the problem isn’t the camera lens, nor is it your mirror, it’s the way you perceive yourself in your own mind

[swt]

you’ll never know how you’ll look like to other people, not even with the “true mirror” for fucks sake,

you can visibly see what you look like but you’ll never be same same version that you see yourself as in your peoples heads, people will never be aware of how attractive they actually are no matter how hard they try, even if they know exactly how they look irl, it’ll never be accurate in their own heads.

you may look at yourself even in the ‘true mirror’ and think something like “my eyebrows are thick and i look masculine” but maybe in someone else’s head you have weird eyebrows and a baby face, you will NEVER know

 

[NoLongerHuman]

nah if you're hot you'll know it

why do you think hot people go to tiktok and do thirst traps?

 

[swt]

and that’s exactly why so many people walk around dressing retarded and looking like bums.

they may see themselves as a certain way, but it isn’t how it is in other’s heads. same goes for haircut, face, clothes etc

 

[swt]

nah if you're hot you'll know it

why do you think hot people go to tiktok and do thirst traps?

someone may be able to tell if they’re hot but not everyone who thinks they’re hot actually are hot, that’s why you can never trust yourself, this is exactly why we have ugly but narcissistic assholes roaming around, it’s lack of self awareness

unless you have girls telling you you’re hot or people overall, if not, then you probably aren’t.

 

[silently_said]

even with true mirror you will slowly be accustomed to the way you look on it due to mere exposure effect
so you have to cycle between normal and true mirror

 

[thecel]

you may look at yourself even in the ‘true mirror’ and think something like “my eyebrows are thick and i look masculine” but maybe in someone else’s head you have weird eyebrows and a baby face, you will NEVER know

Can confirm the difference that the mind can make to facial perception. Getting high makes me perceive my reflection as a girl. I see a male in the mirror when not high.

 

[incel194012940]

Can confirm the difference that the mind can make to facial perception. Getting high makes me perceive my reflection as a girl. I see a male in the mirror when not high.

you should get other people high then

 

[thecel]

you should get other people high then

why not just do molly if resorting to drugs to try to get intimacy?

 

[keepcopingboyo]

nah if you're hot you'll know it

why do you think hot people go to tiktok and do thirst traps?

Kinda true-ish ig but also heaps of ugly ppl who do this thinking they look good.

From experience, good looking people tend to downplay their attractiveness. They don't go around thinking they are way better than other dueds, but they just act like normal people and don't see themselves as attractive as others think.