncel]

That isn't going to change unless you spend more time being social.

You can't be a truecel if you are social

 

[Deleted member 90909]

You can't be a truecel if you are social

Well, that's why you should be social lol

 

[fashioncel]

Well, that's why you should be social lol

No I'm saying a truecel is incapable of being social

 

[Deleted member 90909]

No I'm saying a truecel is incapable of being social

This is just a belief, and it's a comforting one that absolves you from having to try, which is exactly what I'm talking about. Gotta change your mindset, no matter how difficult it may seem.

 

[Eren]

You can't be a truecel if you are social

And you can’t be social if you are truecel

When I was delusional I had a good time socializing
Then I became more aware of the interaction I have with people and I realize I just waste my time

France is particular though maybe it’s different in the US