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Do not be as you are, but as you should be
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I’ve been gatekeeping this idea for a while but even tho y’all are evil self centered narc assholes y’all do contribute still so thought I’d share:
ofc this on its own won’t do the whole trick but if I could only had like 10 seconds to go back in time to tell my younger self one piece of advice it would be this:
find the people who get what you want, and larp the hell out of them. Be like them. Find the girls you like or your type, look at their exes/the guys they like, and dress like them, look like them, talk like them, act like them and do what they do. You see a girl you like in public? She’s with her boyfriend? Perfect. Analyze him, see how he’s walking, the height difference, clothes, jewelry, all of it. People at events who everyone likes? Be like them, what do they do right?
Find the girls you like, find their types, be like them. Even better be better than them, fix what they do wrong.
The problem with this site is y’all are trying to MASS APPEAL and while there are certain universal traits like psl and frame and physique, different people have different traits and maxing out in one area will get you the most success. Would you dress the same for a ratchet street black girl as with like some visco middle class white girl? No you wouldn’t. Like those generic “how all men should dress” videos by that black self improvement guy or how to beast or teaching men’s fashion I jfl because the girls I like would NOT like that lmao. No hate to those guys I know they mean well. Same thing with haircuts.
Holy grail extra tip I gate keep: go to ig: look at girl you like, look at her exes/bf, be like them.
Go to tik tok, search up those videos of women you like saying their green flags or somebody cooked here or those “when he has (insert thing you want to improve like hair or black clothes)” for example search up in tik tok “when he wears all black” you can see if which girls like it when guys wear all black or if they do at all (they do, bonus bonus tip).
You can see if it’s cope or not based on the likes or comments, if attractive girls are commenting then it’s real. I have more tips but idk if y’all are worthy.
Don’t forget to Jesus max, Jesus is real and he will ascend you, you think being happy will make you happy it won’t. The happier you try to be the unhappier you will be, you don’t know what you rlly want or the meaning of life.
ofc this on its own won’t do the whole trick but if I could only had like 10 seconds to go back in time to tell my younger self one piece of advice it would be this:
find the people who get what you want, and larp the hell out of them. Be like them. Find the girls you like or your type, look at their exes/the guys they like, and dress like them, look like them, talk like them, act like them and do what they do. You see a girl you like in public? She’s with her boyfriend? Perfect. Analyze him, see how he’s walking, the height difference, clothes, jewelry, all of it. People at events who everyone likes? Be like them, what do they do right?
Find the girls you like, find their types, be like them. Even better be better than them, fix what they do wrong.
The problem with this site is y’all are trying to MASS APPEAL and while there are certain universal traits like psl and frame and physique, different people have different traits and maxing out in one area will get you the most success. Would you dress the same for a ratchet street black girl as with like some visco middle class white girl? No you wouldn’t. Like those generic “how all men should dress” videos by that black self improvement guy or how to beast or teaching men’s fashion I jfl because the girls I like would NOT like that lmao. No hate to those guys I know they mean well. Same thing with haircuts.
Holy grail extra tip I gate keep: go to ig: look at girl you like, look at her exes/bf, be like them.
Go to tik tok, search up those videos of women you like saying their green flags or somebody cooked here or those “when he has (insert thing you want to improve like hair or black clothes)” for example search up in tik tok “when he wears all black” you can see if which girls like it when guys wear all black or if they do at all (they do, bonus bonus tip).
You can see if it’s cope or not based on the likes or comments, if attractive girls are commenting then it’s real. I have more tips but idk if y’all are worthy.
Don’t forget to Jesus max, Jesus is real and he will ascend you, you think being happy will make you happy it won’t. The happier you try to be the unhappier you will be, you don’t know what you rlly want or the meaning of life.
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