Ondaverge
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Now before people start coping with "muh neurodivergent is superior" I hope you realized that I said minimize, not remove all ND traits. NDs have a lot of pros that NTs cannot fathom like being hyper-aware of social situations, good at pattern recognition, and hyper-focused on things that they are interested in (hence why org is ridden with NDs). Nevertheless, there are still cons in being ND, particularly in the social field, in which NTs excel in. So now that we're clear, the question is how can you adopt the sociability of the NT while still keeping the Analyzing mind of the ND? Well firstly, to be NT you have to understand how the NT thinks. The sociability of the NT comes out to three things: a) What can I get from you, b) How can I get this in the fastest way possible and c) How can I keep this cycle going. This is where i believe the NT succeeds in and where the ND fails. ND people think of conversating in two manners, if they don't like the conversation it is "how can I get out of this situation in the fastest way possible", and if they do like it then it is "what is the perfect thing to say in this situation". The ND mind often ignores the possible benefits of the conversation, and subsequently, also ignore the goal that they are trying to achieve with it. So in a case of slaying, when talking to a person you want to slay stop thinking about it in terms of "how can I be perfect", think of it as saying whatever that can keep the convo alive even if its dumb as hell, because the more you talk with someone, the fonder they get of you. Now this is more of an inhibition thing but one thing the NT excels at is making it clear what they want without. The ND, although being good at reading peoples via pattern recognition, absolutely sucks at realizing that more people hide their true emotions to fit the societal norms. Have you ever seen a giga-sociable mf talk to some multi-million dollar nigga? It's obvious to both parties that they are being annoying, but they are extremely good at keeping you talking to the point that you forget that you were even annoyed by them, and like I said, the more you talk to someone, the fonder they get of you. So applying this into the concept of slaying, try to talk to them for as long as possible until they are comfortable with you and initiate convos, then you can start hanging around them, and by the time that starts, its probably very obvious to them that you like them. If you're any other race than black you can click off now, cause this doesn't really apply to you. Alright so as a person who is currently in the hood (corny ash but I'm not lying), its almost death tier to be seen as a ND, high-inhib black person. Since the invention of hollywood, we've been stereotyped by the media as a group of people who are extremely NT and do whatever tf they want, and as much as I don't like that, there is not much we can change about that, now i;m not telling you to thugmax and throw your life away over a street some white fk owns, but it's important to portray yourself as one of those guys who can't be fked with by them dudes. I'm presuming most of yall reading this are in highschool so what I advise yall is to become friends with those guys if you didn't do so in middle school, don't hang around them outside of school, but if they're in one of your classes sit with them there. These people are often the biggest NT fks in the school that always have some girls around them, by being friends with those guys, it become very easy to become friends with those girls, and before you say 'I don't want to fk some ghetto girl", I get that, but you have to realize that those girls are often mutual with the actual high tier girls, and when those girls see that you can talk to women and aren't some asocial loser, they'll be more inclined to talk to you or continue talking to you if you approach them. With all them other races, they can get away with being a geek because media has normalized that shit, but for us black brahs, this is the main method of increasing your school smv and slaying. This is the end of my first thread so I hope yall mess with it, there will be more to come and give some critiques if you want, I'm open to anything.
