PatriceLumumba
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During my first year of University, there was this girl who had a very big crush on me. The first time I met her she was with another friend and they suggested that I come hang out with them. I wanted to chill with some other friends, so I said no and left them alone. A few days later I'm at a soccer game and see her there with another friend. She comes up to me and we start talking for a little bit. I say some spergy things and then she asks for my Snapchat. I don't think anything of it and just give it to her.
A few days later she shows up to my room to talk to my roommate, who's her friend and I tell her about some girl that needs my help with school-related things. She starts asking interrogating me asking if the girl is hot or cute (she thinks I'm good-looking enough to fuck some girl asking for homework help) and I say that the relationship is not like that. This is when I'm starting to think she likes me. Fast forward a few weeks and I'm rotting in my dorm room on a Friday since I'm underage and can't drink with anyone + I have very few good friends. As I'm about to go to sleep, I get a Snapchat from her. I open it and it's just her face with no words. She looks drunk as fuck. I send an autistic thumbs-up selfie in response. We do this back and forth for a bit, and then I decide to sleep.
I think she was a little embarrassed because occasionally I see her and we just smile at each other, but after a while things just seem weird. The next significant event comes during a night out where we end up in the same group. She's drunk as fuck and keeps trying to touch my nose, but her sober friend is there to stop her. She supposedly has a boyfriend, but after a night of drinking, she confronts me about being a rotting incel and seems angry. She asks me why she never sees me around and what the fuck I spend my time doing. I just give another autistic answer and we move on.
We skip ahead to our third year of school and this is when I started to look a little better than I did before. I got a haircut and had enough money to buy some clothes that didn't make me look autistic or poor. This was also when things started to upon up after COVID-19 ended. I run into her at a street festival and she looks excited to see me. I just wave and say hi. Later that day we happen to run into her at a house party. A lot of people have been complimenting me on my haircut and style, but she and her friends are literally glazing at me and telling me how great I look. I jester for a little bit and tell the worst jokes, but she finds them hilarious and bends over laughing at one point.
At this point, it's important to realize that I was in a pretty bad place mentally and academically and was not interested in dating women at all.
I wake up to a message on Snapchat from her where she asks me about some bullshit I told her the night before. I answer and then afterwards she invites me to a party at her house. I tell her no because I'm busy (not really) and need to study. She says fine and maybe we'll see each other another time. Throughout the week she starts sending me pictures of her watching this show I told her about and other autistic shit. Our last relevant interaction comes at the end of the week when she sends me porn that's made from one of the shows and I don't even respond to it. We continue to message each other for a few weeks and see each other at parties, but I'm always making it obvious I don't want to do anything serious. After a while, she loses interest and that's the end of it all.
What I just described happens to Chad literally every single month and sometimes every week. I've watched events like this unfold in real-time. A good-looking guy puts minimal effort into a girl and she acts like he offered her the entire world. My personality had nothing to do with the way this girl treated me. In total I don't think I spent over half an hour talking to her yet she held on to her attraction to me for three fucking years and waited for her opportunity. She was fucking other guys, but thinking about me the whole time. Maybe it sounds like coping, but she only moved on to these other guys after trying her hardest to get with me. I used to honestly believe about IOI or women being scared to approach guys, but after that experience, I realized if a girl is into she will 100% make it obvious. This girl embarrassed herself for over a year just for the opportunity to have some kind of relationship with me.
A few days later she shows up to my room to talk to my roommate, who's her friend and I tell her about some girl that needs my help with school-related things. She starts asking interrogating me asking if the girl is hot or cute (she thinks I'm good-looking enough to fuck some girl asking for homework help) and I say that the relationship is not like that. This is when I'm starting to think she likes me. Fast forward a few weeks and I'm rotting in my dorm room on a Friday since I'm underage and can't drink with anyone + I have very few good friends. As I'm about to go to sleep, I get a Snapchat from her. I open it and it's just her face with no words. She looks drunk as fuck. I send an autistic thumbs-up selfie in response. We do this back and forth for a bit, and then I decide to sleep.
I think she was a little embarrassed because occasionally I see her and we just smile at each other, but after a while things just seem weird. The next significant event comes during a night out where we end up in the same group. She's drunk as fuck and keeps trying to touch my nose, but her sober friend is there to stop her. She supposedly has a boyfriend, but after a night of drinking, she confronts me about being a rotting incel and seems angry. She asks me why she never sees me around and what the fuck I spend my time doing. I just give another autistic answer and we move on.
We skip ahead to our third year of school and this is when I started to look a little better than I did before. I got a haircut and had enough money to buy some clothes that didn't make me look autistic or poor. This was also when things started to upon up after COVID-19 ended. I run into her at a street festival and she looks excited to see me. I just wave and say hi. Later that day we happen to run into her at a house party. A lot of people have been complimenting me on my haircut and style, but she and her friends are literally glazing at me and telling me how great I look. I jester for a little bit and tell the worst jokes, but she finds them hilarious and bends over laughing at one point.
At this point, it's important to realize that I was in a pretty bad place mentally and academically and was not interested in dating women at all.
I wake up to a message on Snapchat from her where she asks me about some bullshit I told her the night before. I answer and then afterwards she invites me to a party at her house. I tell her no because I'm busy (not really) and need to study. She says fine and maybe we'll see each other another time. Throughout the week she starts sending me pictures of her watching this show I told her about and other autistic shit. Our last relevant interaction comes at the end of the week when she sends me porn that's made from one of the shows and I don't even respond to it. We continue to message each other for a few weeks and see each other at parties, but I'm always making it obvious I don't want to do anything serious. After a while, she loses interest and that's the end of it all.
What I just described happens to Chad literally every single month and sometimes every week. I've watched events like this unfold in real-time. A good-looking guy puts minimal effort into a girl and she acts like he offered her the entire world. My personality had nothing to do with the way this girl treated me. In total I don't think I spent over half an hour talking to her yet she held on to her attraction to me for three fucking years and waited for her opportunity. She was fucking other guys, but thinking about me the whole time. Maybe it sounds like coping, but she only moved on to these other guys after trying her hardest to get with me. I used to honestly believe about IOI or women being scared to approach guys, but after that experience, I realized if a girl is into she will 100% make it obvious. This girl embarrassed herself for over a year just for the opportunity to have some kind of relationship with me.
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