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Anyone has their lowest point in life, right? That hit hard and told me there was something that needed to be changed. So I did. I started lifting weights, dressing well, being healthy, being more social, engaging with women and men more, learning about psychology and why sexual market value (SMV) works.
Then something happened that affected me more than ever. I was working in a coffee shop as a coffee specialist. The owner, a bald, fat and very ugly man in his thirties, was a "naughty" but "kind" person at the same time. He had a beautiful wife, also in her thirties, two children, and anyone who came into contact with him felt in command of him. He had the so called "mask" because after talking to someone and putting on a "good listener" face, he would gossip about them behind their back. I wondered how such a man could be a magnet for people (and even for women), if people knew he would soon talk "dirty" about them? You can't believe how this man could get women to always talk and laugh at everything he said. (women really loved that they could bring him or wait for him about gossip about other people.)
I could not understand this thing, since I really hate to talk or ironize about other people on their back.
But women came back to him. He was probably 70% of his time talking about other people with a women, making her laugh..
There was clearly something I couldn't see that this man had.
You can feel like him was very "****y" and "naughy" person, but at the same time you can feel his as trusthworthy. But I couldn't explain if he did it naturally, or if it was acting like "naturally", but instead He was doing a lot of work underneath.
In the room you could feel how he always had other people's attention. It was obvious that he was looking for it, like putting himself on the "center of attention", and the way he got her that he made seem completely natural.
But The way he treated his wife then amazed me even more.
Between them at work, I have never seen them kiss or touch each other. Rather he limited himself to "not complying" with his wife's requests. He was very harsh and strict with her, but sometimes, he made fun of her, made noises and had the attitude of a 5 year old. To top it off, he seemed annoyed when she came and asked for something. This woman seemed deranged in her behavior, either she was always laughing, or she was angry. (Infact she would leave the restaurant in full rage, from time to time)
This man also had another side to note, that he was almost "beyond" kind to people. But wasn't he a **** man? He never complied with his wife's requests, he talked behind everyone's back, but is he now a gentleman? In fact, if there was a friend in need, he would leave the restaurant just to help him.
Or if the door knob wasn't working anymore, He would lose his time to fix it.
Also, the latest big thing.
I don't know whether to believe it because I couldn't confirm it, but I was told that it was mostly his wife who was begging him for sex, rather than him. It was as if she asked him, in the form of a prayer, to have sex. Incredible, I was really in disbelief. His wife was really beautiful, like a 7 7.5. How dare you could believe she would crave sex from a 3/4 man?
As someone told here on the forum, we as humans, have a brain, and that it's the thing you have to control right?
From this moment on I understood that we can have our SMV through the roof, and still fail. Just look at famous and divorced people. So I said to myself, that there must be something that goes beyond everything - looks, money, status - and it attracts like a magnet everything. This is fuking the brain right?
I would like to learn this secret, whether it is a behavior or something else.
And Just as I learned math tables or formulas, I want to learn the theory first and then apply it.
Some questions
Will this entire process require us to act "unnaturally" to our person and behaviour, but let the exterior feel like it's "natural"? I mean, you have your values, and you don't own this skill. Would you need to act like a "fake" person in order to be magnetic?
Are person like this guy born "natural", because they didn't study to be, or can we all learn and be able to unlock this "magnet" that is within us and look like natural?
Can we manage to do this even while remaining healthy, stoic, true, loyal, honest people and not pieces of ****, fakes and puppets?
Once you have learned these things on a theoretical and practical level, then know how to apply them and manage to be a magnet, do you feel as if you are too "above" of others and situations, and you lose respect for yourself?
Are those behaviours working because the other human being you are wanting to "fukk the brain", it's "weak" and so prone to "follow others" or to be "manipulated"?
Then something happened that affected me more than ever. I was working in a coffee shop as a coffee specialist. The owner, a bald, fat and very ugly man in his thirties, was a "naughty" but "kind" person at the same time. He had a beautiful wife, also in her thirties, two children, and anyone who came into contact with him felt in command of him. He had the so called "mask" because after talking to someone and putting on a "good listener" face, he would gossip about them behind their back. I wondered how such a man could be a magnet for people (and even for women), if people knew he would soon talk "dirty" about them? You can't believe how this man could get women to always talk and laugh at everything he said. (women really loved that they could bring him or wait for him about gossip about other people.)
I could not understand this thing, since I really hate to talk or ironize about other people on their back.
But women came back to him. He was probably 70% of his time talking about other people with a women, making her laugh..
There was clearly something I couldn't see that this man had.
You can feel like him was very "****y" and "naughy" person, but at the same time you can feel his as trusthworthy. But I couldn't explain if he did it naturally, or if it was acting like "naturally", but instead He was doing a lot of work underneath.
In the room you could feel how he always had other people's attention. It was obvious that he was looking for it, like putting himself on the "center of attention", and the way he got her that he made seem completely natural.
But The way he treated his wife then amazed me even more.
Between them at work, I have never seen them kiss or touch each other. Rather he limited himself to "not complying" with his wife's requests. He was very harsh and strict with her, but sometimes, he made fun of her, made noises and had the attitude of a 5 year old. To top it off, he seemed annoyed when she came and asked for something. This woman seemed deranged in her behavior, either she was always laughing, or she was angry. (Infact she would leave the restaurant in full rage, from time to time)
This man also had another side to note, that he was almost "beyond" kind to people. But wasn't he a **** man? He never complied with his wife's requests, he talked behind everyone's back, but is he now a gentleman? In fact, if there was a friend in need, he would leave the restaurant just to help him.
Or if the door knob wasn't working anymore, He would lose his time to fix it.
Also, the latest big thing.
I don't know whether to believe it because I couldn't confirm it, but I was told that it was mostly his wife who was begging him for sex, rather than him. It was as if she asked him, in the form of a prayer, to have sex. Incredible, I was really in disbelief. His wife was really beautiful, like a 7 7.5. How dare you could believe she would crave sex from a 3/4 man?
As someone told here on the forum, we as humans, have a brain, and that it's the thing you have to control right?
From this moment on I understood that we can have our SMV through the roof, and still fail. Just look at famous and divorced people. So I said to myself, that there must be something that goes beyond everything - looks, money, status - and it attracts like a magnet everything. This is fuking the brain right?
I would like to learn this secret, whether it is a behavior or something else.
And Just as I learned math tables or formulas, I want to learn the theory first and then apply it.
Some questions
Will this entire process require us to act "unnaturally" to our person and behaviour, but let the exterior feel like it's "natural"? I mean, you have your values, and you don't own this skill. Would you need to act like a "fake" person in order to be magnetic?
Are person like this guy born "natural", because they didn't study to be, or can we all learn and be able to unlock this "magnet" that is within us and look like natural?
Can we manage to do this even while remaining healthy, stoic, true, loyal, honest people and not pieces of ****, fakes and puppets?
Once you have learned these things on a theoretical and practical level, then know how to apply them and manage to be a magnet, do you feel as if you are too "above" of others and situations, and you lose respect for yourself?
Are those behaviours working because the other human being you are wanting to "fukk the brain", it's "weak" and so prone to "follow others" or to be "manipulated"?
