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First, we all know if we put a subhuman nice guy and a better looking bad guy side by side, the woman will choose the bad guy regardless. But what happens if the bad guy is ugly too? Why do woman still choose bad guys?
Attraction for women is not logical, it drives by emotion and only that. It’s influenced by hormones and subconscious sexual desires and drives
1. Women want short time excitement instead of mild constant boring love. Bad guys ofen seem confident, not caring about rules for example can feel thrilling because they come off as unique and cool instead of boring law abiding boring nice guys. We can even tie this back to primal instincts, woman may subconsciously associate these risky traits with strength, protection and good genes.
2. Masculinity wins over kindness. In short term, bad guys have more sexual appeal because of them being more dominant and masculine, this comes off as high test and big social status. So the nice guys kindness and reliability doesn’t stand out that much and there is no sexual interest in them at first sight. The consequence for this is that women end up in long term toxic relationships. And they somehow get surprised. Especially if they have avoidant attachment styles ending up with a bad guy is more likely since there is not as much commitment as in a healthy relationship.
3. Limerence. Women often confuse limerence with love(some of you incels probably do too). Bad guys feed on excitement and uncertainty, not on stability. Being on and off, distant then suddenly all loving creates emotional highs and lows. This can become addictive and be mistaken for love. Since nice guys are stable, constantly there for them and kind. This can be boring for women because there are no emotional highs and lows. Just constant mild love. There is nothing to chase, no obsession = no attraction. This is why you often hearpeople say the chase is better than actually being in a relationship.
Im not saying you have to turn into a bad guy to get girls, but this explains the low iq women who go after bad guys and not a kind incel like you. To get a loving relationship, being bad instead of nice wont help, but it will maybe help for short term sexual attraction. So you have to ask yourself whats more important for you? Morals or getting girls.
Btw this is my first real explanation thread and @IronMike inspired me to make this
Attraction for women is not logical, it drives by emotion and only that. It’s influenced by hormones and subconscious sexual desires and drives
1. Women want short time excitement instead of mild constant boring love. Bad guys ofen seem confident, not caring about rules for example can feel thrilling because they come off as unique and cool instead of boring law abiding boring nice guys. We can even tie this back to primal instincts, woman may subconsciously associate these risky traits with strength, protection and good genes.
2. Masculinity wins over kindness. In short term, bad guys have more sexual appeal because of them being more dominant and masculine, this comes off as high test and big social status. So the nice guys kindness and reliability doesn’t stand out that much and there is no sexual interest in them at first sight. The consequence for this is that women end up in long term toxic relationships. And they somehow get surprised. Especially if they have avoidant attachment styles ending up with a bad guy is more likely since there is not as much commitment as in a healthy relationship.
3. Limerence. Women often confuse limerence with love(some of you incels probably do too). Bad guys feed on excitement and uncertainty, not on stability. Being on and off, distant then suddenly all loving creates emotional highs and lows. This can become addictive and be mistaken for love. Since nice guys are stable, constantly there for them and kind. This can be boring for women because there are no emotional highs and lows. Just constant mild love. There is nothing to chase, no obsession = no attraction. This is why you often hearpeople say the chase is better than actually being in a relationship.
Im not saying you have to turn into a bad guy to get girls, but this explains the low iq women who go after bad guys and not a kind incel like you. To get a loving relationship, being bad instead of nice wont help, but it will maybe help for short term sexual attraction. So you have to ask yourself whats more important for you? Morals or getting girls.
Btw this is my first real explanation thread and @IronMike inspired me to make this
